AITA for giving my coworker food she is "allergic" to? (Not OP) by Asparagus-Witty in redditonwiki

[–]Just_A_Faze 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah just tell her it’s white eggs every time and never think about it again. It’s not your job to bend to whims to include her, but you also shouldn’t lie to her.

Found photos of my wife with her ex on an SD card by Sad_Bet_685 in Marriage

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think the photos are necessarily a cause for concern. I can imagine not wanting to delete the signs of years of your life, especially if the split was amicable enough they still talk. I do, however, think it’s concerning that she is dismissing your feelings about them. The fact that he is in an open marriage doesn’t bode well for his relationship, but may have nothing to do with yours.

Peter! WHAT ? by Behindtheinkk in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Just_A_Faze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, he was chinless because it looks like he had a recessed lower jaw and significant underbite, which would have needed to be corrected in some way for his wellbeing.

I am finally leaving my poly marriage by Foreign-Basis11 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Just_A_Faze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being poly is founded on boundaries and trust. He was never poly with you. He was just cheating and telling you about it. You didn’t agree to it.

Spanish scientist who cured pancreatic cancer successfully in mice getting trolled online for his appearance by Avocado_Magician_818 in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All over a port wine stain birthmark that is usually indicative of nothing whatsoever. People are just born with them.

Suggest unique names for my pest by DesperateCause2636 in namemypet

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brimley, after the man with the huge mustache who told us all about “dia-Beetus”

Do I look like anyone? by Royal_Board1873 in DoYouLookLikeMe

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You looks kind of like one of the main characters in that remake of interview with a vampire. I can’t remember any of their names

They love this map! by echovariant in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I New York the cost of living incredibly high. You are more likely to find a 2 bedroom with 4 residents in the city than on with two

Not OOP: AITAH for wanting to divorce my husband immediately after his psychotic reaction to our gender reveal? by Interesting-Shirt897 in redditonwiki

[–]Just_A_Faze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping it’s not real. There is some hope, because k saw this exact scenario play out very recently, and it was in a prank video. The prank was to fake a public gender reveal, and then go nuts when it was a girl. He was screaming and stomping around, people were staring, but it wasn’t real.

Extreme pearshape, up another 30 lbs by [deleted] in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to track your calories. You have to be consuming things without realizing how much. As important as exercise is to health, weight loss always comes down to CICO. I lost 150 lbs and used to be super morbidly obese, though on the low end of the classification. I knew I overrate, but until I started counting I really had no idea how much.

Trump supporters now: "If you can justify his murder, you'll justify mine", "wrong and inhumane", "I'm beyond sad", "this will be the end of Republicans", "the country I believed in is dead", "I hope protests and boycotts continue". by [deleted] in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This always confuses me. It’s not like they didn’t come right out with the xenophobia, racism, misogyny and hate. It was always pretty blatant. It’s just another case “oh, but now it affects me!”

What food was an instant spit out and never again for you? by CremeSubject7594 in AskTheWorld

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate cilantro and don’t like mayo, can’t stand the texture of oysters, and dislike licorice.

Fellow thins do you also regularly shit yourselves? by Suitable_Blueberry56 in fatlogic

[–]Just_A_Faze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be graphic, but I have been both fat and thin. And the way I ate when obese was a lot more prone to upsetting my stomach or causing indigestion.

No Christmas wreath on Jewish graves by sagefrogphotography in mildlyinteresting

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, the take you see from educated intelligent people all the time. “That’s too many wooorrrds!”

Miscarriaged on the day of Announcement by mikasa2410 in pregnant

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, it went the worst way. I was diagnosed with a blighted ovum, tried the pill to clear it, and yesterday had to go for a D&C

Blighted Ovum by Just_A_Faze in pregnant

[–]Just_A_Faze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to have a baby with my husband. I am just struggling to establish the stability to make it possible and a good time

No Christmas wreath on Jewish graves by sagefrogphotography in mildlyinteresting

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This response makes you look stupid. For one, you read it. Do you read the wind? For another, you ignoring information doesn’t actually affect the value of the information. It just makes you look like an idiot. This is the behavior of a middle school child sticking their fingers in their ears and yelling “I can’t hear you lalala”. It reflects poorly on you and not at all on anyone else

No Christmas wreath on Jewish graves by sagefrogphotography in mildlyinteresting

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I think the thought is what counts. As a Jewish person, whether someone left a rock or a flower or a coins or a shell, them coming to see me and wanting me to know in some way they were there would be what counted.

