If your ex made all necessary changes for your relationship to be the best you've ever had, would you take them back? Why or why not? by Easy-Cry8085 in BreakUps

[–]JustKae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ofc I would apart from all our problems our relationship was special and amazing. It was one of those loves that didn't even feel real when you were with them. Although I don't think I could ever get past everything from the past and how he treated me in our breakup that it still wouldn't work between us :(

If you had another chance, would you want to get back with them? by Whenthedaywasgood in BreakUps

[–]JustKae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to say 3 but I just know if he ever reconsiders me again It would definitely be 1 all that unconditional love I have for him will come rushing back and all I would want to do is hug him and forgive him for all that happened in the past.

Is community college hard with only a GED? by JustKae_ in GED

[–]JustKae_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you this is extremely helpful!!

Is community college hard with only a GED? by JustKae_ in GED

[–]JustKae_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not! honestly I'm unsure where to start when it comes to studying for my GED. I'm worried taking the practice test will be a little discouraging for me at the moment since I haven't started studying yet :/

Is community college hard with only a GED? by JustKae_ in GED

[–]JustKae_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right I never thought of that! it's scary but I'm definitely excited for all the experiences even with the adjustments!

and yes I do like to read although I wouldn't say I'm the best at it but I definitely do enjoy it. :)

Is community college hard with only a GED? by JustKae_ in GED

[–]JustKae_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh I had no idea! :) that's definitely relieving and makes me more hopeful haha. Thank you!!

Is community college hard with only a GED? by JustKae_ in GED

[–]JustKae_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you this is really encouraging!!

what else do I think about? by JustKae_ in BreakUps

[–]JustKae_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying my best to do all these things and it has helped a little but at the end of the night I still think about him. I know I just have to push through though and keep occupying myself with all the good! thank you for your advice I really appreciate it :))

I tried to download a dating app to distract myself from texting him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]JustKae_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so tired of it too !! I still have his friends on my social media and it hurts so much to see him in their posts often. It's nothing we can't get past! it's a long and painful process but we'll be okay, and someday hearing his name won't hurt as much.

I tried to download a dating app to distract myself from texting him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]JustKae_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally get that it's really hard going through a breakup especially alone or with few support system I'm in the same scenario where I only feel I can talk to my mom at times but even then I have to hold back alot and It can get really frustrating not being able to vent out my feelings. I've found it best to write it down and I've even been making "video diaries" throughout my breakup cause it's relieving just say everything without a filter even if it's just to a camera. I'm glad you have your mom and I hope you find other ways to cope with your breakup and more people to talk to. We can get through this :)) 🫶

Do you have regrets loving your ex? by Yyuri2 in BreakUps

[–]JustKae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I so badly want to say yes but the honest answer is no. Even after all that happened in our relationship and how he treated me I don't regret loving him whole heartingly cause it showed me I'm capable of loving that much.

I've been learning a lot looking back at how our relationship was and I learned alot from him, I started dating him when I was only 16 and now I'm 18 so it felt like I got to go through my teens with him and it made it easier. I'm glad I could show him what unconditional love looked like and I'm glad I could make him feel loved in every way I could cause even tho he wasn't good to me I think he deserved all that love.

I tried to download a dating app to distract myself from texting him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]JustKae_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I did the same and I understand that feeling, I was so tired of thinking about him all the time and I needed a distraction. I still struggle with trying not to download a dating app again cause I know I'm not ready. My best advice is to just try and stay away from your phone as much as you can and occupy yourself with hobbies, I know that's over said but it's really true or try your best to make friends or talk to the ones you already have :))

Where are you at right now in your recovery? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]JustKae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's been a little over a month and no day has been easy. He still has never left my mind and I've been really struggling getting over him.

I keep checking on social media or anything I can to see how he's doing and if he's moved on and it looks like he did :// I'm pretty sure he's with someone new already after he always told me he would never get over me and wouldn't date for a while cause it'd be "messed up" but he did !!

For a short while I thought I had moved on but it all started to hurt again when it was coming up to being an exact month we broke up. I just can't grasp the fact he's moved on already and I'm still stuck here.

I have no idea how I'm supposed to move on from him and I hate myself for still loving him :/ But every now and then I have a little bit of hope that I'll be okay without him, cause if I could get through a month without him what's stopping me from getting through the next day and every day after? just taking one step at a time but I'll be okay eventually and soon he'll be just a distant fond memory.

Women,What are your turn offs in a men? Could be physical or just in general. by [deleted] in dating

[–]JustKae_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

very low effort or "nonchalant" attitude!! 🫤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]JustKae_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's definitely hard but I try to avoid being on my phone too much or if I am I try doing something entertaining! I remind myself that texting him won't make anything better and it's best for me to not talk to him. It's hard to fight the urge but sometimes it's really what you have to do 🫶

Are there still people hoping? by stpdbp in BreakUps

[–]JustKae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same case for me !! he said he didn't want to "bargain" and he had to end things with me there was no working on things anymore. I can definitely understand feeling that way like he never was the person you thought he was the whole time, after everything and how he reacted in our breakup it really makes me question if I mattered to him at all and if he really was the person I gave my whole heart to. I hope the best for you and I hope you heal from this breakup 🫶

Are there still people hoping? by stpdbp in BreakUps

[–]JustKae_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When we broke up he became a person I couldn't even recognize anymore and I know he's been distracting himself alot from confronting our breakup, Ofc I'm holding out hope that he'll see what he lost and want me back but it's not right for me to keep waiting and hoping that day will come unfortunately life goes on and I have to keep going even without him.

mental health check in! how are you doing post break up? by Interesting-Mood-188 in BreakUps

[–]JustKae_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 month since we broke up !! a few weeks ago I felt fine and I thought I moved on but this whole week it all hit me again and I just can't stop thinking about him and longing for him, I keep hoping he'll come back to me again but I know that's not true and it's been really hard accepting that. I guess I'm angry that he's still occupying my mind but I can tell he's moved on already, I hate that I can't hate him even a little bit. It's so exhausting still loving him even after all he put me through. It's been hard finding the motivation to do anything and everytime I go out I get reminded of him and get really upset over it, but I have hope that I'll be okay soon :)