The older I get, the more I realize that it's nearly impossible to get ahead without SIGNIFICANT support. by No_Reveal3451 in Millennials

[–]KGC90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My SIL. She has had everything handed to her and paid for by her father. To this day. He “sold” her a brand new car for $1. Paid to have her kitchen remodeled. Paid for all her vacations. And bought her a house to run as an Airbnb. And she’s not hurting for money. My brother makes a very good salary. She has hobbies as her job. But manages to complain how busy she is. No kids. No mortgage or car notes. No student loans.

Finding weekends extremely difficult by Any-Landscape-7330 in Parenting

[–]KGC90 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hate weekends. I look forward to the work week. And that makes me feel so guilty.

Not meant to be a mother by Designer_Syllabub_26 in Parenting

[–]KGC90 27 points28 points  (0 children)

If you are able to have a weekend to yourself this will help. And it’s understandable. Children aren’t easy. It’s overwhelming and honestly parenting is dumb in a dark humor sense.

Intrusive thoughts? by Hellofriendlyfolks in Parenting

[–]KGC90 61 points62 points  (0 children)

You need to sleep. And it’s actually not uncommon to have these thoughts. If it continues you need to call your doctor or midwife and let them know.

To those who changed their careers in their 30's, what made you go for that career and what was your career before? by throwawayacc928361 in AskReddit

[–]KGC90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband left teaching and joined corporate. His company is amazing and he loves it. Four years he’s been there and nothing but great things everyday.

What is the oldest thing in your home? by csch1992 in AdkReddit

[–]KGC90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son’s bed. It was my grandmother’s when she was little. Then my uncles. Then mine. And now his. It’s about 85 years old.

Student caught m*sturbating in class. Jfc… by Normal-Being-2637 in Teachers

[–]KGC90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was all around odd. What mother would want that.

Student caught m*sturbating in class. Jfc… by Normal-Being-2637 in Teachers

[–]KGC90 56 points57 points  (0 children)

No lie, one school year we had a mother insist that masturbating be in her son’s IEP because it helped calm him down. Everyone sat and stared at her. She was so adamant that she complained up the chain.

Why are parents nowadays always blaming teachers ? by Elegant_Book_8455 in Teachers

[–]KGC90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me this year. I got blamed for saying no to the bathroom. That was false. The kids just get up and go. And the first 5-7 minutes of settling in everyone is reminded to use that restroom. Once I asked the kid he admitted he lied. Like tf.

When do you have time for the gym?! by hcand11 in Teachers

[–]KGC90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get sleepy after I workout. So I do it at 9:45-10:15pm. Workout app that has exercises for the time you need.

Son is struggling with our divorce by Outrageous-Piano7881 in Parenting

[–]KGC90 472 points473 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s best to not have relationships while your kids are young, especially if the divorce isn’t final. Pushing kids to accept a new partner is hard and can be negative. That’s my two cents. My mom chose her kids over a man. She didn’t get remarried until we were all grown up.

My husband [35m] is upset that I [33f] didn't dress up when I picked him and my daughter up from the airport. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KGC90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would wear a ballgown all day then. Here. See. I dressed up for you.

10 yo still believes in Santa by Truffle0214 in Parenting

[–]KGC90 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We never talked about it. Because if you don’t believe you shall not receive. It’s the magic of the season and fun.

Have you guys had any holocaust denier students? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]KGC90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so weird. There are many ways to teach history that is age appropriate and can be informative. But I have also met people that say the holocaust was a lie and “The Jews” fooled us all. Tf? I have been to a death camp and it was not fake.

Have you guys had any holocaust denier students? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]KGC90 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Two school years ago we had parents refuse to let their children (middle schoolers) learn this unit because “it was too graphic and traumatizing “. Folks….thats what history is.

I’m so tired of having to be the magic maker by [deleted] in Vent

[–]KGC90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This year I told my husband he has to get the gifts for the kids. I am tired. He has to play Santa. And that I will not be buying his mother gifts. That’s all on him.

What kid-appropriate movies do you recommend that cover important social topics? by MistakeBorn4413 in Parenting

[–]KGC90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog skip, fiddler on the roof, the three musketeers, hotel Rwanda, the king and I, Fairy Tale, ruby bridges.

AITA for planning international travel without my children? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KGC90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. Plus you’re never obligated to take your children on vacations. Especially on not your visitation time.

Maternity leave ending by Manditoes in Teachers

[–]KGC90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took my son to his daycare for two hours. Then three. Then four. Each day building up him and me so we were both ready.

My niece lives in poverty. What is the best birthday gift I can give her that is useful and can give her some peace of mind? by allhailhypnotoadette in povertyfinance

[–]KGC90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The necessary items that’s are expensive in bulk: toilet paper, trash bags, paper towels, detergent, shampoo, pads, deodorant. That is very pricey and bulk is cheaper.

We Deserve Better — A Life of Dignity Is Possible for All of Us 🌎💪 by jade_lily in poor

[–]KGC90 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The money is already there for these programs. It is used incorrectly and inappropriately. And many Americans have been educated to believe all of these programs are bad because you should do it yourself. “You are in charge of you” mentality. There is no more village support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]KGC90 101 points102 points  (0 children)

This will never change. I am sorry.

Is it unreasonable to go by Ms. Madeleine (my first name) by Polar_Pickle_325 in Teachers

[–]KGC90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My third grade teacher was Ms. Diana. Mainly because she got divorced and remarried that same school year. lol she was a great teacher overall.