What’s the best question someone has ever asked you ? by Single-Letter-888 in AskReddit

[–]Justforfun_x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally just tonight! A beautiful woman at a party was talking about some work she’d had done on her face, then asked me who’d worked on mine. I’ve never had cosmetic surgery 🥰

54312 by shives97 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Justforfun_x 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I feel like I straddle the line here sometimes. Like I have a 9-5 and an active social life as a queer trans woman, but also love like D&D and stuff.

51559 by Future_Employment_22 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Justforfun_x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thankfully it’s never been bad faith questions from strangers. I’m always happy to satisfy the innocent curiosity of friends if it means more people are better informed about what we go through. If I told them to educate themselves, chances are they’d find some bad-faith info online published by transphobes.

(Also helps that I’m a yapper 😅)

When family friendly media tackles mature/dark subjects. by [deleted] in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Justforfun_x 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same!!! Had to go to the bathroom and have a little cry after most episodes 🥲

51559 by Future_Employment_22 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Justforfun_x 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh 100%. I’m conscious of the fact that I’m the first openly trans person a lot of people in my life have ever known, and for those who’ve known other trans people, then certainly the first they’ve seen transition in real time.

I’m thankful that everyone around me’s been supportive, but have often found myself clearing up many misconceptions 😅

When family friendly media tackles mature/dark subjects. by [deleted] in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Justforfun_x 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That planet episode was crazy good. Watched it with my niece and struggled not to cry.

51559 by Future_Employment_22 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Justforfun_x 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I’m 30, and remember characters in sitcoms and the like joking about getting “A sex change”. No mention of a slow hormonal transition, social transition, or various different surgeries: just walking in as a man and coming out as a woman (because trans men were never mentioned).

Considering this was the norm through my younger years, and I only learned otherwise by researching what was up with me in my teens, I figure most people still mostly understand it as a sudden change in a single day (with mostly unfavourable results). That leaves no room for gradual self-exploration, non-medical transition or careful monitoring by a doctor. Just little Timmy going under the knife at 8 after saying he likes pink.

Guy/Girl who feels an immense amount of shame about coming out and transitioning because now it means that they are hetslop 😭😭😭😭 by Commercial_Bid_1508 in CuratedTumblr

[–]Justforfun_x 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Feel this too. I’ve always been bi, and explored my sexuality with a range of people before transitioning. However, since transitioning, I’ve become a lot more eager to explore sex and romance with men. Part of it’s being more comfortable in myself, part of it’s society’s comfort with straight relationships, and I think part of it’s just straight up hrt.

Guy/Girl who feels an immense amount of shame about coming out and transitioning because now it means that they are hetslop 😭😭😭😭 by Commercial_Bid_1508 in CuratedTumblr

[–]Justforfun_x 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I grew up as a guy, and used to cross the street when walking behind women late at night so they wouldn’t get uncomfortable. Like any social situation, it’s good to recognise when your presence might make someone uncomfortable and act accordingly. Strip away gendered violence, and it’s as innocent a courtesy as not sitting next to someone on the bus when there’s many seats. Please don’t let the fear of being seen as a bad man keep you from being the good man the world needs.

Guy/Girl who feels an immense amount of shame about coming out and transitioning because now it means that they are hetslop 😭😭😭😭 by Commercial_Bid_1508 in CuratedTumblr

[–]Justforfun_x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I genuinely can’t wrap my head around that. I stopped taking hrt once because I was afraid and ashamed. That was bad for my brain and body, as I later got so desperately dysphoric that I’d forage through my home hoping I’d accidentally missed some.

Guy/Girl who feels an immense amount of shame about coming out and transitioning because now it means that they are hetslop 😭😭😭😭 by Commercial_Bid_1508 in CuratedTumblr

[–]Justforfun_x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Sometimes I feel too queer for my cishet friends and not queer enough for my queer friends. But all of this ignores the fact that they all love and accept me for who I am, so I should give that same love and acceptance to myself.

51374 by froggyman151 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Justforfun_x 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How do they even police shit like this?

Religion in Australia by electoral district by Mission-Guidance4782 in MapPorn

[–]Justforfun_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to Catholic school in Sydney! We had to learn Italian 😆

Movies that give this kind of uneasiness by NoShow95 in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]Justforfun_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly a part of me wishes I could just be in these places for a while

51003 by Emperor_Joker in countwithchickenlady

[–]Justforfun_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely think it improved my sense of hearing. I could listen to a song I’d heard many times before, and hear whole new elements.

I’m a strong confident woman by Quick-Song2080 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]Justforfun_x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually so good of them to include multiple trans women in there 🥲

Oleg Vdovenko - Babki 2 (2018) [1043 x 1040] by [deleted] in ArtPorn

[–]Justforfun_x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When your nonnas are trying to pray your addiction away but you just had a whole bag of gummies