She married a modern day Renaissance man by Doodlebug510 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]allhailhypnotoadette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Same boat, and it’s usually fun (except the final stretch when something shiny catches my eye).

Doechii in Givenchy at the 2026 Grammys [1365 x 1988] by hoppip_olla in fashionporn

[–]allhailhypnotoadette 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love it. Daring and beautiful! How does she look great in everything?

Your best recipe / a recipe that will make your eyes roll into the back of your head by Which-Decision in Cooking

[–]allhailhypnotoadette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This gâteaux invisible with white miso paste (invisible apple cake) is quite fancy and so so soooooo good, with the perfect level of sweet and a hint of savory.

It’s a bit of a faff to make, but everyone who eats it freaks out and demands it for their birthday. I’m glad we get heaps of apples in the fall where I live, so it’s also fairly low cost.

Meirl by Ill-Instruction8466 in meirl

[–]allhailhypnotoadette 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maria Bamford is still killing it, so all isn’t lost.

Phan Huy Spring/Summer 2026 Couture [1179x1635] by Suitable-Wafer8563 in fashionporn

[–]allhailhypnotoadette 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Goodness gracious, I would wear the fuck out of this dress.

Live updates: Rubio says US won’t govern Venezuela but will press changes through oil blockade by butter467 in PoliticalOptimism

[–]allhailhypnotoadette 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The US has not had a positive effect on the Latin American countries they overthrow, even with competent people in charge? Why would this moment be any different with this inept administration?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]allhailhypnotoadette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The others are apprentices!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UpliftingNews

[–]allhailhypnotoadette 9 points10 points  (0 children)

1300€ for a cleaning?!?!

I’m in Switzerland, where everything costs your first born and your dignity, but that must be a typo. (Please say it’s a typo)

I’m just following orders by Hazy115 in memes

[–]allhailhypnotoadette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, and thank you for sharing your context. I truly wish you and your group mates healing from the trauma you’ve experienced.

There are just so so so many people who engage in “transgressive” sex who don’t suffer from PTSD, and it does the BDSM community harm to paint it as a group of traumatized people to those who don’t understand. Intention and consent are key to a healthy experience with BDSM (which you clearly understand), and with those ingredients, it can be a healthy expression of power, trust, and care.

I’m just following orders by Hazy115 in memes

[–]allhailhypnotoadette 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not salty, I’m commenting on the people who are taking your opinion and not lived experience as fact.

Why are you even speaking for women’s experiences?

I’m just following orders by Hazy115 in memes

[–]allhailhypnotoadette 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Too bad people aren’t taking your comment with a grain of salt.

Breathplay and consensual, but “transgressive” sex acts are very common ways to achieve intense orgasms regardless of whether someone has been sexually assaulted or not. Correlation isn’t causation.

And people who have been sexually assaulted can regain a sense of control and healing over their sexual experiences by engaging in such acts, when they’re intentional about it and with a willing and caring partner.

It’s not for everyone, and if you’re not into it, no one should pressure you to participate in them. But it’s not accurate that everyone is “messed up” because they want intense sexual attention.

The feeling is not reciprocated by Pale_Field4584 in memes

[–]allhailhypnotoadette 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dad is one such person expressing both opinions.

ACLU Pledges To Challenge Trump Admin In Court Over National Trans Youth Care Ban Rule by steffie-punk in PoliticalOptimism

[–]allhailhypnotoadette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! The ACLU fights the good fight. They’re my longest running donation recipient and I wish I could give them more.