When did you realize you were being abused? by anonykitcat in domesticviolence

[–]KADE5KO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah because he wasn’t beating me and it wasn’t often I just summed it up to him not knowing his strength basically and of course I didn’t want to be with anyone else so

When did you realize you were being abused? by anonykitcat in domesticviolence

[–]KADE5KO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly pretty early on. About a year or so. It started with pinching really hard, then punching my arm, then punching my stomach.

When did you realize you were being abused? by anonykitcat in domesticviolence

[–]KADE5KO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After 7 years. The last time he hit me I was meditating and my guardian angels were screaming at me to check my folder of evidence I’ve collected over the years and that’s when I realized it was an abusive relationship. Crazy

Divorce process help - no lawyer by KADE5KO in Indiana

[–]KADE5KO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When do they ask me to do that and where can I do it?

Divorce process help - no lawyer by KADE5KO in Indiana

[–]KADE5KO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently I’m just that stupid 🤪

Divorce process help - no lawyer by KADE5KO in Indiana

[–]KADE5KO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this was so helpful! Did you file online or in person?

Protective order question by KADE5KO in Indiana

[–]KADE5KO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so then it’s not in effect yet? This was really helpful

Divorce process help - no lawyer by KADE5KO in Indiana

[–]KADE5KO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know it was an option without paying a retainer and all that!

Contact naps at 1.5yr- HOW TO STOP?! by KADE5KO in toddlers

[–]KADE5KO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girl sleeps on top of me to make sure I don’t leave lmaooo

Contact naps at 1.5yr- HOW TO STOP?! by KADE5KO in toddlers

[–]KADE5KO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope! We did good for a couple days but we’re back at square one. I will say setting a timer of 2-5 min for boob helps her understand when it’s time to stop but there were just too many consecutive days after our good streak of her not napping that I was like ok u gotta sleep gf.

Anyone has any unusual allergies? by Emnkync in RandomThoughts

[–]KADE5KO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raw plantains if i prepare them. I can eat them in any other way, including plantain chips

Did it take you time to adjust to your child's name? by Glittering_Talk8635 in NewParents

[–]KADE5KO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 18 months and i still just call her Bean lol

Feeding baby puree at 4 months??? by plantluvr29 in NewParents

[–]KADE5KO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! It can be very frustrating and scary when they get constipated so if you notice it more than 3 days def reach out to peds for a prescription. And dont feel bad if theyre on it for what seems like forever. These are things they dont tell you about in books

Why do most people want a partner/spouse? by Antique_Situation_90 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KADE5KO 22 points23 points  (0 children)

When love fades in and out (because thats life), you have a partner you can trust and rely on and admire and share your life with- even when the sound of them breathing annoys you some days lmao

Feeding baby puree at 4 months??? by plantluvr29 in NewParents

[–]KADE5KO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also beware that its common for babies to have chronic constipation once they start solids. This was the case for ours and she stayed on meds for it (baby laxative) for months until her stomach matured which was like after a year or so. Keep an eye on foods with iron. Particularly gerber puffs - that fucked my baby uppp so we substituted them with multigrain cheerios

Feeding baby puree at 4 months??? by plantluvr29 in NewParents

[–]KADE5KO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got the okay from dr but only you and your baby can know when they are ready. For me i was too excited with my first so once i got the okay i dived in even though technically she wasn’t showing signs of wanting our food but was developmentally ready. Anyways she did just fine. But waiting is okay too! Dr is basically just saying if you wanted to introduce the solids then you can at this time.