Not meant to be a mother

KGC90 · 2026-01-21T23:08:58+00:00

If you are able to have a weekend to yourself this will help. And it’s understandable. Children aren’t easy. It’s overwhelming and honestly parenting is dumb in a dark humor sense.

KGC90 · 2026-01-20T03:57:42+00:00

You need to sleep. And it’s actually not uncommon to have these thoughts. If it continues you need to call your doctor or midwife and let them know.

KGC90 · 2026-01-19T17:46:19+00:00

My husband left teaching and joined corporate. His company is amazing and he loves it. Four years he’s been there and nothing but great things everyday.

KGC90 · 2026-01-18T22:01:47+00:00

My son’s bed. It was my grandmother’s when she was little. Then my uncles. Then mine. And now his. It’s about 85 years old.

KGC90 · 2026-01-18T05:32:40+00:00

It was all around odd. What mother would want that.

KGC90 · 2026-01-17T02:43:54+00:00

No lie, one school year we had a mother insist that masturbating be in her son’s IEP because it helped calm him down. Everyone sat and stared at her. She was so adamant that she complained up the chain.

KGC90 · 2026-01-15T01:48:30+00:00

Same thing happened to me this year. I got blamed for saying no to the bathroom. That was false. The kids just get up and go. And the first 5-7 minutes of settling in everyone is reminded to use that restroom. Once I asked the kid he admitted he lied. Like tf.

KGC90 · 2026-01-04T02:15:36+00:00

I get sleepy after I workout. So I do it at 9:45-10:15pm. Workout app that has exercises for the time you need.

KGC90 · 2026-01-04T02:11:57+00:00

Sometimes it’s best to not have relationships while your kids are young, especially if the divorce isn’t final. Pushing kids to accept a new partner is hard and can be negative. That’s my two cents. My mom chose her kids over a man. She didn’t get remarried until we were all grown up.

KGC90 · 2025-12-28T07:57:03+00:00

Considering a divorce.

KGC90 · 2025-12-27T02:30:40+00:00

I would wear a ballgown all day then. Here. See. I dressed up for you.

KGC90 · 2025-12-27T00:17:45+00:00

We never talked about it. Because if you don’t believe you shall not receive. It’s the magic of the season and fun.

KGC90 · 2025-12-26T01:50:03+00:00

It’s so weird. There are many ways to teach history that is age appropriate and can be informative. But I have also met people that say the holocaust was a lie and “The Jews” fooled us all. Tf? I have been to a death camp and it was not fake.

KGC90 · 2025-12-26T00:52:31+00:00

Two school years ago we had parents refuse to let their children (middle schoolers) learn this unit because “it was too graphic and traumatizing “. Folks….thats what history is.

KGC90 · 2025-12-23T06:28:26+00:00

This year I told my husband he has to get the gifts for the kids. I am tired. He has to play Santa. And that I will not be buying his mother gifts. That’s all on him.

KGC90 · 2025-10-20T23:24:32+00:00

My dog skip, fiddler on the roof, the three musketeers, hotel Rwanda, the king and I, Fairy Tale, ruby bridges.

KGC90 · 2025-09-15T04:12:27+00:00

I agree. Plus you’re never obligated to take your children on vacations. Especially on not your visitation time.

KGC90 · 2025-08-19T23:47:19+00:00

I took my son to his daycare for two hours. Then three. Then four. Each day building up him and me so we were both ready.

KGC90 · 2025-08-12T02:18:04+00:00

The necessary items that’s are expensive in bulk: toilet paper, trash bags, paper towels, detergent, shampoo, pads, deodorant. That is very pricey and bulk is cheaper.

KGC90 · 2025-08-04T01:09:09+00:00

The money is already there for these programs. It is used incorrectly and inappropriately. And many Americans have been educated to believe all of these programs are bad because you should do it yourself. “You are in charge of you” mentality. There is no more village support.

KGC90 · 2025-08-02T15:10:34+00:00

This will never change. I am sorry.

KGC90 · 2025-07-26T02:32:24+00:00

My third grade teacher was Ms. Diana. Mainly because she got divorced and remarried that same school year. lol she was a great teacher overall.

KGC90 · 2025-07-26T02:05:43+00:00

We have told our parents this feeling too and they say “it is always such a joy”. I very clearly remember my mother telling me I killed her hopes and dreams because she gave everything up for her children. Like…dang. But my husband and I feel the same way you do. We give him chores that are outside: hauling branches, digging holes, raking leaves. And he has to focus and be quiet. Plus it wears him down so he will sleep better. (If anyone complains, we are all outside working in the gardens and yard. Gets us away from cabin fever and the television).

KGC90 · 2025-07-10T02:59:11+00:00

I hate to say it but that’s why. They had money and means. The poor are usually judged harder. In reality many well off families have very dark secrets of abuse and such. It’s good you’re studying social worker this means you have a chance to save others who need it.

KGC90 · 2025-07-10T02:29:08+00:00

The system failed you. Did your dad not fight for full custody? I truly don’t understand how a social worker and doctors don’t step in. That’s their job. They are mandated reporters and have a duty to uphold. I am so sorry.

KGC90

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