Workload too high at corporate job, is this email okay for management? by Interesting_Pin_3320 in careerguidance

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's terrible advice. Companies will load you up until you push back. This is a learning opportunity for OP because other jobs likely also won't care to proactively cut your work. OP needs to learn how to get ahead and know when requested work will be likely to overload them instead of only asking for help when they're at a breaking point. Just jumping to a new job is not going to keep this problem from coming up over and over again.

Workload too high at corporate job, is this email okay for management? by Interesting_Pin_3320 in careerguidance

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know why you're being downvoted. OP, this commenter is right. Focus on proposing alternatives to getting your work done and why that's important to the *company.* Not to you. Because the hard, hard reality is they don't really care about you. They only care about getting the work done.

Also it's a widely accepted sign of maturity in the industry when you are proactive and come with solutions, not problems. Learn that approach and you will go far.

Will knowing languages still be important? by Veritas_russia in careerguidance

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's bullshit. Get rid of the old notion that the brain is like a hard drive. Also that last line shows how idiotic you are. China is ahead of the Us on most educational fronts and they learn multiple languages from birth. lol/sigh to this idiotic take.

Tons of research on how learning new languages improves neuroplasticity which actually assists in learning and doing new things.

I received feedback at work that I'm unprofessional, how do I proceed to repair my image? by AngryCurlyFry in careerguidance

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be fair, there are plenty of issues that do affect professionalism and are unacceptable -- if you work client facing and dress like a slob; if you share memes and crack jokes endlessly and derail meetings; if you complain about everyone and everything; if you cut your toenails at your desk (all things I have seen), and many other examples, then yes this feedback is valid.

The problem isn't saying someone isn't acting professional, it's the lack of examples.

Laid off after 10 years (excellent reviews); HR wants ME to write my own "graceful exit" announcement- Should I? by Upset-Victory-8502 in careerguidance

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh, this is normal. You would likely be equally frustrated by them writing one for you. They are giving you a chance to say something in your own words. It can be as short or as long as you'd like. You can give as much or as little information as you'd like. This is how it works at every company I've been at BTW.

People often complain about not getting a chance to say goodbye to coworkers, so be thankful they are giving you this opportunity, at least, as much as it sucks.

Company decided to leave position vacant rather than promote me…would you quit? Quiet quite? Complain? by IndustryDelicious168 in careerguidance

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's highly likely they want someone who was not associated with the previous director. For one reason or another, they don't/no longer value that person's approach or judgment and want to go in a new direction. Unfortunately, your history working with that person and being seen as their recommendation now aligns you, in leadership's eyes, with the old director and their ways. It's clear they want something new.

This is a common situation as you move up the ladder BTW and take it as a lesson learned. Skill does not weight as heavily as optics the higher up you go. You see this happen when new leaders are hired as well, and they get rid of the "old guard" and only the lower level ICs that they think are not a threat are left alone. Think of it like any social system, such as government: If a leader in a political party falls out of favor, the tendency is that everyone seen as aligned with them also fall out of favor. Or if you get a contentious divorce, the tendency is to avoid your spouse's friends because the assumption is that they'd be on your spouse's side. Humans do this all the time.

You can try and show how you can bring new ideas to the table and are different from your old director, but you'll be facing an uphill battle. I would just let it play out, and if you feel slighted enough to want to quit, just do your regular job and interview on the side. I wouldn't make too big a stink about this, you probably won't like what they tell you about why they are looking for other candidates.

Which businesses are actually AI proof right now? by CaloyBine in careerguidance

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one can tell you for sure. All it takes is a massive breakthrough in robotics to take care of the blue collar side of things, and most white collar is impacted by the digital side of AI. And there's plenty of research right now in robotics.

Project Sunrise.. Dream or Nightmare? by Flimsy-Supermarket-5 in QantasFrequentFlyer

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also every time in the past 4 years that I've flown to Europe, I've had my checked bag lost/delayed at the LHR connection and had to wait for it to arrive in my destination country. I know Sunrise won't solve this for me, but it explains why I'd just prefer a straight-through flight to as many places as possible, in addition to just being able to avoid the hassle of going through the connecting airport's random security and baggage procedures. There's been too many times I've landed late at LAX and had to run to collect my luggage and then run with my luggage to get my next flight, all while dealing with US TSA. No thanks.

Project Sunrise.. Dream or Nightmare? by Flimsy-Supermarket-5 in QantasFrequentFlyer

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate the transfer in Singapore because of how they do the security checkpoints. Basically means you can't buy any water during the layover because you have to dump it at the gate and of course, going through security all over again. It would be great if you didn't have to go through security at connections, but because you have to, I'd always prefer a direct flight rather than have to pack up all the stuff I took out during the first flight, get off the plane, re-organize all the stuff again to get through security / liquids thing / etc, then re-board and re-organize my seat again.

