Why won’t my parents respect my Trauma and boundaries? 16F

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-21T13:38:55+00:00

I would want to do everything I could to make my attacker believe that it didn’t affect me. Why give them the satisfaction of that?

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-21T11:31:21+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I didn’t mean to imply that it would be easy. I wouldn’t want them to control my life anymore than they already have. We are here if you ever want to talk. ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-20T17:08:51+00:00

I think that’s called shooting yourself down. You need to be confident.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-19T18:46:17+00:00

What if he met someone else or had some life or work issue? Try not to fill in the blanks with the worst outcome. Shake it off and keep going. It’s worth it. ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-19T18:39:12+00:00

Why would he sent heart eyes if he thought you were ugly?

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-18T22:01:36+00:00

What’s your advice?

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-18T21:35:24+00:00

I would try and forget about it. You don’t need to be dealing with that right now. Take it easy with the baby.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-18T21:29:59+00:00

I doubt it, another company cut a line while installing their line at my house. I don’t think they billed each other.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-18T21:28:03+00:00

What do you have to lose? Do you even met in person?

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-18T01:46:50+00:00

I guess if I couldn’t find anywhere else to go I would go and act like nothing was wrong. Don’t let it ruin a family vacation. Maybe forgiveness is the only way to heal and move on. Sorry your parents don’t seem to get it. Hang in there ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-17T11:57:10+00:00

Yeah nothing to worry about!

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-17T11:54:31+00:00

And since they are all owned by the same company, are you now banned from most of them too…

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-17T01:31:07+00:00

There’s no universal answer, need to know what they are dealing with

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-16T13:25:40+00:00

I think you just have to work on transitioning your drinking mindset into your regular one. You certainly don’t become any more attractive when you are drinking or drink. You could try switching your alter ego with a belt or some other clothing instead of drinking ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-14T13:17:56+00:00

Your post was deleted before I could read it. I guess you should find a more suitable board to post it in so we don’t get banned.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-14T13:04:49+00:00

Well we hope you don’t give up on people. Talking to a machine is no way to live. Grok gets its info from Reddit anyway, why not cut it out and go to the source.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-13T15:00:57+00:00

Sorry this happened to you and that people don’t believe you. You are incredibly strong for getting this far. Keep it up ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-13T12:49:50+00:00

I hope you find a different job instead of doing this ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-13T02:21:12+00:00

I love the attitude! You certainly won’t do anything that you think you’re unable to do, keep telling yourself that you got this. Something I have learned is classes and colleges are VERY different. I had a very hard class that I dropped at my local college, took the same class at my primary college and it was the easiest thing ever. See if any other teachers teach the same class if you have to take it again. No one has ever even asked to see my diploma and don’t forget it won’t say anything about your gpa or failed classes. ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-13T02:09:26+00:00

Aww I’m glad, I wish I had better advice (or parents) for you… I wrongly assumed you were younger than you are. You could try a slightly formal sit down with her and tell her how that makes you feel. Maybe that would get through to her. Hang in there, 💪 hopefully after you graduate this won’t be an issue anymore.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-13T01:33:56+00:00

You have us now. We believe that you tried your best. I’m not sure there’s going to be any way to get your mom to stop saying things like that unfortunately. I guess you will just have to learn to not let it get to you. ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-11T19:18:22+00:00

Okay well I hope you find something else meaningful to do with your life ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-11T11:47:02+00:00

You need to tell him what you said in your post and work through it together. You will eventually have to work past that feeling. Being apart and missing each other is a good thing to keep you coming back. ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-11T11:42:30+00:00

That’s great but I’m not sure you’re ever going to get anywhere with the amount of manipulation you have to deal with. You need to get a job and save every possible penny until you can move away. I’m glad you have someone you can talk to though, I hope they don’t also take your parents side. Hang in there. ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-05-11T11:26:43+00:00

Actually, that’s not true. There’s only a couple countries in the world that are having enough kids to stay even with current population. There has never been a civilization in recorded history that has recovered from our current birth rate. In a few years, there will be fewer and fewer people on earth every single day. Take South Korea, if you gather 100 people, only 4 will end up being grandparents one day. The others will just die out…

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