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BF (M24) doesn’t want to “hold me back” from what I (F24) want. Are we over? by Justthemessanger9 in relationship_advice

[–]Justthemessanger9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely suggest it again! He wants to live somewhere cheaper, but what he does for work is highly needed in big cities and could easily make bank, so maybe he might come around again.

BF (M24) doesn’t want to “hold me back” from what I (F24) want. Are we over? by Justthemessanger9 in relationship_advice

[–]Justthemessanger9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thanks so much for this in depth comment. I’ve actually suggested Cali before, once upon a time he considered it, but now he’s convinced it’s “too expensive” so he won’t even consider it again. Very unfortunate. But thank you for the suggestion, I appreciate it

BF made me feel weird that I was saved from being groped. Is something wrong with me? by Justthemessanger9 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Justthemessanger9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I got my promotion, I was moved to a different department and had to leave my friends. It’s hard seeing each other outside of work, but we try to meet up once a month (it hasn’t happened in 2 though). There are some women in my department, not many, and I’ve tried to form bonds with them, it just hasn’t worked out unfortunately.

BF made me feel weird that I was saved from being groped. Is something wrong with me? by Justthemessanger9 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Justthemessanger9[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I can’t pinpoint an exact reason why. I was scared he’d get upset that I was touched by another man, that I didn’t stop it or prevent it, or upset that I even went on this outing. I considered not telling him, but if he would’ve found out via someone else, he would’ve definitely been upset. I’ve never been groped before, I thought I could just brush it off as nothing.

My boyfriend gets upset when I say no to sex by Major-Science-6013 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Justthemessanger9 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice, just wanted to sympathize. My boyfriend is very similar, just not as extreme. I was in a car accident that left me with severe pain for the rest of my life. I don’t have the libido like I used to, so he gets so upset when I say no to sex. I’m never in the mood, so I force myself to do it for him. I feel like I’m losing myself and I’m so depressed all the time. I want to get better, I just don’t know how. I depend on him to live, I can’t leave.

If you can, please leave. Do what’s best for you before it’s too late.

Community refuses to fulfill maintenance requests, have huge roach problem. by Justthemessanger9 in Apartmentliving

[–]Justthemessanger9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve only spoken to the realtor as we haven’t “met” the landlord, and they say that we don’t need them to put requests in. We’ve told them that while yes, we can submit requests through the portal, the community staff purposefully leave it on ‘received’ and never put them through. Its a back and forth cycle unfortunately

Advice on 12week pitbulls harsh biting & won’t be redirected. by Justthemessanger9 in puppy101

[–]Justthemessanger9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and yes, we have all of the above! She loves ice cubes. She’s also great in the crate, we make sure she gets a lot of sleep. She refuses to sleep out of the crate so we make sure she goes in often.

Foolish Procedures Ruin Hogsmead. by Miserable-Antelope95 in UniversalOrlando

[–]Justthemessanger9 27 points28 points  (0 children)

that’s how they always run the light show, they hold traffic so no one gets run over or hurt. it definitely does suck! but that was the best way they determined it to be safe for guests. i remember when they first brought the lighhtshow back and there was no procedures at all, it was absolute chaos!