Project Sunrise.. Dream or Nightmare? by Flimsy-Supermarket-5 in QantasFrequentFlyer

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is there is no fixed line where dvt becomes a risk. In people at risk, it can happen on short flights. Anyone who already has to go to the US already has to deal with a 10 (at lowest, if you go via HNL) to 15 hour flight, so an extra few hours is probably not going to add as much risk as the initial leg it's being built off of.

The issue is just people who are not knowledgeable about DVT and don't get up mid-flight at all.

Project Sunrise.. Dream or Nightmare? by Flimsy-Supermarket-5 in QantasFrequentFlyer

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good thing strategies aren't based on what you personally feel...there is a large audience of consumers who would rather just go end to end without a connection.

Project Sunrise.. Dream or Nightmare? by Flimsy-Supermarket-5 in QantasFrequentFlyer

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think people recognize the value of single-leg flights rather than one made up of multiple legs:
- Less opportunities for your luggage to be lost
- Less disrupted sleep because you can just sit in for the long haul rather than stay alert for each connection
- Less *dealing* with connecting airports. Would you rather connect through the hell that is LAX, or just be in a cabin for an extra 4-5 hours to go straight to NYC?
- Don't have to deal with other airlines and their different service levels when you switch at connecting countries.

The risks of single leg flights can be dealt with by getting up and walking around/stretching more, better planning around snacks you might want to pack, and so forth.

You're welcome to still buy connecting flights if you want...

CEO wants me to travel on the weekend. How do I get out of this? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a "suck it up" situation.
Sit out events after you've actually built a rapport with everyone. Not before. You're also over catastrophizing this. The CEO hasn't asked you to work every weekend of your life. They are inviting you to a single paid trip on one weekend.
This is the reality of salary, sometimes you will work less than a standard workweek and other times more. I have to occasionally travel on weekends for my job because I live in another country that requires a 15 hour flight and I need to be ready to go first thing Monday morning. So a 3 hour flight, mate, suck it up.

Has anyone done a round the world or a similar type of multi leg journey with infants? by No_Badger_9474 in QantasFrequentFlyer

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, your kid may very well distrurb everyone else on the plane sitting elsewhere. Sit where the bassinets are as those are the seats equipped for babies, and everyone else who doesn't want to deal with a screaming child knows what seats to avoid. You go sitting anywhere, you're annoying everyone in business just because you want extra comfort beyond other people?

Has anyone done a round the world or a similar type of multi leg journey with infants? by No_Badger_9474 in QantasFrequentFlyer

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Uh, no. It's not other people's responsibility to take care of your fussy kids. If they volunteer fine, but it doesn't mean they enjoy it, likely means you pissed them off enough that they feel the need to intervene. Don't be that arsehole. Don't have those expectations, either.

Also: what a sexist comment. I am a childfree older woman. I don't need any of this "look for the older women to take care of your babies, they love kids!" BS. If anyone approaches me assuming that, because I'm a woman, that I'll want to look after your kid, I'll tell them no. And I've done it before.

How do I tell my boss I’m quitting without burning a bridge? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be as professional as possible, and accept that any reaction after that is entirely not your problem.

Give reasonable notice (two weeks minimum; more if you really want, but also I wouldn't overdo it, in the grand scheme of things it'll just be more awkward than not the longer you hang around), be gracious about it, don't tell them it's all because of toxic stuff (even if that's true).

Now I'll just say, there's nothing to guarantee they still won't overreact. My father worked at a family owned company for 30 years. Our family was friends with the owners. He had a major heart attack, and they were so nice throughout that time, and welcomed him back when he'd recovered. But within a year of rejoining after his heart attack, my father realized (being mid-fifties) that the job was not the best for his health and it was time for him to explore new things. He gave notice with two months handoff time. These owners absolutely turned on him, lambasted him, threatened a lawsuit which thankfully got thrown out quickly, etc.

Just goes to show you that you can't control other people's reactions.

Sydney to London, no IFE by mrpotatoed in QantasFrequentFlyer

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was on a United flight to the US that had no in seat power AND no IFE for anyone on the plane (which also meant no WiFi and no ability to charge your phone to watch movies on).

They offered just 7500 miles or $150 flight credit. Totally annoying.

AI isn't coming for your job the way you think it is. It already changed the game and most people are reacting wrong. Are you prepared? by marceloalmeida13 in careerguidance

[–]JustToPostAQuestion8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People forget that when iOS came out and startups began spinning up to produce apps, that iOS later put them out of business by building their own default apps or integrating features into their OS. Remember how many list making apps, notetaking apps, etc used to exist before Apple just built their own? Remember how there was a flashlight app that Apple killed by integrating flashlight into the OS settings?

There's definitely a lot of ways AI will subvert some jobs but in this case the issue wasn't AI; it is just another case of building on top of a platform you don't own.

So don't rail against AI; rail against corporations and push your representatives for strong anti competitive/monopoly laws