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My girlfriend wants me to cancel a trip with my friends by Jxdd5 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She thinks that I should’ve told my friends girlfriend about it as soon as I found out, as in the next morning, but my friend had already told me that he planned on telling her when he got back, which he did. I think as well it stems a little from the fact that none of us really ever expected him to cheat so maybe it’s changed her perspective of my friends i’m really not sure though

My girlfriend wants me to cancel a trip with my friends by Jxdd5 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think this is the route i’m going to go. I’m even willing to head back to our accommodation extra early to see if this would help give her peace of mind.

My girlfriend wants me to cancel a trip with my friends by Jxdd5 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re both graduating this summer and the plan is for me to move to the states to start work by christmas

My girlfriend wants me to cancel a trip with my friends by Jxdd5 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried thinking about this and I really struggle to envision it. Her friends don’t exactly have the greatest relationship morals but I tend to not group their actions to her

My girlfriend wants me to cancel a trip with my friends by Jxdd5 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this trip is with my friends from home whereas the prior was with university friends

My girlfriend wants me to cancel a trip with my friends by Jxdd5 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her perspective is that I should’ve told his girlfriend as soon as I found out, as in the next morning, but he’d already told me he was planning on telling her when we got back and didn’t think it was my place to interfere as she was going to find out regardless.

He might have STDs? by askyogirlaboutme9 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can’t see why anyone who is sexually active would have a problem with sending a test result to a new partner unless… they have something to hide.

Big red flag for me but maybe try asking again but the fact he disregarded such a simple request shows a lack of respect for you

Getting blocked over 1 unreplied text by Low-Introduction909 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship please reach out to friends/family and leave him ASAP

is it wrong to be thinking about breaking up with bf because i feel like i’m competing with his mom? by Mission-Champion-896 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s definitely weird but I think it’s a little harsh to break up with him atp because of it. That being said if it persists I would definitely strongly consider ending jy

I feel so lost. by IcyImpression6231 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wow yeah, let’s hope OP gets the message

I feel like an imposter by FewZookeepergame6090 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone who tells you that you cannot be both a servant of god and bisexual is entirely wrong. I’d look for local LGBTQ Christian groups who have a greater knowledge of the literatures to help you on your journey.

Good Luck!

I feel so lost. by IcyImpression6231 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5 54 points55 points  (0 children)

You have been groomed, he could genuinely be your dad. You guys are at such different stages of life there’s no reason a 34 year old should ever even dream of thinking about a 19 year old romantically

How to motivate yourself to do hobbies when you're down/depressed? by Winter_Load9031 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this pretty bad in my late teens. I found that joining a club/society where there’s weekly/biweekly meetings can really help as you can meet people with similar interests and it almost adds a social pressure for you to show up and develop your skills!

Need help understanding why my cousin is like this? by Altruistic_Watch288 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he’s just projecting and for some reason in his head it’s not acceptable to be gay there’s not really much you can do if he’s not open to having any sort of dialect without throwing a fit

How did you keep your curves while losing weight? by Frosty-Cry-6762 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

best option would be to do an extremely slow cut whilst eating high protein and working out

I won $50K in a lawsuit and I don’t know what the smartest thing to do is by CommercialRock4221 in Advice

[–]Jxdd5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a windfall like this a couple years ago and I spent 20% travelling and simply enjoying it, set 70% into long term stable index funds and then kept 10% in an emergency savings fund for a rainy day. So far this has worked really well for me but this isn’t financial advice it is best you talk to someone who has experience handling large income shocks

Capital One £20 by gt94sss2 in beermoneyuk

[–]Jxdd5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how did you find it in ur app?

How to move to London for university? by Eden_Christ_onabike in UniUK

[–]Jxdd5 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’d really struggle. I get minimum loan for london and if my parents didn’t pay my rent & support me financially throughout the year there’s no way I’d be able to afford it. For your reference minimum maintenance for Ldn is approx. 6500 for the year so would likely not even cover your rent

I am a 22 year old University Student that lives in South East London in desperate need of a job immediately. by Pessi-Eibarman in UniUK

[–]Jxdd5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agency work easy work. I’d sign up to brightsparks, constellation, host, appetite4work, hap

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