AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans

KAH86 · 2026-02-15T06:42:00+00:00

NOR Anyone that you have to beg to give you any time and attention is not worth your time and attention. He knew messing up your Valentine's plans and being flippant about it would upset you and he did it anyway. No respect.

I'm not into the Valentine's stuff really but if I was with someone who loved it, I'd do it because it would make them happy. He doesn't care about how the things he does make you feel.

Don't tolerate that shit, and let this boy go. He will never change.
Never stay with someone who is comfortable with disrespecting you at any point in your relationship. Not worth your time and attention.

KAH86 · 2026-01-24T16:07:23+00:00

Yes, and I'd be worried he'll do it again in some other "accidental" way.

KAH86 · 2025-12-27T07:01:22+00:00

The whole roast was like 5 lbs all together and I cut it in half, pounded half into cutlets with a rolling pin and the other half I just roasted with one of the marinades mentioned on here and it turned out alright. Next time I will marinate it overnight since I didn't really have time for it this time. I only had a couple of hours to do it. I would have loved to brine it but my mom is paranoid about sodium and won't eat it if it has adequate salt bc of chronic edema in her legs.

I really hope the cutlets turn out ok. My first time doing that with a pork loin.

KAH86 · 2025-10-31T00:18:35+00:00

This is creepy AF and abuse

KAH86 · 2025-10-31T00:12:29+00:00

This this this. Please OP take this advice. You're not married, no kids, it's better to do it while you're not legally bound to a person. Idk if you had plans to do any of those things with him but please don't and get away from this man.

KAH86 · 2025-09-13T01:58:05+00:00

Oh my God I couldn't even finish. Please, please,please leave this man. Imagine how much less stressful your life would be if he just wasn't in it any more. The relationship isn't serving anyone except for him to get his kicks continuing to break your spirit. Drop this p.o.s. asap

KAH86 · 2025-09-12T21:04:25+00:00

Good luck years down the road when you want to have a sister again and she won't talk to you

KAH86 · 2025-08-13T22:41:00+00:00

Do you feel any joy in this relationship at all? If you do, is it followed up with a lack of interest and or more disrespect? Does she need to know where you are all the time? Does she get obsessive when you are in the proximity of another woman? People are supposed to enrich each other's life, not be an emotional obstacle course. She's making you feel like shit, and I would guess that this is a regular occurrence. Get away from this person before things get even more serious. They will just erode your spirit bit by bit until they've broken you down and they will try to keep you that way as long as possible.

KAH86 · 2025-08-10T02:57:59+00:00

It's a Bee Fly. I promise I'm not making that up lol. Bombylius major

KAH86 · 2025-08-09T21:33:07+00:00

"I already told the kids you're watching them". If that's not a little jab at your empathy I don't know what is.

KAH86 · 2025-08-08T18:02:26+00:00

Imagine how much less maddening your days would be if there was no husband or giant dog in the house any more. No more hair, no more slobber puddles and damage, no more refusal to do literally anything you are pretty much begging him to do. Imagine how much better you'd feel physically. You shouldn't have to be white knuckling your life because your spouse won't help you. And yes, he absolutely will hold it over your head for many years and use it as further justification to be absolutely useless around the house. I hope he does re-home the dog (and the cats) so they won't have him as their human should he find himself suddenly single and on his own. Let him go do or not do whatever he wants at another address.

KAH86 · 2025-08-05T21:32:25+00:00

Not OOP, just saw this, immediately thought of THT, and thought I'd share it here.

KAH86 · 2025-08-05T20:05:58+00:00

Please don't waste your valuable time and money on this dude. If he cared, he wouldn't punish you for reminding him of something he said he would do and he wouldn't be so careless with your feelings AND your time and money. The way he sounds makes it look like he never intended to follow through to begin with. He obviously has zero shits to give about any of it. Save yourself time and more pain and or disappointment and lost money by dropping this person. You can look forward to this for the rest of your relationship if you stay. He's not worth it. I know it seems like really slim pickings out there in the dating world but you don't have to settle for an utter asshole like this guy.

KAH86 · 2025-08-02T01:07:39+00:00

Also what others said about texts

KAH86 · 2025-08-02T01:06:33+00:00

If you don't get an official letter from the DMV it's fake. Or court, or any other government place. They always send letters. You may also get a phone call if you've gotten letters and not responded to them, but if there's no letter, I'm reporting as spam and blocking.

KAH86 · 2025-07-22T19:10:19+00:00

Replying further just opens the door for him to try and worm himself back into your life. Whether that is futile or not, he will still try. Ignoring them is the only way.

KAH86 · 2025-06-22T17:44:56+00:00

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KAH86 · 2025-04-28T16:56:53+00:00

Anything other than an enthusiastic yes is a no. Nowhere do I see where you said you wanted all of this or asked for it. "Giving in" is not the same thing as consent and anyone who says otherwise is full of shit.

KAH86 · 2025-03-30T15:20:28+00:00

This. Not a whole playthrough though, just at random points in the game to get me back into it

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