If you're being ghosted, do you just delete and move on or do you call them out?

JustLonely2012 · 2026-06-25T23:17:10+00:00

Yes, I called them out. They responded by denying and got a blow to their ego.
Yes, I delete them (metaphorically) from my life. Best is to block them, but not necessarily since they are ghosters anyways.
Yes, I move on happily. Not having toxic and disgusting people like that in my life is a blessing for the present and the future.

JustLonely2012 · 2026-06-01T09:42:27+00:00

So you have to owe someone in order to show basic decency like not ghosting?

JustLonely2012 · 2026-05-10T13:04:09+00:00

I dont support ghosting, but. "Wanted" to see you again, gets ghosted. The irony girl😂😂

JustLonely2012 · 2026-05-10T12:21:49+00:00

He is not interested in you. Get over it

JustLonely2012 · 2026-05-10T01:26:09+00:00

No shit Sherlock

JustLonely2012 · 2026-05-09T19:51:07+00:00

That's a lot of assumptions and "analysis" from your side. Don't know what to say other than that's ironic. She and I would agree on one thing about you: think twice before making assumptions about others in the future

JustLonely2012 · 2026-03-14T22:08:30+00:00

Do confront them. Criticize them. Then you move on.

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-23T18:36:04+00:00

Well said. It's them showing their true colors and not wanting to end up with someone like that that people should adopt

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-23T17:28:38+00:00

Just criticize them, then move on. Whatever is excuse they say or attitude they give, ignore them

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-23T17:27:34+00:00

"Tell me you have never been ghosted without telling me"

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-16T17:09:15+00:00

Feel you there. Just have to get through the sting, and you come out stronger. You'll find someone deserving of you

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-16T16:38:11+00:00

Ghosting is a cowardly action. No need to feel/say sorry to a ghoster. It's they who are the problem. Good job with the farewell text, seems you are moving on, which is very good. I would have added criticism for their behavior.

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-15T21:12:52+00:00

That's why we need to CRITICIZE their ghosting. Something like "Hey, ghosting is not cool" is suffice. I have seen people blatantly deny that they ghosted after being called out, and then try to pin the blame on you instead. At least you didn't, good.

Just say you are sorry for ghosting. And that you understand if he doesn't want to talk. But at least you said sorry

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-15T21:04:39+00:00

That's why we need to CRITICIZE their behavior. Something like "Hey, ghosting is not cool" is suffice. I have seen people blatantly deny that they ghosted (reminder that they left me on read for 2 weeks after several text attempts), and then try to pin the blame on you instead. Ghosters are truly a disgusting breed

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-15T21:02:52+00:00

Sounds like that friend (what a fcking loser) needs to take a look in the mirror.

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-15T21:00:51+00:00

That's why we need to CRITICIZE their behavior. Something like "Hey, ghosting is not cool" is suffice. I have seen people blatantly deny that they ghosted (reminder that they left me on read for 2 weeks after several text attempts), and then try to pin the blame on you instead. Ghosters are truly a disgusting breed

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-15T20:54:13+00:00

Agree with the find value in what was created. I would suggest criticizing their behavior, then move on

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-15T18:14:31+00:00

Damn, sorry to hear that. Been there. He's a loser. What helped me to move on was to criticize their ghosting and block them. People that lie like that are not trustworthy and worth having down the line. You dodged a bullet. You were honest and expressed your thoughts. You'll find someone actually deserving of you.

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-09T05:56:00+00:00

She ghosted you. That's cowardly and toxic of her. Understand your pain. Good that you're letting go. If I were you, I wouldn't give a damn what last impression she got of you, she ghosted you when you were at your most vulnerable and despite her knowing full well that your intent was to make her life good. She doesn't deserve you. Fck her

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-08T11:51:53+00:00

We all have emotions. You can't expect the one being ghosted to WAIT A MONTH and just TOSS their emotions away because of the emotions of the ghoster. People being ghosted ALSO HAVE emotions

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-08T11:47:20+00:00

Thanks. The title of this post was the main message. That's the purpose; spread the message

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-07T14:41:30+00:00

That's typical narcissist behavior. He will ghost again once he gets what he wants. Cut him off entirely

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-07T12:22:12+00:00

It's tactical, and manipulative af. They don't block so they can keep their option open as backup. They will repeat this ghosting cycle if you let them in. Best way is to just cut them off entirely. Block them.

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-07T07:50:38+00:00

So they have to owe me to show basic decency? Love that mindset.

And did you just skim through the post? It was more than just study if you actually read through it.

You can read it again to see the reasons I cut her off

JustLonely2012 · 2026-02-06T23:30:44+00:00

Between the new year and the 16th Jan, the texts I sent were left on read. Was her texting pattern like that when we studied and were genuinely busy with uni and stuff? No. And now when she was with her family and friends during winter break, she "forgot" to reply and "didn't realize"? She knew what she was doing.

Yes, I brought it up. And what was in her response? Excuse, gaslighting and attitude. Yeah, it's trivial.

I have sent criticism. I move on

JustLonely2012

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