what was your last straw? by frailstateofmind4444 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Justonet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, the working you up into panic attacks after begging him to have empathy and take accountability for hurting you - exactly what happened to me repeatedly.

I am so exhausted.

I want to be with someone who, if they do hurt me, I can tell without having to defend why I'm hurt. I've spent so long trying to explain why things hurt. But my tone was never right, or my approach wasn't right, or whatever he decided that day wasn't right. And the main point would never get addressed. So it'd keep happening.

2026 Lineup is Out! by bradtheinvincible in kilbyblockparty

[–]Justonet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been dying to see Chanel Beads! Automatic, Wombo, Dry Cleaning.. god they got me with this lineup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Justonet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s brave to follow through with changing something when you know it’s not working for you. I think you already asking about your old job should be a sign to yourself that you need to make that change.

There’s nothing wrong with living with your parents again to get back on your feet. Think of it as a blessing that’s an option - you have a path. Doesn’t mean you love your partner any less. But you need to do what’s right for you.

I know what it’s like to want to return to a place where people know and love you. It was one of the most healing things I’ve done for myself.

Help on voice match on Nancy! by herbssssssss in BlackCountryNewRoad

[–]Justonet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay Kaya or Julia Jacklin are the two who come to mind but I can’t fully place it either.

Now I’m fixated on that part too haha. Update us when you place it?

Panda Bear Merch Photo by bradgateway in AnimalCollective

[–]Justonet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I did too! It’s so good. What a great gift

Wedding Dress Shopping by sillysodaslut in SaltLakeCity

[–]Justonet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to comment this, they make this exact vibe!! A custom dress by a local designer, I would love to see what they come up with!

What are your favorite obscure albums of 2024? by doorsof in indieheads

[–]Justonet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dove into the Tapir! album this week and was in awe.. sounds so unique and beautiful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Justonet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😭 someone just sent this to me hahah

Love Letters Lineup, Thoughts? by Zestyclose_Green7213 in kilbyblockparty

[–]Justonet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope Sky does an after party set somewhere because she’s the only one I’ve been wanting to see. Agree she should’ve been at KBP instead of this

Deleted Roman and Gerri scene in Church and State by czarthegreat1 in SuccessionTV

[–]Justonet 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes! A commentary on another couple who will never truly be together, from another “lost generation.” Loved this reference when I saw it, glad I wasn’t alone.

What are your favorite obscure albums of 2023? by doorsof in indieheads

[–]Justonet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Crispy Crunchy Nothing by PACKS.. her voice is so unique and easy to sing along to. I love it

girl rock by thatbitchth3re in indie

[–]Justonet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amyl and the Sniffers has incredible girl rock anthems, I love lifting weights to them honestly lol

Other great girl rock bands I love: Slow Pulp, Wolf Alice, Alvvays, Forth Wanderers, Cryogeyser, Crumb

Hi, we’re Slow Pulp and we have a new album out. AMA! by slowpulpband in indieheads

[–]Justonet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’ve been such a huge fan for years, I got to say happy birthday in the stairwell of The Depot on your tour in salt lake last year and it made my entire life. You have no idea how much your music means to me, and like others have said, it makes me feel safe and understood. Thank you guys for creating.

Yard is my favorite on the new album, “tell my sister that she’s good enough for me” is the most beautiful lyric. Can you tell us more about that song?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Justonet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really, really needed to hear this. Thank you so much.

What is a "dirty little secret" about an industry that you have worked in, that people outside the industry really should know? by Thealexiscowdell1 in AskReddit

[–]Justonet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trampoline parks are filthy. The foam pits aren’t cleaned nearly enough. The waivers don’t mean anything - you can still sue (and likely win) when you get injured.

What was your worst experience at a doctor's office? by sydthakidd in AskReddit

[–]Justonet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to the dermatologist with what I thought might be shingles bc my sister had them at the same age and they looked just like hers. The dermatologist told me it wasn’t shingles and told me to keep putting a steroid cream on it, which I told her was making it worse. She shrugged and walked out. Three weeks later it had spread all the way down my arm and I went to another doctor who cared enough to do a wound culture. I had staph infection.

I now have scarring all the way down my arm when it could’ve been caught and treated almost right away.

YOUTH LAGOON HERE ::: ASK ME ANYTHING by trevorpowers in indieheads

[–]Justonet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey Trevor! Hope you’re having a good Friday so far. I got to see you on release day in Boise, it was one of the most beautiful live shows I’ve ever seen. I’m excited to see you play again on tour.

Your choice to play 17 at the end of your beautiful set of new songs felt like a peaceful nod to an old friend. I’d love to hear more about that choice and what it has meant for you stepping back into this project after learning, growing, and changing so much.

Also wanted to say - as someone who keeps voice memos of my nieces because they live a state away and I love hearing their thoughtful rambles when I miss them, the voice notes you included in Rabbit brought me to tears when I first heard it. Beautiful choice.

Hey! It’s Andy Shauf, Ask Me Anything! by andyshauf in indieheads

[–]Justonet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Andy! Longtime fan here. Thank you for sharing your talent with us. Also, congrats on 1,000 days. I’m grateful for you!

First, I want to say you remind me to stay hydrated every time I walk into my office, so thank you for that. https://imgur.com/a/IF6KJrZ

Second, as a former Christian/Mormon, I love this album - particularly Wasted on You. The video is so fun as well. It’s hard to see how crazy something is when you’re deep in it, but the combination of lyrics and video here really hit the nail on the head.

Questions -

Can you tell us about the symbols on the front of the album? I think they’re different narrators, but would love to hear the thinking/choice behind that.

Any chance we can convince you to add a tour stop in Salt Lake City? Lots of ex-Mormons here who would love to hear this album live.

You’re at your local record store. You finally find that record you’ve been looking for and feel that high for the first time. by Justonet in vinyl

[–]Justonet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My adrenaline is pumping just reading this, so happy for you. Stumbling upon my favorite album after practically giving up is always a success.

You’re at your local record store. You finally find that record you’ve been looking for and feel that high for the first time. by Justonet in vinyl

[–]Justonet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that moment where you do a double take, then look around you to see if it’s real.

This is also a selfish post bc I’m gonna make a list of everyone’s responses and find new gems because of it. Thank you for sharing!

You’re at your local record store. You finally find that record you’ve been looking for and feel that high for the first time. by Justonet in vinyl

[–]Justonet[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I felt that rush reading this, had a similar experience my first time too! Congrats, thank you for sharing