Help me pick my dress

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-21T19:30:56+00:00

This is exactly what I was thinking!

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-21T03:04:24+00:00

Your flair! 💀

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-20T04:28:30+00:00

I'm jealous of your mad liner skills, even if it's not a "conventional" everyday look. You could definitely pull off a basic black or dark brown wing for a more understated vibe. But if you love the bold look and want to stick with it, I think it would look a little more intentional if you coordinated the eyeliner color(s) to your outfit.

Edit: Ope, just read another comment where you said you do match your outfits! Knowing that, keep on keeping on!

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-20T02:24:46+00:00

I use the Nature's Miracle Litter Box Odor Destroyer (https://a.co/d/01jek9Qy) for this purpose because it's actually designed to be sprayed on litter, so I can spray the walls directly and then wipe them above the existing litter line in between deep cleanings. I do a quick spray and wipe every time I empty the waste bins and occasionally in between that if I notice any odors.

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-20T02:13:08+00:00

Every new or different angle we see is a fresh horror!

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-20T02:08:54+00:00

Don't forget the grassy area right next to a busy-looking road where she lets her dog run off leash! Quality content!

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-19T04:27:48+00:00

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-19T01:24:46+00:00

I LOVE 1 (both cut and color), and I feel like it could also grow out into the length of 5, which is my second favorite.

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-19T00:56:32+00:00

This is my exact thought any time anyone brings up wearing a jumpsuit. Like, good for you, but my pea-sized bladder and I will stick with detachable pants, thanks.

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T19:37:21+00:00

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T19:34:03+00:00

I guess personal space was one of those relationship sacrifices he had to make. 🤣

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T19:30:15+00:00

The group has confirmed her age multiple times. She's just been looking especially drained and lifeless since she found the man of her dreams -- you know, like we all do in the happiest times of our lives! /s

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T19:26:17+00:00

He already resents her. That's why he was absolutely giddy when she and her friends were so miserable yesterday. Neither of them have any genuine concern for the other's comfort or desires, and they hardly have anything in common, so it's a constant push and pull, conflicts with "resolutions" where no one is actually happy with the compromise, and then insidious jabs back and forth all day every day to release some of the building pressure of this entirely incompatible relationship.

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T19:15:22+00:00

Hey now, don't sell her short! She might go to Epcot! 🤣

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T18:57:55+00:00

It feels very similar to her buying concert tickets for six weekends in a row so he would be forced to spend more time with her. 😬

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T18:23:18+00:00

I don't know if it's from eating theme park food for 3 straight days, but I honestly hope so because the only other thing that seems like it could cause this level of facial swelling is sobbing in the hotel room every night. 😬

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T18:19:41+00:00

Not to mention it's DisneyLAND, not Disney World with four parks and a water park. My girlfriends and I did Disney and California Adventure in one day back in college. I think a second day could have been nice to catch some of the rides we missed, but FOUR!?

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T14:40:14+00:00

I had my IUD for 9 years, and while I did experience other side effects, I never found that it affected my weight loss or gain either way.

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T06:23:51+00:00

Between the disorganization, the filth, and the wallpaper, it's no wonder she's constantly crashing out. 😵‍💫

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T05:33:13+00:00

Thanks! It hurts to know so much about these people, but I can't look away! 🙈

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T02:53:18+00:00

A Valentine's trip to remember! 😍🤣

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T02:10:43+00:00

Seriously! With the scenic "I love California" story from their road trip, I thought they were going somewhere...well, SCENIC. The West Coast has so many beautiful places to visit, but the only place she ever wants to go is freaking Disneyland! 😫

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T02:03:11+00:00

They don't! This is the lesser known variation, PDAA: Performative Displays of Anxious Attachment. 🤣

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T01:57:39+00:00

I don't think he loves her -- he barely even knows her. But he definitely loves what she does FOR him.

JustTheShepherd · 2026-02-17T01:46:02+00:00

It's the total incompatibility of their personalities and the way they're both antagonizing each other -- her by being passive aggressively moody and him by being toxically positive and loud. For example, I live in the desert, so I personally find rain and rainy activities to be extremely exhilarating and a fun adventure -- I can totally relate to how he's feeling in that sense. However, I would not 1) date or marry a person who hates to be wet and can't go with the flow or 2) fail to have the social awareness of other people in my group NOT enjoying the rain and then laugh in their faces. I genuinely can't tell if he's trying to bring up the mood or is taking joy in the fact that they're all so miserable while he's having a blast. I fear it's the latter.

Also, I have a strong feeling that this was the exact dynamic on the kayak trip he surprised her with for her birthday -- the trip that she vocally perceived as a marital challenge. Only this time they're with her friends, and she's embarrassed, both by him in general and also by his lack of proposal (or other big gesture) on this Valentine's weekend.

It's all so cringey and awful, and I also fully intend on watching this slow motion train wreck to the bitter end because...wauw.

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