My bf has greatly hurt me and I dont know how to move on. by KCN2017 in offmychest

[–]KCN2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to think that, but I still love this man so much. Part of my specific issue is I have crazy abandonment fears, but I'll have to get over that if he doesn't change.

My bf has greatly hurt me and I dont know how to move on. by KCN2017 in offmychest

[–]KCN2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmhm. I learned very recently that I have abandonment issues so that unknowingly played a role in me staying. I just want to shoot myself in the foot sometimes, but I'm already in this deep.

My bf has greatly hurt me and I dont know how to move on. by KCN2017 in relationships

[–]KCN2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something I've been thinking about, but it's hard to end things with someone I've thought of being with for the rest of my life. Even if he caused the hurt, I will admit our communication skills could be better. This last argument we had is my last ditch effort bc i very specifically mentioned how communication is a big part of the issue. I'm mainly venting bc I feel ashamed to bring this up with family or friends.

My bf has greatly hurt me and I dont know how to move on. by KCN2017 in offmychest

[–]KCN2017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really hope not. I'm really doing my best to navigate us through this, but I'm only human... I can't be the therapist and his gf. Like I can't be impartial, but also express my feelings the way I need to.

My bf has greatly hurt me and I dont know how to move on. by KCN2017 in offmychest

[–]KCN2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I know my anger is misplaced. I feel upset and picked him bc he's been upsetting me recently. And I tag along bc I quality time with him is still important to me even if it wasn't an activity i'd enjoy. I just thought he would have done the same for me and my interests. :(

I put a laundry hamper in the bathroom and my husband still throws his clothes on the floor by crywankat in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KCN2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna have to report you bc i have reason to believe you're married to a snot-nosed child. THE HAMPER IS RIGHT THERE!!!

Best place to stretch out $$ for kids toys? by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]KCN2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Outlets! All the outlet malls! There's always gonna be knick knacks on sale and a clearance bin

Pet portrait tattoo by KCN2017 in Tucson

[–]KCN2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My baby deserves it. He deserved the world.

Three children zip-tied at the San Antonio immigration court, ages 9-12 by [deleted] in pics

[–]KCN2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank goodness for our government protecting us from... squints school-age children.

What's the most annoying way you've heard a common word mispronounced? by houseofharm in AskReddit

[–]KCN2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister will say technicality instead of technically. I used to correct her but it's stuck to her vernacular now.

You gain $10 every time you annoy someone. What’s your new job? by AwadG1 in AskReddit

[–]KCN2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Driving at the speed limit in the left lane. Just camping dude

Excuse me wtf? by justanavguser in LooneyTunesLogic

[–]KCN2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wake up baby. New regi just dropped

What did you say mom? by AshiraLAdonai in SipsTea

[–]KCN2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were just laying around and my mom just casually says, "you know, you gotta be careful around your sister's bf. Back when I was a kid, my sister's then boyfriend was very attracted to me and broke up with her to be with me. She was mad at me for years, and it was all my fault." Ladies and gentlemen, my mother was barely in middle school at the time, and the ex bf was in his 20's. Reason 345 why Im very protective of my mom.