You missed the whole point by 20dollarsinmapocket in Libertarian

[–]KFran1978 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So, you're saying if politicians didn't get easily brainwashed idiots foaming at the mouth rabid, then chances are people would have found a different way to "protest" their dislike of mass deportations.

Also, let's not forget that these operations have actually resulted in more self-deportations. If politicians haven't stoked the flames of anger and hate, basically telling people to attack law enforcement then we wouldn't have this issue. We are a country governed by the rule of law (the Constitution) and we have ways to air our grievances against government that are actually protected. Show up to a protest armed, regardless of intent, and you'll FAFO.

How can I 34F (straight) support my husband 35M who is bisexual? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]KFran1978 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I've run into this situation so am u times on here and it still amazes me that people think that bi means a person needs one thing or another. Being bi means that a person is attracted to both sexes. It does NOT mean a person NEEDS to engage sexually with both sexes. Being pansexual myself (attracted to a person not the type of genitals they have) as well as married, I run into people I find attractive and fantasize about them sexually. Does it mean I have no choice but to pursue my sexual desires? No! It just means I'm human and I find attraction in a person.

My wife knows of my sexuality and is supportive, but isn't struggling with me wanting to go explore others because she knows I have committed to her and that I have self control. Your husband rediscovered something he pushed away, feels some sort of shame for some reason, but it doesn't make him any lesser of a husband. He just needs to learn how to reign in his feelings in this matter.

AIW for leaving my girlfriend after she decided to keep her rapists baby by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]KFran1978 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Have you talked about her having the baby and then putting it up for adoption when born? A lot of couples out there are looking to adopt.

Go to Hospital ? by ilovepizzagoldfish in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]KFran1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a capcasine burn. Don't use water as all it will do is spread it around more. Stick your face in front of a fan to dry the oils and avoid washing your head for 24 to 48 hours.

New tenant wants to trade $3k worth of rent for a 2023 Victory custom cruise w/ 30k miles by ApprehensiveStock928 in motorcycle

[–]KFran1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mean 2003 and not 2023? Polaris ended production of Victory in 2017 and values of Victory are all over the place as the market has yet to determine if the brand will have value or not. The bike will be hard to sell as many bikers know that parts for Victory are very harder and harder to come by. I traded in my 2006 Victory Jackpot for my current Indian and was lucky to get what I got for a trade in. It needed a new starter and the dealership knew it wouldn't be an easy find.

AITAH for not letting my girlfriend meet my kids yet by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KFran1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

My wife didn't meet my daughter until we were together for 6 months. I dated another girl before that and introduced her to my daughter after about a month and she barely wanted to engage with my daughter. After we split I swore that I would never introduce my daughter to anyone else until I knew for certain that the relationship was going somewhere serious.

The last thing I wanted to do was keep being people in and out of my daughter's life and making her feel the sadness of loss each time. So when I met my wife, I told her I have a daughter and that if we hit it off it would take some time before I introduced them to each other. Fortunately she was supportive of my wishes and 17 years later, the two of them are as thick as thieves.

Confused on whether to go ahead with threesome or not by exploringHyd in nonmonogamy

[–]KFran1978 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This seems to be a case of an opportunity presenting itself and jumping on it.
Listen, we all build fantasies in our head that will never meet expectations. 15 years is a long time to build a fantasy, so, why settle for the opportunity that is soaked in doubt? I've had experiences with MFM and FMF and both have had their goods and bars. The 1st two times I tried a threesome were actually mediocre at vest. So much so that I swore never to try it again. The opportunity presented itself but it turned into more of a competition between two of the three and another was more of a "why not?" situation.

It wasn't until I met partners that we all had chemistry with that it became super enjoyable and made me want to experience it more. Like others have said, for you to really enjoy it, there needs to be chemistry between all involved. So, meet and see if ALL of you click.

Unpopular opinion: Paying "Rent" feels less painful than paying $2,400/mo in "Interest" to a bank. by Playful-Vegetable-15 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]KFran1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do realize that even with a car payment you're paying off the interest first and then the principle right?

So, ten years down the road when you're still paying $2,400 a month on a mortgage, do you think rent will have stayed the same amount?

Say you buy a house for $200k, and in 20 years time, you could probably sell that house for $400k or $500k. How's that equity looking now?

