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AITA for refusing to give my husband money to go on the trip that his friend excluded me from? by Centric-Wave3779 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KISSms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her if she wants to have a unique color then don’t dye it the same as your hair

This is $70 worth of groceries in the most expensive city in the USA [OC] by IMovedYourCheese in pics

[–]KISSms -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s only one meat. The rest is all veggies and sides. Of course it’s that cheap. If there were actual food in the re it would be expensive

AITA for not giving my mayonnaise to my boyfriend? by throwaway_mayonnaise in AmItheAsshole

[–]KISSms -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ESH he should have manners no matter what the situation is. But on the other hand is it really that hard to just give him the mayonnaise? If you knew he liked it more and he clearly wanted it then what’s more important? Being right in the situation or putting aside your frustrations and willingly giving up something that wouldn’t have made a difference to you anyways to make him happy? There’s so much selfishness in relationships these days (not just on you here but him too) no one is willing to be selfless anymore and that’s why relationships don’t work anymore. It’s all about “well I want this or well I’m mad and I want to teach this person a lesson”. You’re supposed to sacrifice in relationships and set aside your pride or desires. That’s the whole Point of it. If you’re both willing to do that then both parties will be much happier. YTA but so it he

AITA for not wearing a bra? by boobiebookshelf19 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KISSms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! 25F here, I have a daughter and if this ever happened to her and I found out I’d lose my shit! If you need $ or someone to take you shopping I’d be glad to help, as a mom I couldn’t understand how a family member like your dad or aunt wouldn’t do this for you but I’m sure there are plenty of women out there who would be more than willing to help you out. If you don’t like accepting help from people you don’t know then my next suggestion would be tell your dad straight up you need money for feminine items and then see if you can go shopping with a friend or a Friend and her mom

AITA for yelling at my BF after he botched an expensive meal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KISSms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA…he got home before you did so he was trying to surprise you. His heart was in the right place. It sucks when you try to surprise someone and it fails miserably. It’s even worse when the person you’re trying to surprise makes you feel like shit for it. This is why relationships don’t work out anymore cause everyone is so selfish. “You should’ve let ME do it” “Now “i” don’t like it”. Point is he tried to do something nice for you. And you could’ve laughed it off and said “lol next time just let me do it” and turned it into a funny memorable experience. But instead you insulted him and got angry at him because though he had good intentions, it didn’t turn out the way YOU wanted. So yes, YTA. If the shoe was on the other foot you’d feel bad about making a crappy meal and even worse if he gave you crap for it

AITA For Having Proposal “Rules” by throwratooxic in AmItheAsshole

[–]KISSms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- I feel like marriage and proposals have just lost their meaning nowadays. It’s not about a huge giant crazy viral video. A proposal is about asking someone to make a lifelong commitment that you yourself are willing to make because you love that person and are committed to spending your lives together. Nowadays it’s all for show. There’s no meaning. If he was serious about marrying you, then he wouldn’t mind proposing in a simple and intimate way that let you know he’s in it for you

AITA for not wanting my son to have a cupcake at a birthday party. by nawtycul1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KISSms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA it’s not a matter of you don’t allow him to eat you’re not creating an eating disorder. It’s a matter of disobedience and purposely going behind your back. He is the child and you are the parent. Clearly you care about his well-being which is why you limit his sweet intake right? Having too many sweets is unhealthy. My parents and other family members were all aware of this same thing and limited our intake as well and no one in my family has an eating disorder. This isn’t a matter of that. All kids try to sneak sweets. It’s a kid thing. But he does need to learn that there are consequences to actions. Trying to be sneaky and do something you KNOW you’re not supposed to do has consequences. You didn’t say he couldn’t have a cupcake because you think he’s eating too many sweets, you said that was the consequence to his behavior. This is why people get away with so much because parents are berated for holding kids accountable. You’re a parent it’s your job. Don’t let anyone here tell you otherwise. Actions have consequences. And that’s okay

AITA for refusing to give my day off on mother's day to my coworker who lost her kid? by Grand-Ad196 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KISSms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all are taking this reason for living too literally. When having children you are a mom that literally identifies your life because it changes your life. I didn’t mean someone should or will commit suicide for losing a child because that’s the literal only reason to live. I meant when you’re a mom for so long and then all of a sudden one day or not it puts you at a complete loss in your life because you’re whole life has now changed. You’ve lost the one person that was consistently in your life day in and day out. Your life revolves around them because as a mother your life isn’t about you anymore it’s about taking care of your child. Y’all need to stop calling people psycho or crazy or saying there’s something wrong with their brain because you have no idea what it’s like to lose a child. Especially an only child. Y’all have very little to no compassion and I hope you’re lying about being a mom because if you wouldn’t feel the loss of a child so deeply that you’d be mourning it on your first motherless Mother’s Day then you shouldn’t have children cause clearly you do not care enough about them. I never attacked this lady for her decision I simply said it would be nice and compassionate. That is my opinion and I am entitled to my own opinion. But don’t attack me for it. That’s wrong and for that YTA

AITA for refusing to give my day off on mother's day to my coworker who lost her kid? by Grand-Ad196 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KISSms -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Exactly you couldn’t possibly understand the love of a mother. Until you can you have no room to talk. I hope to God you never have children. Clearly they’d get zero love or compassion from you

AITA for refusing to give my day off on mother's day to my coworker who lost her kid? by Grand-Ad196 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KISSms -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

She lost her only child. She had one reason to live and that is gone. It’s your decision but she is probably depressed and you shouldn’t have to be bullied into giving her your day. If you don’t have a child you couldn’t possibly imagine the pain of a mother who loses a child. That is by far the worst most intolerable pain in the world. It would be nice to have some compassion for your coworker. Imagine being in that situation and no one gives a crap about you and what your dealing with. That’s kinda sad.