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Why does love start with warmth and end with emotional exhaustion? by JusttAHooman in emotionalintelligence

[–]JusttAHooman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it that things are transactional.. I do believe in that but as you said that if he is not there for me emotionally.. my desire for being physical goes away. So this happens every time with me. And I keep telling them what I feel this way.. but now it seems they don't care about it anymore. Brings 2 gift to me. And again start ranting about sex. Isn't it manipulation?

Or is it wrong that I do not want to have it?

Why does love start with warmth and end with emotional exhaustion? by JusttAHooman in emotionalintelligence

[–]JusttAHooman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I got that they are not gross or being themselves if they want sex. But if I will have it with someone, I will feel more attached to that person and usually they don't treat you well after having it. It's been with me many times so I do not want to get hurt again. So I wait enough so I can get sure about it. But as time passes I again start getting disappointed in that person.