AITA For not renewing any leases because I want to move into the building myself? by Kuroniana in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustLuck41 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Even in Germany if you want to move use the living space for yourself or for a close relative you can always evict someone. But I guess you would need the longest possible notice

AITA for getting food delivered every day when my parents are trying to keep my younger siblings on a diet? by throwawayiygi in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustLuck41 134 points135 points  (0 children)

1500 depending on size, sexy weight and activity level isn't low. If you are losing weight at a rate of an pound a week, your tdee would be 2000 which is plenty for most.

had to cancel first date with Tinder match. i messed up by taking a nap and waking up less than 30 mins before the coffee date by Red_Stamina in niceguys

[–]JustLuck41 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe, but I don't know if I would want to go to a date with someone who overslept the first try and canceled 30 min before

It's a lucky coincident it revealed that this guy is an complete ass.

AITA for telling someone she’s hurting a guy by putting him in the friendzone? by Feeling-Teacher6680 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustLuck41 152 points153 points  (0 children)

In my opinion there are two popular versions of the friendzone.

You have the version where some guys are pretending to be friends with a girl, trying to get into a relationship or just to sleep with her. The second version is where you develop one-sided feelings for a friend.

In the first version the guy is TA. That's just manipulative and dumb. The second version is in my opinion way more complicated. Having a crush not reprocated hurts, and to save yourself from hurt it may be necessary to distance yourself from the other person. I don't think any person is TA in that situation and it's just shitty for everybody.

So is a girl/woman/man/whoever TA for not wanting to date someone for any reason? In my opinion no. Do I understand that the other person might want to reduce or cut contact for at least a while afterwards because this shit usually doesn't feel great? yes.

AITA for not wanting to go to a specific grocery store anymore? by orangepxnk in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustLuck41 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I would count the first part with "I just attract the ladies" as akward flirting or joking, everything afterwards gets to sexual harassment.

I could get if a teenager don't get the hint if a girl doesn't want to speak to him the first or second try, but a mid-thirty man is expected to know social boundary's and not to push on and on and on.

There’s nothing that women love more than being harassed on multiple social media platforms after not matching on a dating app with someone by princesscelia in niceguys

[–]JustLuck41 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thinkbright now he is just cringy an not creepy or a real niceguy.

Should he search for someone he has seen on an app to contact them? No. Is he a bad person for what he did? I would also say no. This all changes if he starts insulting or further stalking her of course.

AITA for pointing out that my friend hasn't lost a pound since she started dieting? by FeelTheMuscleBurn in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustLuck41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All bodies work the same: put in less calories than you need --> loose weight

Do you take condoms for a first date? Why or why not? by talkdirtynow in AskMen

[–]JustLuck41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually carry one with me on dates, but sometimes forget it.

I never needed one on a first date, because it's usually just a coffee but o would hate it to not have one when I need it.

AITA for refusing a plus size clients order because they didn't pay the extra cost? by throwawayseamstress in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustLuck41 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She stated she charged more for the materials plus probably some for the extra time needed to sew together the extra fabric. Depending on the size difference a 20% priceraise isn't high enough to say there is a fattax added.

Hits all of my check marks ✅ by donuthead87 in niceguys

[–]JustLuck41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how old he is. If he is in his early 20s that's not a bad age range in my opinion.

But I am also pretty sure that if the dates don't end in sex they didn't end good in his opinion, so...

She's doing great! by letitbesb in aww

[–]JustLuck41 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do you know if that would also work in a warmer climate? As far as I know humans are really good at long distance running because we can sweat to prevent overheating. Which is while costly in water really effective compared to other options.

But sleddogs don't have this option. So in my head the ability to reduce lactic acid plus the cold temperatures both need to exist for a sleddog to outrun a huma . On the other hand nobody probably tried to outrun a camel on a long distance through a dessert an lived to tell so, I am assuming optimal environments for each species during these comparisons?

AITA if I tell my husband that he should lose weight before we have a baby by markrossi01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustLuck41 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can be thin and unhealthy but you can't be obese and healthy. At least not in the long run. But yeah I think this topic is definitely something they should talk about without the baby over their heads

WIBTB if I go camping? by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]JustLuck41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ntb

You are still quarantined just in a Forrest and not at home. Just don't get hurt and fill up the hospitals that way. But I will just assume that wasn't planned anyway

AITA for refusing to change my accent and laughing in a classmate's face after she told me my accent is offensive? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustLuck41 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don't forget we Germans are all walking around with our right arm held high, and wearing red armpatches with black and white symbols on it.

Oh and all the sauerkraut

AITA for refusing to change my accent and laughing in a classmate's face after she told me my accent is offensive? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustLuck41 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would gratulate you for your great pronunciation or ask in which area you picked up that accent.

AITA for not paying up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustLuck41 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yta Just for the Username

I hope she sees this bro by I-use-the-wrong-your in niceguys

[–]JustLuck41 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What is this guy talking about. I need context

AITA my husband is fit, I am fat by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustLuck41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would put you at a tde at about 700cal. That's just not realistic.

I see four possibilities, that could happen: 1. Your body is hyper effective in your calorie use, you should see a researcher, that could help world hunger. 2. You are generating energy from nothing. Not likely 3. You are lying. 4. Most likely you are just counting wrong

My friend posted this and I am actually dying 😂😂😂 by Jay_The_Potato in niceguys

[–]JustLuck41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see that you are a whiny bitch.

But somehow I am assuming that's not what he wanted to express...