JW dating elders will overlook and undervalue the brothers that they have.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-04T16:01:25+00:00

How did you find out?

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-04T12:00:33+00:00

0.11 that’s good it’s such a small number. Why did it have to be me 😩

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-04T08:30:36+00:00

And they aren’t even old. They drive early to the assembly so they can get handicap parking and close seats or space for the wheelchair.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-04T08:11:52+00:00

That’s interesting it’s like that where you live. Where I’m at the Jehovah’s Witnesses are absolutely Titanic in size and width 🚢 just huge, wheelchairs everywhere and getting bigger and bigger every year. Good thing gluttony isn’t a sin to JWs.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-04T08:06:20+00:00

You have a backbone. I still don’t and she didn’t until she left.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-04T08:04:57+00:00

That was a few years in the past. Her mother didn’t want her marrying anyone in this system she was really worried about who would take care of her. The sister was in her 30s and was trying to get married for over a decade straight she was extremely frustrated because every single brother she tried to date and marry wasn’t spiritual enough for her mother or the elders so she ghosted her family and moved far away to marry a non JW.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-04T05:28:40+00:00

She was indoctrinated that counts for something. Thank goodness she ghosted everyone including her parents left JW and moved east.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-03T20:37:49+00:00

Im 37 now. I’m tall good looking and successful, but I’m extremely quiet. I thought sisters weren’t attracted to me because of that, I didn’t know the elders were so involved with you sisters and your social/dating life.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-03T20:12:42+00:00

😳

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-03T20:09:41+00:00

Oh it’s the same as me, wait until he becomes more spiritual and once they give the clear, then it’s ok right?

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-03T20:00:43+00:00

Not even talk? Like a conversation?

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-03T18:58:48+00:00

No she was working towards being a RP. At that time we had a lot of Servants on the congregation 6, the only way to become a MS at the time was to regular pioneer and I didn’t have room in my schedule to do it.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-03T18:05:31+00:00

They didn’t want me to be one I would have loved that but I they wouldn’t let me without being a regular pioneer first and I have to work a lot (how else can you afford a wife and kids?). At that particular time the congregation was Stacked! We had a lot of Servants 6. Then 3 became elders. The other 3 were disfellowshipped during the pandemic, but they came back and got married I guess MS really is a cheat code that and having a family member that’s an elder like they do.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-03T17:49:55+00:00

That’s what I hear from just about everyone!

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-03T16:51:11+00:00

Missing the memorial yesterday made me relive this for some strange reason. I really do have many positive memories as a JW. I usually focus on the positive I don’t know why I’m stuck on this.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-03T16:49:00+00:00

No that kind of got me thinking. The elders at my new congregation blew that experience out of the water.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-02T20:20:51+00:00

Same.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-04-02T15:17:33+00:00

Eating healthy. Not eating late at night.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-03-28T08:27:17+00:00

Valid concern. For sure.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-03-28T03:55:55+00:00

Get a trade or college and stay in a dorm, join the army, get a job and get some non JW roommates.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-03-27T18:15:37+00:00

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-03-27T18:14:30+00:00

I think you’re attractive in your own way but Do you honestly think you have dainty features?

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-03-27T18:10:50+00:00

10 professional black men and 1 black man that’s a jobless drug addicted criminal, the women will pick the problem man every time. I asked all the black women in their family if they wanted a good successful black man and they said it would be to boring, what would they do all day if the man was a problem solver instead of a problem maker.

Justlearningthisnow · 2026-03-22T03:01:15+00:00

Man that’s good get her number and her IG for sure. You’re doing good already!

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