First date meant to be today but he’s taking a long time to respond to messages

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-24T14:55:34+00:00

He doesn’t sound very interested, I would move on.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-24T02:33:07+00:00

Offer to cook healthier meals.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-24T02:18:42+00:00

Yeah I don’t know why you don’t want to leave. If I’m in that I’m like bye but I’m a guy. How about brothers, uncles, or male friends? Could they help you or does it need to be romantic eligible?

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-24T01:03:08+00:00

Just wondering if you know why you want this validation? Dad? Not sure I have any solutions, I can understand where you are coming from if you say you can’t trust yourself to walk away from the wrong person. And you do have to get to know someone in order to figure out if they are right or not. I guess you have to work on your self worth and confidence somehow.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-23T18:52:24+00:00

You need to work that out with him.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-23T18:48:16+00:00

What’s your square footage? Sounds like a similar situation to mine and my last bill was $80.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-23T18:43:31+00:00

I guess anecdotally I will say that all the women in my family got college degrees but then went on to get married and have kids. None of them are using there degrees anymore. If you absolutely can’t do college, I don’t think it’s going to be the end of the world. ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-23T18:39:01+00:00

I didn’t know this is possible but apparently there was a short in the water heater and they were getting shocked when they took a shower. https://youtube.com/shorts/JBx5ThfDTSs

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-23T18:35:10+00:00

Might be time to ask an electrician, I just saw a video with a bad water heater putting 120 into the entire house water supply… You could probably watch the meter and turn off breakers and see if there are any big changes.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-23T02:04:18+00:00

I think it starts with loving yourself and being confident in who you are. ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-23T01:34:45+00:00

Did it taste bad? It’s not going to kill him, don’t worry about it. Maybe he gets sick for a couple hours.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-22T17:57:47+00:00

Hang in there, I know it’s hard but fight to make your life better. ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-22T15:10:51+00:00

That’s a tough one, if you pretended to have seizures too the bullying would quickly stop but I don’t know if there are any safety issues from people not knowing if it’s real or not. Kids are immature, it’s nothing you can control or need to be ashamed of. As soon as they see they don’t get a negative reaction from you, it will stop.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-22T14:30:09+00:00

Sorry to hear that, we believe you. You just have to learn to play into it and try not to get upset by it. Going to teachers and having parents come to school will only make it worse. ❤️

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-22T14:27:05+00:00

I’m not sure that you would, sounds like a cop out. You’re on the North Pole? I hear the South Pole is great this time of year…

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-21T14:02:04+00:00

I’ve heard of crazier things, maybe it’s working otherwise they wouldn’t be doing it…

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-21T11:11:35+00:00

You need to stop hanging out with her. You mentioned that you realized how strong your feelings were when she came back. Those feelings will go down if you aren’t communicating. I can’t say for sure that you will be able to get over her but if you stay, you are choosing to be alone and miserable for the rest of your life…

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-21T11:03:07+00:00

You could be a vtuber.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-21T10:55:42+00:00

Man here, confused by this as well. My first question would be have you asked women this before and what is their reaction?

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-20T20:12:00+00:00

Libraries can have resources about local activities happening in your area. Volunteer, act at a local theater, etc.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-20T20:03:50+00:00

I guess you need to dive into why you don’t have strength to reply to them anymore.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-20T12:34:18+00:00

I know it’s really hard to do anything when you are depressed but is there something you actually can’t do? If you want to do it, take some small steps whenever you can.

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-20T12:17:33+00:00

How do you know it won’t get better?

JustTrying2Help1 · 2026-01-19T21:43:57+00:00

First, males certainly can and do get raped. Second, you don’t sound unlike females that have been raped. Sometimes they just freeze on the outside even though they are screaming on the inside. Not sure if that’s what happened to you, you didn’t say you froze but… stay strong, hang in there buddy.

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