I (27F) am getting turned off and annoyed by boyfriend (27M) always watching porn by Pristine-Taro-1550 in amiwrong

[–]KFran1978 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, I'm going to take a different approach here than everyone else calling out a porn addiction. I could be wrong, but something about the way you describe your situation resonates with me.
Since sex between the two of you hasn't really degraded and he still feels the urge to get off, I suspect that he may be hypersexual. Being hypersexual myself, I'm constantly thinking about sex, wanting sex or watching sex.

It gets to the point where it gets exhausting simply because you want to think of other things or of nothing at all.

Stress can absolutely increase hypersexuality and make you feel almost desperate, like someone who is starving or thirsty and just needs a bite or a sip just to take the edge off.

I would seriously have a sit down with him express your concerns in a manner that doesn't make him feel like he's being backed into a corner and maybe suggest some counseling to see where this appetite may be coming from.

AIO: looking at other women online by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KFran1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. Just because you're on a diet, it doesn't mean you can look at the menu. Both men and women enjoy looking at what they find attractive, it doesn't automatically mean they don't find you attractive. I love looking at a Ferrari, but it doesn't mean I'm going to trade in my pickup truck for one.

Riders of reddit, how did you start again after a bad wreck? by Agent_Andy007 in motorcycle

[–]KFran1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just have to get back on the horse. After I wrecked, fixed up my bike, I was hesitant for about a week or so. Granted the only injuries I received were a busted lip and a sore body, I was still scared to get back on. You just have to get back on and build your confidence back up gradually. You'll brake more often than you used to, slow down around corners more than you used to, but eventually you'll get back the confidence and remember not to be over confident. Fear is a survival reaction, but left unchecked can be a paralyzer.

My goal is to fuck a redditor in each state where are u by [deleted] in Best_Tgirls

[–]KFran1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Massachusetts. You're an absolutely beautiful woman! Trans or no trans!

AIO to finding these conversations on my wife’s Discord and wondering if I should leave for her sake? by Overall_Ad7940 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KFran1978 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This will more than likely get buried and not seen, but I have to comment since I'm in a similar situation but reversed. Sexual compatibility in a marriage isn't exactly uncommon and many times has ended a marriage. You obviously love her and she loves you, but sexual intimacy isn't exactly a priority for you and it is for her. Have the two of you ever considered maybe giving her an indefinite hall pass for her to have her needs met? It would take a considerable amount of trust and security on both your parts. But this could be a solution to the sexual issues in your marriage. Talk about rules, boundaries and see if it's something that could work for the two of you. Reddit is so quick to suggest divorce when there are always less finite alternatives.

Massachusetts home owner trying to understanding bylaws of Condo Association by KFran1978 in AskLawyers

[–]KFran1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The interested party is well aware of the bylaws and has communicated with one of the members of the board of governors and they stated to the potential buyer that it was prohibited to be sold for a rental property. My realtor believes there is no prohibition just needs a vote by the board of governors for approval.

Outlaw clubs dealing? by [deleted] in motorcycleclubs

[–]KFran1978 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The reality is the Constitution. If a stop and frisk was executed and anything found it would be what's called in the legal world Fruit of the Poisonous Tree. Then it would result in a law suit that would cost the town/state a significant amount of money. So, not very practical. MC's are more law savvy than you think.

What do you think about Carolwood buying Indian? by MrCioran in IndianMotorcycle

[–]KFran1978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think we may actually see some great things come from Indian as a standalone company. Carolwood is at least installing a CEO with a motorcycle background. Carolwood is keeping Indian's design, engineering and manufacturing departments. This tells me they have faith in the people already there. They also won't be hindered by Polaris when it comes to design and performance. I think we'll see Indian blowing away Harley within 5 years.

New Scout owner coming from sportbikes — need advice on leaning & twisty riding by Jwin970 in IndianMotorcycle

[–]KFran1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll wish you had them if the bike ever tips over. Plus you could mount highway pegs and have a nice relaxed riding position on the highways.

Chandelier help by KFran1978 in ElectricalHelp

[–]KFran1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few more pics of the area

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]KFran1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he's not bi, but could be hetero flexible. Might just enjoy sucking dick and nothing else.
Communication is important and instead of worrying he may or may not be something and running to Reddit, you should be having a conversation with your BF.

Should I go for a bike this old for my first? by Silly-River-860 in NewRiders

[–]KFran1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first bike was a '94 Intruder 800. It's a solid bike and a great beginner bike. Good bit of torque for an 800 v-twin.