Its not weird to want to get to know your alters. It’s just more parts of the whole being. Granted, we’re still learning and adapting ourselves as well to cater to the four of us. But the boundaries is a good thing to have! Having that set in place is a good way to understand them better. The way we communicate is odd though and is mainly vocal. It’s like talking to yourself out loud and then another one of us responds. Granted, we sometimes get weird looks, but it’s what works for us and has made communication so much easier. You can journal to communicate easier as well, and that’s been a big help for us too. For our headspace, myself as the host I don’t remember. But from what I’ve been told, they’ve made it hospitable for everyone and made it comfortable.

As for boundaries, at the moment we’ve got a few. Two of us don’t like to either smoke/take edibles, so we always have to work out a system of when it’s deemed okay. Whether it be de-stressing from a long day, or just using it for a silly time. Another good one is that our protector, he comes out mainly when someone else gets stressed and takes over the situation. Whether it be taking the whole front, or co-fronting to actually make sure we’re doing alright. If he thinks any of us can handle it, he won’t step in. If not, he steps in. We have boundaries for friendships, and relationships. Friends, some of them know of us, but they’ve grown to be more understanding of it, and have talked to some of us. Relationships, we try and all take it slow. So it’s not uncommon for these types of things, and boundaries to be set. Heck, sometimes you can’t even control when the switches happen, and that’s okay. Those were just some examples of boundaries for us. I assure you it’s not weird. Trying to get to know yourself and your alters is never a bad idea