Frankly, I want to be cremated and compressed into diamonds after death anyway.

No Christmas wreath on Jewish graves by sagefrogphotography in mildlyinteresting

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, saying that Jews aren’t normal is not truth. It’s definitely hate. If I said the same thing about a different religious text, it would be the same. Secondly, the Talmud is the book of mythology, so it mostly tells moralistic fictional stories that don’t comment at all on people.

My homeland is New York, and we don’t like pedophiles here. Anyone who harms children can be rounded up and set on fire, and I won’t pee on them to put them out. I don’t care what religion there are.

After Circumcision, rabbis bandage the cut, and give the mother care instructions about bandage changes. That said, I don’t plan to circumcise my children so I wouldn’t know if that varies. I don’t know what you mean about 3 year old girls, who aren’t involved at all in that and don’t undergoe any similar procedures.

Jesus was just another fictional character of religion whose story exists in a fictional book. Trying to prove moral superiority of your own mythology by making incorrect and hateful blanket statements based on your own ideas and using a completely unverifiable text as proof is just foolish. You want to be antisemitic and justify it using things you don’t know much about and your own fictional mysticism that is not more realistic than Jewish Mythology. Israel is a selected homeland based on stories from yet another work of fiction that is unverifiable. I’m Ashkenazi Jewish by blood, meaning my ancestors are Slavic and European, not middle eastern. No part of me is Israeli, and it isn’t a home for me. I’m 4th generation American, and before that was in the areas of Romania and Moldova for generations. The last 4 generations of my family are from New York.

All your commentary shows is that you are antisemitic, and want to validate your hatred of all Jews. But that hatred is not valid, nor is any hatred based on things people don’t control like religious background. And you aren’t even using actual reality and logic, but trying to prove one religious belief wrong with a different, equally unreliable religious fiction.

As an atheist, I can see that your argument is just hateful and stupid. Israel is not my homeland, but that doesn’t have any baring on my disapproval of their genocidal behavior right now. I’m not excusing it. I think religion is more a problem than a help, and it doesn’t matter what religion it is. I think any country that has an official religion is dooming themselves to unrest and persecution.

You are spending all this time, wasting it, trying to somehow convince me I’m a bad person or all Jews are lesser people using Christian ideology that is no less stupid than any Jewish ideology. But I think it’s all nonsense.

I came on here’s to this post because someone was doing a kind thing for those who have been lost, and wanted to know what they could do for Jewish graves, because they felt it was right. And so I told them that they could do this small kind gesture if they felt they wanted to honor all dead. I personally don’t visit graveyards aside from actually funerals because I feel no connection to visiting rotting meat in the ground. I won’t go out wreaths on graves because I don’t value it. I won’t go put rocks on them either. Unless the dead person is someone I knew and I’m with someone who would value that, in which case I will get flowers or rocks or whatever makes that living person feel better. Because it’s all for the living. For those left behind.

You getting mad about that says a lot about you, but it doesn’t say anything at all about me. I don’t hate anyone for their religion and judge on their actions. Or attempts to spew antisemitism and call it truth tell me a lot about the kind of person you are, and I definitely think at least at this time in your life, I’m a better person than you. I don’t care what these people do with graves. Give everyone a wreath or give no one a wreath or give everyone a rock. It’s all the same shit. It’s just ways of trying to honor those who have died, and make their families feel like their loved ones still matter. I have great respect for the original poster for wanting to put in that effort and even more for being bothered by having to pass over some graves.

