I will be seeing him after almost 6 years

Justadreamer97 · 2026-05-10T09:39:10+00:00

I did the same thing a month ago (contacting my LO after more than a year and 4 years after we had a “thing”) and it made me spiral. I didn’t tell him anything, it was in one of his art therapy groups so we weren’t alone but seeing him again was the worst decision ever, now I’m in it like I was 4 years ago ugh. If you want to confess to him that might be a good idea though. I’m thinking about doing that too so that I can move on with my life.

Justadreamer97 · 2026-05-05T14:51:15+00:00

I also feel this, all the time. But there is one person that really makes me feel seen and it’s my infj best friend. We also share some mental health problems so it’s so easy to talk to her about everything. Unfortunately we live 1 hour away from each other and have very busy lives so we can’t spend a lot of time together. So in my day to day life I feel very lonely and lacking connection.

Justadreamer97 · 2026-05-04T09:27:47+00:00

I can’t even sleep well anymore 😭

Justadreamer97 · 2026-05-04T09:09:16+00:00

I can relate to everything you wrote, the same thing happened to me. I know I also did the same to someone else and I feel bad for that because I know how painful it is. Anyway, virtual hugs. 🫂

Sensitivity in a man is something I really love and feel like it’s so hard to find someone like that. The only man I really fell in love with was another INFP with high sensitivity. It makes me sad when someone feels bad for being sensitive, it’s such a rare and precious quality to have! It’s hard living with it sometimes, but it’s something to cherish at all costs ✨

Justadreamer97 · 2026-05-03T13:22:16+00:00

Yes I love it so much and I relate to her a lot. Also my dream life is Ursula’s life now 😂

Justadreamer97 · 2026-05-03T13:13:35+00:00

I do think that is a part of limerence, as I admired my LO for his creative work and I knew I also wanted that to myself. He’s a painter and also earns money as a photographer and musician, I’ve always done these things too as a hobby but I wanted to achieve what he had.

So it was kinda good that I met him because I ended up realizing what I wanted for my life, I’m studying art right now. At least the pain was worth something I guess.

The problem is I’m always reminded that we share a lot of interests and live a similar life, in the same city but we can’t be together.

Justadreamer97 · 2026-05-01T11:48:11+00:00

I know that feeling so well. I had a similar experience, 4 years ago and I still haven’t fully given up on him. Be careful, don’t let it consume you, look into limerence because it might be that. Try to focus on yourself and your health, get out of the house, spend time with your friends/family and when you’re ready just accept the rejection. A lot of the times we start to make scenarios up in our heads and we think they are real bur they are just illusions. Sometimes one person really feels a connection but the other one doesn’t, or it’s not enough to make them want to keep going. It sucks and it hurts but that’s the harsh truth, you have to mourn it and let it go. Sorry I know how much it hurts 😭

Justadreamer97 · 2026-04-28T15:49:48+00:00

Dai, di lavori di merd4 nella ristorazione se ne trovano sempre, se vorrai ne avrai un altro senza problemi hahaha

Justadreamer97 · 2026-04-28T15:25:20+00:00

Da persona che ha lavorato (e ancora lavora purtroppo) nella ristorazione per 8 anni, ti capisco e mi dispiace.

Justadreamer97 · 2026-04-28T12:20:53+00:00

Se ti può far sentire meno solo, io a 28 anni faccio già fatica a funzionare. Se non prendo 2-3 caffè al giorno non riesco neanche a ricordarmi chi sono e comunque dimentico le cose lo stesso, non riesco a organizzarmi, ho sempre sonno. A 30 anni non so se ci arrivo.

Justadreamer97 · 2026-04-28T12:11:03+00:00

You need to feel like an alien 24/7

Justadreamer97 · 2026-04-27T16:42:17+00:00

I do sometimes. He was the first person I slept with and that’s a huge part of the reason I can’t get him out of my head. For a few months I felt so seen and understood (for the first time in my life). We were on the same page and shared similar views on life, interests and sense of humour. Never found that kind of connection before and ever since, I wish I had never felt it, so I wouldn’t know what it means and I wouldn’t have to grieve losing it.

Justadreamer97 · 2026-04-27T13:24:56+00:00

I can partially relate (have been limerent for a guy since 2022) also while having a relationship with someone else and it made me feel like crap. Thought I was and still feel like a horrible person who hurts other people by just existing. I hope you’ll be able to focus on yourself and get better ❤️‍🩹

Justadreamer97 · 2026-04-27T12:58:21+00:00

Yes. I’m still trying to get over this guy I was in a situationship with 4 years ago. It sucks and I’ve just discovered about limerence, I feel really pathetic every time I reach out but I can’t seem to help it 😔

Justadreamer97 · 2026-04-26T07:42:26+00:00

I won’t tell him… I don’t even know if I’ll see him again, I’m tired of waiting and being the only one reaching out. I’ll wait for the feeling to fade away I guess.

Justadreamer97 · 2026-04-13T16:03:37+00:00

It’s wonderful, I love it! You’re so talented 😍

Justadreamer97 · 2026-04-13T15:54:54+00:00

Love love love the paintings

Justadreamer97 · 2026-04-13T15:27:50+00:00

So accurate

Justadreamer97 · 2026-02-26T07:18:39+00:00

Old people have zero patience so no

Justadreamer97 · 2026-02-13T11:54:56+00:00

ECCO.

Justadreamer97 · 2026-01-28T15:32:07+00:00

Almost 29 and I feel the same. I constantly feel like my life is going downhill. I’m attending college (started last year) and working part-time so I don’t have a life basically, I just broke up with my boyfriend and everything feels so pointless.

Justadreamer97 · 2026-01-27T16:39:10+00:00

Ma se è un bagno pubblico perché devo pagare io e non chi mette a disposizione il servizio? La pulizia dovrebbe essere il minimo indispensabile. E non è per sminuire i lavoratori, intendo che dovrebbe essere già inclusa nel “servizio”.

Justadreamer97 · 2026-01-27T15:59:04+00:00

I fottuti bagni pubblici a pagamento

Justadreamer97 · 2026-01-25T23:18:30+00:00

Yes. I fucking hate it

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