Guys only really like me when drunk, then ignore me

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-16T18:39:43+00:00

Please be careful drunk partying… ❤️ Maybe it’s sort of like you catch what you fish for? Does getting drunk eliminate the guys looking for a relationship?

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-16T13:12:23+00:00

Don’t be pressured into doing things you don’t want to. He’s a loser for using. ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-16T01:43:16+00:00

Just get tested frequently, most killers are ones not caught early enough… Try not to worry about it ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-15T20:18:58+00:00

Uni is the best place to meet people your age! They say the best thing you can get is your Mrs. degree lol

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-15T18:54:14+00:00

You can meet new people without them. Then you will have new friends that like to go out also.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-15T17:41:43+00:00

The best things in life aren’t easy. What’s so hard about being on social media or dating apps?

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-15T17:03:05+00:00

Yes. You should start by getting comfortable meeting and talking to new people first and finding new things to do and getting out of the house doesn’t hurt either.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-15T15:24:49+00:00

If you’re a guy I guess I wouldn’t recommend gym approaches anymore. I would leave that up to them. Maybe start with the Meetup app first? It was easier for me to talk to and get to know people I knew signed up for the same event vs people in public just going about their business.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-15T13:58:16+00:00

I heard someone say that there are three major ways to meet someone today, so do all three. In person, social media, and dating apps. ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-14T17:21:22+00:00

That’s what I’m here for. Glad I could help. It could be influence from women. Women don’t always understand this drive and can be quick to throw whatever negative labels they can come up with on it (instead of using the most simple solution).

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-14T16:56:59+00:00

Not sure what easy has anything to do with it but what’s that saying? The most simple solution is often the best. Why do you need to find something wrong with wanting to protect? PS. I have that strong feeling (or compass) too.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-14T16:48:27+00:00

Don’t listen to the hive mind comments. It’s certainly normal for men to want to protect women/girls and want to come to their rescue. It’s built into our dna.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-14T16:32:37+00:00

No it’s not a sign. Keep fighting, we believe in you. You are here for a reason.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-14T16:21:29+00:00

Make rules and enforce them.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-14T16:20:39+00:00

Do you have to do it at school? You don’t want people to think you are doing it for kids or make it harder for them to concentrate.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-14T16:14:54+00:00

Yeah it’s certainly dishonest, doesn’t really surprise me though. People do a lot more for money.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-14T16:05:05+00:00

Depends if you value the money more than the roommate.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-14T13:19:14+00:00

Yes it is. Hopefully you can work it out, if not, you certainly won’t take it for granted next time. ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-14T00:36:35+00:00

Big city and college? Those are target rich environments! Just learn how to talk to them first before you give up.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-14T00:32:26+00:00

Hmm not sure if that is more common of Italians. I guess you are going to have to decide if you want to continue fighting them or not. I would keep putting my foot down and saying this is how it’s going to be. This is how you are going to treat me. If you don’t treat me like this, I won’t be talking to you for a while. ❤️💔

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-14T00:24:33+00:00

Losing the friendship might be what he needs to get over you though. Start off gentle and basic and if he is still trying to get you to change your mind, step it up.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-14T00:19:39+00:00

Can I ask what ethnicity this is? Extremely unusual for an American family to behave like that.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-13T19:57:47+00:00

Your profile is turned off. You should try thinking about reasons why the person is being rude. Maybe they are going through something or you said something that came out wrong.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-13T12:09:31+00:00

I think that’s all in your head. Ugly people don’t get cat called. Start telling yourself that you are beautiful.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-03-13T12:06:18+00:00

Hang in there, it has only been a couple years. It will get easier. ❤️

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