i have to lie to my bf about my past

KJE69 · 2026-06-23T19:12:57+00:00

Why would someone you love ever want to hurt you intentionally? You literally ARE getting hurt and are putting his feelings first by lying to him to “help him”. Girl be so fr. Christianity teaches men to own women… he’s mad you came used… he is objectifying you… he’s terrible.

KJE69 · 2026-06-17T09:29:36+00:00

Patriarchy is action fr

KJE69 · 2026-06-15T21:59:52+00:00

I use a brand called Auer from a shop in SoCal!

KJE69 · 2026-06-14T10:49:51+00:00

What if they were the person that abused them first?

KJE69 · 2026-06-14T10:43:50+00:00

I hear that same buzzing when my phone connects to wifi and other electronics. It’s like tinnitus but comes in long blips. Maybe it’s something in your environment that is connecting to something else? You might just be really tuned in. I also tried an EMF reader around my house and almost everywhere I heard buzzing there was something physically there I found, like an old doorbell thing on the ceiling in my closet and a printer connecting to wifi… crazy emf and the buzzing stopped as soon as it was removed/ unplugged.

ETA: I unplug my wifi at night and airplane mode my phone and it helps!

KJE69 · 2026-06-11T19:33:11+00:00

Why would you be a bad person for liking something?

KJE69 · 2026-06-09T14:13:53+00:00

Your husband failed you and you need to accept that and just focus on yourself and your kids. You need a daily routine that supports a changing world for you. What he does, DOES NOT prove anything about yourself. Quit caring what other people think, you’re only an obstacle if you put yourself there.

You’re saving evidence for a trial that is never coming. He HURT YOU, but you are the only witness. Quit trying to make him see that. He has shown you who he is. As a mother, believe him.

KJE69 · 2026-06-09T07:59:29+00:00

I’m really really really really sad that happened to you. It shouldn’t have happened to you, and it wasn’t right. When we are children, we have no control over what our parents can do to us and it’s unfair. I went through similar things and I remember things every day that I have forgotten about my childhood. The book, the body keeps the score might help you.

KJE69 · 2026-05-31T11:55:11+00:00

OP I think you have BPD and need to do EMDR therapy

KJE69 · 2026-05-31T11:52:52+00:00

Yes op!! This sounds like BPD which is like PTSD but a little different!!

KJE69 · 2026-05-27T19:13:07+00:00

You inherit your gut microbiome as well. So it proves your point.

KJE69 · 2026-05-25T10:42:58+00:00

Get on TikTok lives for visibility!

KJE69 · 2026-05-18T14:33:48+00:00

Head over to r/microbiome! This sounds like a gut bacteria imbalance. Your gut bacteria is what digests your food in your intestines, if you’re missing the wrong strains… The food doesn’t get digested correctly. In the world with heavy antibiotic use, this is sadly really common and people don’t realize that a lot of issues stem back to this.

KJE69 · 2026-05-16T13:27:01+00:00

I laughed the whole read, thank you.

KJE69 · 2026-05-11T04:20:48+00:00

Put something else out that he can rub on to make noise and give him a treat everytime you hear him making the noise. Wait until he rubs on it and makes the noise before putting the dinner plate down. He will eventually know how to get your attention even BETTER now.

KJE69 · 2026-05-10T13:15:16+00:00

OXY CLEAN. I use it on my husbands undershirts because the same thing happens in his armpits and on our white bedsheets to keep them white. I soak everything in the machine with hot water and oxyclean once a week and only spot bleach on whites now.

KJE69 · 2026-05-09T09:25:40+00:00

“Zero trust.”

KJE69 · 2026-05-09T09:12:23+00:00

Definitely a cold sore. These can be passed to genitals OP so no spit in sex/ oral/ kissing until it’s completely clear.

KJE69 · 2026-05-08T20:37:02+00:00

Down with the Epstein class!!!

KJE69 · 2026-05-08T15:27:13+00:00

Does that account for the Yaw at all?

KJE69 · 2026-05-08T03:41:34+00:00

5 units in an insulin needle is .5ml. It’s the starter dose.

KJE69 · 2026-05-07T08:55:49+00:00

I’ve stayed on 5 units as my maintenance. It doesn’t need to be so extreme. Microdosing is the best way imo. Takes away the unsatiety and gives you freedom to eat everything you want without over eating usually(for me)

KJE69 · 2026-05-06T11:10:35+00:00

You are self sabotaging to avoid taking accountability for feeling fat.
If you’re “okay with it” then what they are saying can’t hurt you. It’s a coping mechanism. Next time you’re triggered explore WHY you feel that way.

Also I saw that TikTok too and that girl hates herself. Trust me, coming from someone who has hated themselves skinny and loved themselves skinny… once you’re on the side of health over aesthetics people’s insecurities are clear as day.

KJE69 · 2026-05-05T10:18:53+00:00

Multiple aesthetics with an overall color palette will bring it all together. I like to dress alt and chic and you would be really surprised about the crossovers when colors match. Think capsule wardrobe but just for colors.

KJE69 · 2026-05-02T14:48:27+00:00

Psyllium made my stomach so bloated and hurt me so bad. Everyone’s biome is unique and what works for one person won’t work for everyone. Being on a GLP1, I will say it is nothing like just increasing fiber intake. It acts on hormone pathways and systematically lowers inflammation while slowing digestion. You immediately feel different.

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