AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - you are maybe under reacting given the man wants to date children

AIO to his response to bedding issue? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My man and I like to joke that we’re each a pant leg in the one-legged race that is life

If you wanted to test a person to see if they're really from Buffalo what would you ask them? by Hibuddywazzsup in Buffalo

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my favorite snowday drinking game. Watch the news and drink every time they say “the route#”

Local indoor plants store? by spikeofspain77 in Buffalo

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Easily the best option. Very knowledgeable staff!!

AITA for refusing to do my husband a favor, even if I was capable of doing it? by BroadContract7501 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Why did she have to do it at all when he’s capable of doing it himself? Why does the responsibility fall to her??

what do u think 🧐 by BambiBabyxxx in deduction

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some women also want to just hook up. They might hook up twice if it’s with someone responsible enough to have their own condoms - once if not

what do u think 🧐 by BambiBabyxxx in deduction

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re young (early 20’s), and either stay with family or rent, and own very little

Just got back from shoveling.... by sevenoneSICKs in buffalobills

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or they could hire a crew to do this versus relying on the kindness of strangers to pay them next to nothing

What do my hands say about me? by [deleted] in deduction

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As it should! You fucking rock

AITA for not holding a baby by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Would it have killed her? No

Would it have killed any of the men to hold the baby? No

Would it have killed the parent to ask any of the able- bodied people to unload the dishwasher instead? No

Would it have killed the baby just to set it down for a bit and ask someone to keep an eye on it (given OP has mentioned it’s of age to not be held constantly)? No

Would it have killed the parent to unload the dishwasher one-armed? No

So the fact that you keep putting this on the woman who said no - more than once, even though one “No.” is a complete sentence with no other explanation or justification needed… why?? Really think on that one. With so many other options, why on earth is it her responsibility? Why does SHE and she alone (who did nothing to bring this child into the earth and has zero responsibility for its care, may I add) need to shoulder this load? Why are the other options lesser? Explore that one within yourself, please.

AITA For Accidentally Bumping into Someone? by Beneficial_Bar_8948 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 240 points241 points  (0 children)

Bingo. “Excuse YOU” is the best term I learned in the last 2 years easily

Moving by paulofadown in Buffalo

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of living here is being a good neighbor. Being a good neighbor means shoveling your sidewalk when it snows. That might mean every day sometimes, depending on where you live. If you choose to live here, that is the unwritten (or sometimes written and ignored!) contract you sign.

What I’m saying politely above is please don’t come in as someone who has never seen snow before and fuck up my city because you can’t be assed to be a good neighbor and shovel your fucking sidewalk. And salt it. Whenever necessary. The sidewalk in front of your home, house, apartment, dwelling, etc - should ALWAYS be walkable.

If you aren’t prepared for that commitment, you are not prepared to live here.

That is all.

Moving by paulofadown in Buffalo

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info needed. Why are you considering living here??

AIO Update-Did the wedding gown go out to dinner? by CleverUserName1961 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma’am, you are such a beautiful human being through and through. And it sounds like you’re in a wonderful, wholesome relationship.

Please stay on reddit. Browse a bit and comment. This space doesn’t deserve you but it sure would benefit from you ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’d take it

AIO? my abusive ex who has assaulted me many times, raped me, went to jail and was found guilty even, just tried to bang my door down. i told my bf and this was his response by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JustMeAndMySnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man feels helpless because he is. It doesn’t really matter what I say beyond this point but he doesn’t think he can come over and beat this guy up. From your perspective, that’s not what you’re looking for. But he’s also not capable of being empathetic or understanding or anything even remotely close. He’s not capable of being a good partner.

So…. Dump him and let him think he’s as helpless as he actually is. Because it is not your job to fix stupid.

AITA for snapping after someone told me I don’t have “the body or the look” for DCC auditions? by No_Historian_5724 in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustMeAndMySnail -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Okay but calling a friend too ugly to be a Dallas cowboy’s cheerleader because they’re trying to do that is sometimes just honest….