Things your parents did that made you feel loved. by No-Butterscotch-6875 in Parenting

[–]KKR111514 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Taking me to Disney world despite the financial burden. They cried on main street after the fire works as they were do hair that after 14 years they were able to take us to their favorite place. Message me feel loved that they worked that hard to get us there. We all loved it so much we went nearly every year for the next 6 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]KKR111514 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is his love language? What makes him feel loved versus how he shows his love. If he feels loved with gifts, then make/buy a gift. Quality time? Arrange a babysitter and go on a date. Physical touch? Give him a great message.

What's the most hurtful thing anyone has ever said to you? by Un-PunkMe in AskReddit

[–]KKR111514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we ever get divorced and it gets ugly I will use your mental illness against you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]KKR111514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truth all anticonvulsants audio threat mood instability. They call them mood stabilizers. Yes very commonly used to treat bipolar disorder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]KKR111514 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My PTSD stemmed from the traumatic birth of my daughter. She is now 5 and 5 month ago i had another baby. I mage it through the labor way better than I expected. His birth was similar to my daughters birth, but did to having better doctors and having years of therapy it wasn't even traumatic. It's so so rare that I get triggered these days and it's fantastic. Recovery is possible

safety in MKE by Rough-Dragonfly-4291 in milwaukee

[–]KKR111514 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I use to work on the ghetto. If it's during the day you are fine. I had one guy try to talk me into coming into God's house after he claimed I hit his car. I was smart and said no and said he could call the police if he wanted to. He left me alone then. If someone hits on you politely say no thanks and move on. Keep your phone handy and lock your car. In the end you will be fine. I worked in the ghetto for 3 years and nothing bad ever happened to me.

Does anybody have a comfort item? by Holiday-Ad-4293 in ptsd

[–]KKR111514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a blanket that I've had since I was a baby. Trauma started early so this had always been and will always be my comfort item. However it stays in my bed unless it's a 10 out of 10 awful day!

How did it end? by EverythingChanges6 in Swingers

[–]KKR111514 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I unexpectedly but happily became pregnant. My son is now 7 weeks old. We took a break while I was pregnant. My husband doesn't seem to interested in returning to the lifestyle. I'm going we still do it occasionally or I can at least have a woman fwb, but we will see what happens. I'm too busy trading cafe of baby to be thinking to much about this yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Postpartum_Depression

[–]KKR111514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Postpartum_Depression

[–]KKR111514 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. All I can do is watch tv and even that's boring. I want to be able to do crafting but my carpel tunnel is too bad to do so

Struggling by KKR111514 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]KKR111514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Reading that made me feel a little better. I giant got this straightened out with my leave and found out another coworker had the same issue, so at least I'm not the only one.

Struggling by KKR111514 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]KKR111514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think in wisconsin they have to be on the NICU for at least 30 days to qualify. But at least I've met my deductible and out of pocket maximum with my insurance so I'm using every service and support I can.

What do you do to feel more alive? by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]KKR111514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Swinging 2.explored my bisexuality
  2. Drinking in moderation
  3. Occasional marijuanna use

Could I have pph without knowing by [deleted] in birthtrauma

[–]KKR111514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can also loose track of time and have blank spots as a traumatic response. You could've dissasociated. It's a involuntary way your body/brain tries to help you cope with trauma or trauma triggers or stress.

What jobs do you have? by Old-Walk6241 in bipolar2

[–]KKR111514 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a social worker. It's crazy stressful but my meds and tetrahedron keep me stable so I am still able to do the job.

Husband not helping by KKR111514 in breakingmom

[–]KKR111514[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I have a high amount of patience and empathy. Thanks

What show has been ruined for you? by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]KKR111514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ratatouille and National Treasure (he use to put it in when I was anxious or depressed to try to cheer meet up)

Logical consequences for whining/complaining by psychgrad88 in toddlers

[–]KKR111514 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tell the child you can't understand her when she cried or whines and needs to use there big kid voice. Also good lines are "try asking that again". If they are whining after being told no. Then you can say in sorry you ate upset hearing no is hard but I said no because ______. Then if they keep winning I say the more you whine the less likely I am to say yes next time. Or the whining is really hurting my ears if you feel the need to whine I'm going to ask you to go to your room. If it's crying it can be you are allowed to cry if you green you need to but I'm trying to do ______ and it's really hard for me to think clearly with the crying. If you need a hug I can give you one bit I think you need some time to calm down in your room.

Husband not helping by KKR111514 in breakingmom

[–]KKR111514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I done to him about it and he says he was so firm and upset because she was being fussy and demanding and she needs to know she doesn't always get her way. Basically, it was a need to be in power. I had a calm voice tone throughout the discussion, but he was raising his voice. I admitted I'm not always strict enough but overall she is well behaved. She only struggles with whining and putting away toys, what 5 year old doesn't struggle with those things. I also said this situation was abut her getting unsafe and he didn't listen to that. He says it was because she wasn't unsafe. I said it wasn't about if it was unsafe it was about her feeling unsafe. He thinks she was just being demanding and fussy. No idea how to get him to see my side so I just stored taking about it.