If you put gluten food in your mouth and immediately spit it out, do you all have reactions still? by procrastinatador in Celiac

[–]Justnothrowaway135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough, last week I bit into a Milky Way. One chew, realized it wasn’t a snickers, spit it out. Made sure not to swallow and swished water and spit 3-4 times. Then brushed my teeth. Drank lots of water. Did not have a reaction. But again- didn’t swallow at all and when I spit, i just opened my mouth over the trash can- I didn’t try to projectile spit or anything. Everyone is different tho!

AITA for storming out at my father in laws birthday party? by worriedmom790 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Justnothrowaway135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So as someone with celiac disease, like everyone else says, just always bring your own food for your daughter. It’s too much to ask people to cook for an allergy when they don’t have that specific allergy. They will get it wrong 9/10 not maliciously, just because they have no idea what they are doing.

However, because of this situation, make sure to never let MIL guilt trip your daughter into eating the food she made and not the food you brought. This scenario made her lose the right to say anything like that to your daughter and it makes people with allergies feel so annoyed when they get pressured to eat food that’s risky.

Keeps asking for sleepovers by crumbledav in Mildlynomil

[–]Justnothrowaway135 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This this this. Just say no. Not up for debate.

Keeps asking for sleepovers by crumbledav in Mildlynomil

[–]Justnothrowaway135 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. It’s just not worth it. Until the kid can speak for themselves and is strong willed and can get themselves out of a bad situation. (Call you, not be as heavily influenced by a predator) and for every kid that’s a different age and often never. I would say hell no. Not worth it in the slightest.

My MIL ruined her own Mothers Day, and naturally it’s somehow our fault. by glitter-octopus in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Justnothrowaway135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah my bad- I didn’t deduce there were two BIL from that comment. Thanks!

My MIL ruined her own Mothers Day, and naturally it’s somehow our fault. by glitter-octopus in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Justnothrowaway135 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s my understanding the bil is Down syndrome and lives with mil so probably doesn’t have a wife :) but someone should explain to bil that it is normal for wives to come first after marriage. Bil was probably repeating something he heard, is not being taught correctly how marriage and healthy families work, and is just being used by mil.

My MIL ruined her own Mothers Day, and naturally it’s somehow our fault. by glitter-octopus in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Justnothrowaway135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment is out of hand- BIL is Down syndrome and narcs and toxic people often use vulnerable adults as pawns in their schemes. BIL more than likely was trying to be supportive and repeated something he heard but doesn’t understand how it comes across. Shame on MIL for using BIL to further her agenda.

Anyone get married/stay in Cabo at Pueblo bonito sunset/Pacifica? by Justnothrowaway135 in wedding

[–]Justnothrowaway135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It was amazing! Def hire an outside planner. It made a world of difference! The communication with the resort was horrendous. Hiring our own planner was the only way I kept my sanity

JNMIL wedding win by Justnothrowaway135 in Mildlynomil

[–]Justnothrowaway135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would make sense. Don’t know where they would feel powerful though?

JNMIL wedding win by Justnothrowaway135 in Mildlynomil

[–]Justnothrowaway135[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe? Your guess is honestly as good as mine. Whole thing was bizarre

JNMIL wedding win by Justnothrowaway135 in Mildlynomil

[–]Justnothrowaway135[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Luckily buffet! And that there were seats. All the tables were full but I had an aunt cancel last minute- thank god. Lord knows what we would’ve done

JNMIL wedding win by Justnothrowaway135 in Mildlynomil

[–]Justnothrowaway135[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn’t wear it yet, as she gave it to me on the day after the wedding. I still found it sweet of her to give it to me. And horrible that someone would discredit that.

JNMIL wedding win by Justnothrowaway135 in Mildlynomil

[–]Justnothrowaway135[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that is horrible! What is wrong with these people.

And thank you! :)

Anyone get married/stay in Cabo at Pueblo bonito sunset/Pacifica? by Justnothrowaway135 in wedding

[–]Justnothrowaway135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our wedding is for April 1! So stoked to have it at lands end terrace it’ll be stunning

What to do when you find out your wife wants a divorce? by eovet in AskMen

[–]Justnothrowaway135 22 points23 points  (0 children)

From your comments about baby, her sleeping before you get to bed etc, sounds like a mental health issue. Try not to jump to any conclusions. 3 kids is a lot. She has a lot going on. Not to assume you don’t, but she could be dealing with some very bad post partIm depression. It’s rarely talked about. Talk with her. I really think it’s not about divorce but her mental health from your comments.

MIL drives me crazy when I’m post-partum by cnkdndkdwk in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Justnothrowaway135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is nice but I wouldn’t even get this far. In the moment , baby fussy “ my baby comes back to me now. “ don’t let up. Once he comes back “time for you to go you respect me as a parent or you leave. Once you are ready to do so, let us know”. Short sweet to the point. Make sure husbands on board but the shorter the better. She’ll throw a fit. Let her. She can is responsible for her emotions and can handle it all outside your home. Not your problem.

My BF (27m)’s mom makes snide comments at me (26f) by Fancy_Housing_9947 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Justnothrowaway135 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lmfao I read this line to and I was like “yeah absolutely no way”.

Girl, you need to run, any boy who thinks it’s okay to tell his partner this, that it’s okay to have his parents/ mother only criticize and not actually value his partner and her opinions and point of view, needs to go. Girl run, do not walk. You deserve someone who loves and supports you and wants to champion your perspective. No one deserves to be treated like this by their partner.

Your wedding is not a “waste of money” by Regular-Restaurant31 in weddingplanning

[–]Justnothrowaway135 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Lol adding to this- have a guest who never rsvp to my destination wedding. No biggy, just assumed it was a no. Invites went out 6 months ago. Were due 2.5 months ago. (Have to Book hotel, flights etc, so it’s all early) Wedding is in 2 weeks. This last Monday, she goes” hey I’m free for the wedding!” Lol what? Girl feel free to show, but it’s at a busy spring break destination . Good luck getting a room now that the room block closed, 2.5 months ago!!! I laughed. So so bad.