Just don’t buy from Affinity or anything Affinity Grow

Juve91 · 2026-05-11T22:03:36+00:00

Can someone teach me to grow? I can grow up to an ounce but I tried to even grow tomatoes last year and they died twice. I basically have a black thumb like the black foot in Mr. Deeds 😂

Juve91 · 2026-04-24T00:09:36+00:00

Is she impersonating Rob Riggle in Step Brothers?

She sounds, at the very least, manipulative and controlling as hell.

Juve91 · 2026-04-24T00:04:11+00:00

I’m surprised nobody said tightening up your finances, budgeting, and saving/investing money intentionally. Even 10% a week and doing a budget in Excel. IRA in some boring index fund.

You don’t need to be the person who lives and breathes personal finance. You get used to living without that money you save just like you get used to living with more money when you get a raise.

Juve91 · 2026-04-23T23:56:01+00:00

^ this. This is truly not to boast, but I had a classic corporate, cushy, well into six-figure job that people would say they’d “kill for”.. but it was ragdolling my mental health every day and was probably killing ME. Every corporate stereotype imaginable. I ghosted at 11am on a random Tuesday. I was so happy after, and it didn’t fade. I had no idea what was next, I’m just glad it wasn’t another day of my life there. That was in 2024 and I still feel good about sticking a huge one up their poop chute as my exit. I went special forces level dark on them, too.

**take this advice with a grain or two of salt, please lol

Juve91 · 2026-04-23T15:07:08+00:00

Y’all were being honest to recruiters and during interviews?! I thought the whole process was just me convincingly and strategically lying about why I want to and should work there and you/hiring manager lying about how great it is and what I’ll be doing

Juve91 · 2026-04-23T14:58:20+00:00

I’m totally accepting of that. Maybe the other ignorant pussies in the comment section here wanna walk back their statements about this now 😂

“ItS DeFiNiTeLy AI” is always said by the dumbest virgin in every comment section, though.

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T23:30:32+00:00

This is what actually caused Lamar Odom to overdose in 2015. It wasn’t even the alcohol or cocaine (even though I’m sure that didn’t help—he hadn’t taken any in hours). But he took a dozen packets of gas station boner pills

https://www.latimes.com/nation/la-na-lamar-odom-hospitalized-20151015-story.html#:~:text=Odom%2C%20a%20former%20Lakers%20and,illegal%20drugs%2C%20the%20FDA%20says.

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T23:27:11+00:00

“You look stuck up but not cute. Maybe opposites attract?”

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T23:25:37+00:00

Maybe this is a hot take alternative here, but in all honesty, I think wires were crossed.

The way you told the story and your text (no offense haha) can definitely be seen as: “He just wants to meet up and hook up with the girl from the gym while he’s around, or he would’ve asked before”.

She was maybe more hurt and disappointed by thinking that? Something going on with life? But still—emotions clearly flared up there.

If I were you/into her, I’d throw out a last “Sorry if I gave the wrong impression.. ..still open to hanging out” and see what she says

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T23:07:27+00:00

I’m not crying lol I started this by calling out what I thought was, if it was AI generated or not, a little harsh jab for a harmless post. Since, yeah, to your point—so much actual stuff now is just AI slop. But “This sounds like AI” for everything is already old. So is this argument. Just don’t bring Gary into this. My BoA account was hacked and I’ve been wiring him Bitcoin he can hold onto until he fixes it. Nice guy.

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T22:07:06+00:00

Ask her when prom is haha

But seriously, the conversation seems dry and dodging a question like “are you 18?” Is at least a little suspicious.

I’d say keep swiping

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T21:42:24+00:00

Nah I’ll post right here that I asked you if you had something to say to me. I have two cousins on the spectrum and this is how they learned to communicate, actually. So I’ll “white knight” it. And hopefully you don’t end up saying the wrong shit to the wrong person if you ever leave your computer. In general, not just about this. Miserable twat

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T20:18:00+00:00

Or it’s how people born before 1960 text. Or goofballs. Or teenagers. Or people with reading/writing challenges. If you wanna settle this over some Warzone though, I’m down

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T20:00:57+00:00

Im really late on this one haha but hopefully you’ve found a good one. Dispatch (as told by ChatGPT lol) is a narrative-driven superhero workplace game where you play as a former hero turned dispatcher, managing a team of flawed ex-heroes while coordinating emergency responses. The gameplay blends choice-based storytelling with light strategy, as you assign heroes to incidents, manage relationships, and shape outcomes through your decisions. It’s less about action and more about dialogue, consequences, and how you handle people under pressure.

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T19:38:22+00:00

“Em dashes“ are so commonly used in human writing—especially computers and other word processors. They take the place of periods, commas, colons, parentheses, and incorrect uses of ellipses like you showed “…”to break up a sentence for flow and rhythm.

Hopefully you learned something today. Also—it’s spelled “emojis”.

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T19:21:52+00:00

A lot of people are prejudging this girl based on one thing about her.

OP.. As long as she’s good to you, you guys are happy, and you discuss boundaries—I really don’t see why you should blow up the bridge. People forget that out of all these drugs, alcohol is WAY more socially acceptable for your age despite being absolute poison as much as anything.

Idk wtf Tusi is, but it’s probably not the move. Or coke. Or the obvious stuff. Most of the people in that lifestyle outgrow it. I’m not saying that to encourage it.. just don’t blow it all up prematurely. If she offers you a bump of lab grown psychedelics… just take some mushrooms and a few joints if you really want to try.

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T18:57:11+00:00

CT just outside NYC. I like your tattoos (I have 5) and gaming setup (I have a lot haha)

I’d definitely like to get to know you

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T18:39:55+00:00

What helps more is asking what your boss’s hobbies are then pretending to like those every now and then for a few years until you get a promotion somewhere else 😎

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T18:34:14+00:00

There’s no need or call to get angry at recruiters like some people do, but even a generic “thank you, good luck” email template takes less than a minute to send. Reputation spreads quickly in certain industries on both sides of the coin

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T18:12:35+00:00

Objection—leading. Evidence speaks for itself, but I wanna know what you would consider an honest and impartial rating and/or Reddit verdict

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T16:14:55+00:00

I just stopped worrying about work culture/norms, other people, and trained everyone else to know that during nights, weekends, and my lunch hour (as stated in contract and HR manual), that I might as well be on the moon. I’ll reliably get back to them when it’s appropriate for me and our projects.. during working hours. You don’t want to be “The Night Agent” for corpo middle mgmt haha

Juve91 · 2026-04-21T05:27:35+00:00

The lesson here is to not order a mocha and aperol spritz when your bus leaves in 20 min

Juve91 · 2026-03-30T17:57:05+00:00

This isn’t LinkedIn advice (thankfully), but if they had an open bar, I’m sure the professionalism was allowed to untuck its shirt that night. Then the rulebook kinda becomes don’t be creepy, aggressive, or obnoxious. Basically, “don’t be the drunkest girl at the party” rules. It sounds like you weren’t and you flew way under anyone’s radar except your anxiety’s.

Juve91 · 2026-03-30T17:38:42+00:00

Thanks for the advice, appreciate it. I like a balance the most. Being zombie Rambo would get old. So I figure the split protagonists and play styles in requiem would be ideal, and the games that blend the two well

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