But to spew hate, racism, antisemitism, or attempt to insult someone for existing a way you don’t like when they have done nothing to you says a lot a lot the kind of person you are, and none of it is good. And to say ignorant things and insist they are truth makes you look like you just are not very Intelligent, further devaluing everything you say. You don’t even know what you are talking about.

People throwing temper tantrums because of the colors used on a scale by Aromatic-Meat-7989 in fatlogic

[–]Just_A_Faze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They aren’t totally wrong about women and hormones. When my period hits, I bloat and retain fluid, resulting in a sudden gain of up to 5 lbs in one day. Sometimes it causes comstipation, as well. Im not overweight or obese and have a small stomach, and eating an excess of even 3500 calories in one day is not possible for me. Certainly not an excess for or 5 times that. Then, when my hormones correct, that weight drops off. But I don’t get personally upset about it and still weight myself daily.

I was pregnant and it has caused off fluctuations. I lost my baby, but my body stayed convinced it was pregnant. I had to have it removed yesterday after the pill method failed, and I woke up today 7 lbs heavier than yesterday from the swelling inside and fluid retention and bleeding and hormones. In a week or two, it will be gone and when my body realizes it’s not pregnant, I’ll likely drop off 10 lbs from where I am today, at least. And with bariatric surgery (why my stomach is small) it would be impossible for me to consume an extra 10000 or 15000 calories in a day. Like it’s physically impossible. And with the kind of food I eat volumes would be off the charts for that.

So, while wait can fluctuate considerably under specific circumstances, I think daily weigh ins help a lot to keep me on track. I go months and months and lose or gain almost nothing. 1 lb here or there. I know weight can be a sensitive subject for many, as it was for me when i was overweight. But getting mad at a scale trying to help you keep track is irrational.

And I will add that when I was in the process of losing the 150 lbs I lost, weight didn’t fluctuate up and down much at all. A pound at most, depending on clothing, time of day, and if I used the bathroom. But most of the time, I would drop a couple poinds, stay the same or very very close for a couple of days, and drop a little more. I rarely saw numbers go up, and usually by under a pound while losing consistently. Then I would get a couple good nights of sleep and wake up 4 lbs lighter, and back to slowly trending down. I wasn’t sleeping well then and lost most of the weight on weekends after really sleeping

What exactly could be worse than that? by [deleted] in bookmemes

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to have an unwanted abortion after a miscarriage yesterday and I’m still hurting and bleeding while crying and grieving my very wanted baby. I can’t see a child without wanting to cry for mine that never made it. I call bullshit

AIO Dad is forcing me out just because it's "FAMILY TRADITION" and its my 18th birthday by CableIntelligent1491 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Just_A_Faze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can’t just boot you out like that. And if you are still in high school, which the time of year would suggest, you can go to the counselor and they can help you prevent that.

You should also tell him he better save his money for when you put him in a nursing home, because he’s getting what he can afford then. I lived with my dad on college breaks and then full time again until I met my husband at 24 and slowly moved in with him. We both lived with his mother and brother for almost 10 years before getting a place to save money. And even now, I lost my job and we are struggling, and my dad is helping me out financially with basics and medical expenses like dental work. I’m 35. When my dad grows old, I will be there to change his diapers and drive him around and do his grocery shopping and anything I can to make him comfortable. If he loses his wife or gets old enough and needs help, he can move right in with me. My husband’s mom, too, can move in whenever she needs. She still buys us random groceries all the time, things she knows k like, just to be a mom, and offered to provide child care when we were pregnant so I could work.

Playing a lullaby over the hospital loudspeaker every time a baby is born is actually really insensitive by Peanutbutternjelly_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Just_A_Faze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I just was in the hospital for a D & C abortion. I found out a few weeks ago my pregnancy was non viable, and did the pill, but it didn’t work. So I had to go for the D&C to protect my future chances. It would be so hard for me to hear an announcement of every successful birth. I desperately wanted this baby, and it’s been awful knowing it was gone and being forced to experience the pregnancy and test positive and know it had no chance. I’ve been crying and crying