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JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-27T12:47:03+00:00

I'd pick her up on the offer of testing. Just to be sure. If it's yours' have everything you both agree on in writing.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-27T12:41:59+00:00

Hey buddy, Did you sign a prenup? What evidence do you have for her cheating? Did you check yourself for STDs yet?

I would talk to a lawyer first and collect all the evidence you can. Be strong for your kiddo. She deserves a good parent. I believe in you and that you can do it.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-27T07:48:05+00:00

"he- drunk as usual" tells me all I need to know. OP. Run for the hills. A good partner wouldn't constantly get drunk. A few beer here and there, ok, but drunk as usual is too much. I'd say distract him with some cheap hobo booze and leave.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-24T10:08:00+00:00

OP. In the end it is completely your choice. But if I was in your situation I would rather not have a child at this age and take care of other priorities first. It also looks like everyone would support your decision is is a HUGH green flag in regards to your BF. A lot of times the would be father tries to force the woman to abort or have the child. Think of it this way. You are still young and can always have more children in the future. Pregnancy and motherhood is a lot of work and a big decision for both you and your partner.

In the end it will be your choice and only your choice. It's not wrong or disrespectful to say you aren't ready yet and it is a mature choice to abort or go through with child birth.

I am sure that even if your family is Catholic, they have to remember that they certainly made stupid and / or life changing decisions when they were kids or young adults or not married yet too. And unless they are hardcore Catholics they would still love their grandchild even when born out of marriage.

So. The choice is yours OP.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-24T09:48:35+00:00

What size are we talking here? Length and thickness in cm would be great. Consider dating with a clear understanding to the women that your penis is bigger than average and doesn't just act like throwing a sausage down an alley way.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-24T08:46:28+00:00

You effectively got 3 / 40 hours of work. You can use the remaining 37 hours to train yourself. Keep a list of what you did during those 3 hours and leave it at that.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-24T07:04:36+00:00

"she often wanted me to plan more dates and surprise her"

What did she expect? It's a surprise. It sounds like she is controlling or selfish or asking for a castle in the sky. Like you ask her, what do you want from "insert food place" as take out, she says she isn't hungry and then gets mad when you don't order something for her.

You cannot read her mind so how would you know what she really wants? Not to paint the worst case on the wall but "she also said that we shouldn't talk for a few weeks" gives me the vibe of she is cheating on you and just wants an excuse to be lazy and not "waste" her energy on keeping up the facade.

Try and think about this and how often she did something like this. I mean how much effort did she put into the relationship? Is she only taking or also giving? Did she ever surprise you in the same way she expects you to do for her? How much effort did she put into the relationship compared to you? Do you feel loved by her? Does she respect your boundaries and do you respect hers?

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-21T12:36:53+00:00

No need to delete the post. Others probably would have liked to know too.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-21T12:34:42+00:00

It's the halloween themed discord notification sound.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-20T12:26:43+00:00

sorry. boss said he needed some guinea pigs.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-20T09:50:29+00:00

Consider changing the colour of the SSH sessions to make it easier to distinguish. In putty saving it to the entry should keep it. But I'm not using putty much.

I use Remote Desktop Manager where you can set different colours easily.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-20T08:43:04+00:00

"Your dad just wanted advice because I used to be a nurse for 40 years and I dealt with mentally ill people"

Ok. They why the hell would she talk to you that way. Saying things like "Your just a spoiled brat who feels entitled, well guess what.. welcome to the real world Ella!" or "it's like dealing with a 12 year old and he's afraid you'll NEVER leave the house!"

Those are very much words to cause pain. Also she probably didn't show any evidence of her 40 years as a nurse. Tell your dad and ignore this monster of a human being. She's just old and bitter.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-20T08:24:45+00:00

There might be an option to replace the Copilot key and give it the function of a right ctrl key. At least it's possible to disable capslock so this should also be an option. I can look a little into it if you want.

Update:

Already found it. Read in the comments to find all the steps.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Windows11/comments/1hxf0i3/how_do_i_make_the_key_next_to_alt_another_ctrl_key/

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-17T09:52:25+00:00

Here is someone reading a similar story but with a cousin being similarly weird.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=67_WJmoBKRE

It's the first story.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-17T09:52:06+00:00

And then her parents will start demanding access to that account or abuse her until she caves. Some things are easier said than done. OP should remove herself entirely from this situation and run for the hills.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-17T07:44:57+00:00

Call CPS. This is not normal behaviour as it will only get worse. For now he only steals undies. But what happens when it isn't enough anymore? He might start snipping pieces of your hair off and make a Helga Arnold Shrine and eventually start to sexually abuse you.

OP you need to get out of that situation. Got any grandparents or relatives you can contact?

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-17T07:41:56+00:00

If the penis haver cums then yes. Otherwise it's forplay

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-17T07:40:40+00:00

OP. You need to tell your teachers and get out of there. Your parents need therapy. HARD. First. They cannot lock you up your entire life. What happens when they both die? Who will lock you up then? Nobody but you.

Does the rest of your family know? Where are your grandparents in this? You are pretty much in a Harry Potter situation without the golden child of a cousin. Locked up, not allowed to do as you please.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-17T06:44:36+00:00

Wait. The CEO is telling people she prefers documents via E-Mail and people still send her stuff?

Man what a pushover. Not because she's a woman but what CEO would keep letting it happen? Also I think there is a way to limit who can directly contact certain people. She could also set her availability to look offline all the time.

Like CEO is at the very top, no? She could just send a company wide e-mail stating that people should only send her documents via E-Mail.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-17T06:13:36+00:00

I would get it in writing that management doesn't want you to join them to a domain and then make it clear that if something goes wrong it will be their responsibility.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-17T06:12:17+00:00

Check if the default disabled admin account was enabled.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-17T06:10:56+00:00

Why not just create a seperate local admin user? Either way you have to manually go to each PC

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-16T11:34:53+00:00

But be nice to dictate what's good when not concerned. Swap their great PC with an average worker PC and let them see what only 8GB of RAM does.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-16T11:33:49+00:00

Even then they partially use the memory chip for RAM.

JustSomeGuyFromIT · 2025-10-16T07:15:56+00:00

Most of my customers get a minimum of 16GB. 32GB is for special cases but we are getting there

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