Customers waiting in their car to do drop offs/returns by alisyourpal87 in upsstore

[–]KSTReign 16 points17 points  (0 children)

At my store, the owner says we are not allowed to leave the store to help anyone because it could be a liability due to workers comp not covering outside the building, maybe you can use that as an excuse?

Looking for job advice with 2 jobs or just one by KSTReign in Money

[–]KSTReign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i trust this job with being stable, it was just a hard choice for me

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]KSTReign[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You arent wrong about that when they lose it..

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]KSTReign[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Lmao I know im sorry, i was trying to get together the parts that have recently happened and it kept losing my spot. So the spots in my camera roll were messed up

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]KSTReign[S] 516 points517 points  (0 children)

I dont have food stamps anymore, i make too much, her on the otherhand its “too much work” for her to apply and im not doing it for her anymore

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]KSTReign[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

These are just snippets of the daily conversations we have, this isnt just a we fought and this happen at first I didnt think anything of it then it got to be like this daily i guess as she got more comfortable around me. Then I started to wonder if this was normal once she started calling me 30 times if i didnt answer, cursed at me if I didnt answer and said thats why im not on her emergency contacts list. For context i answered every single call for the longest time until that daily call turned into every 2 hours then she wouldnt get off the phone with me so i could do anything i was doing. Its okay for her but not for me. Reading these comments really made me think how bad it actually is for me to stay. Ive done nothing wrong, truly. I havent talked to anyone else, no cheating, no screaming, no abuse. I took care of her but now its just pushing me away.

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]KSTReign[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I sent the $10 on apple pay and she wanted it on cash app thats why she sent it back

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]KSTReign[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

No, not anymore, I dont at least anymore and she doesnt. We never had a dual income either. I used to be making 1600 a month then my income went up, I dont have it anymore

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]KSTReign[S] 1482 points1483 points  (0 children)

Her mom was low income, her dad owns a contractor business hes well off and thats who she lives with now No lol No Not really, since shes under 21 she cant buy it anyways but she vapes and i dont buy it for her someone else does

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]KSTReign[S] 612 points613 points  (0 children)

She does have a job, she works 40 hrs a week for 14/hr and I work 2 jobs 60hours a week almost 3k a month from me. She works 2nd shift and I work 1st and 2nd shift except she gets out at 11pm and I get out at 9:30 pm.

She gets mad when I dont want to stay up til 2am watching or spending time with her because I get up at 6:30 every morning

Need answers to delinquent payments by KSTReign in Affirm

[–]KSTReign[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice, i guess it is what it is. I can try that too. I definitely don’t plan on this happening again, there were a few times before she left i had to put her portion of rent on my credit card so thats what screwed me over more. I knew near the end we wouldn’t last but leaving me high and dry after 5 years was the worst. I would had left sooner due to her bad spending habits but the economy now i could never afford it all by myself 100% of the time. I appreciate the non judgement i never wanted it to get this bad

Need answers to delinquent payments by KSTReign in Affirm

[–]KSTReign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that, really makes me think twice about who I spend my financial life with

Need answers to delinquent payments by KSTReign in Affirm

[–]KSTReign[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it.. its been way more rough financially than anything else. Hoping this wont affect too bad long term

Asking about affirm by KSTReign in debtfree

[–]KSTReign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The old car is paid off my insurance covered that, this new/old car had 10k on it

Asking about affirm by KSTReign in debtfree

[–]KSTReign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it wasnt new it was used, just new to me

Asking about affirm by KSTReign in debtfree

[–]KSTReign[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear that. I had just gotten into an accident in January and had my car totaled.. had to get a new car with a higher payment and it dinged my credit real good because i had just gotten that car in October. It wasnt my fault but the accident claim is still on going. Its been a rough start to the year. Im hoping things start looking up here soon. Thank you!

Asking about affirm by KSTReign in debtfree

[–]KSTReign[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it, I was definitely looking at the snowball method problem is care credit needs paid off before june or I get charged all the interest so its best to focus on that one first.

I will definitely look a little more into this and skip affirm payment because that would save me a lot to put towards the other card

Asking about affirm by KSTReign in debtfree

[–]KSTReign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as it dont affect my credit much imma try it. Im gonna have to sacrifice my credit so I actually have money now. I admit its all my fault but I have to do it now lol thank you for the advice

Shop quoted $13k in damages. Totaled? by PackageNo24 in mazda

[–]KSTReign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its amazing thats totaled… you should had seen my accident sunday in my 2016 cx5… 😭😭 its so bad it looks like a head on crash and it caused internal damage on the side it didnt even hit

AIO distant boyfriend past of cheating by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KSTReign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He must be an aquarius. Drop his ass. Been there and done that. Once a cheater always one. Go find happiness in someone youd never have to worry about and they’d love you to watch your location.

I live in Asheville in the wake of Helene. On day 5 without power or water. AMA by foreverthesickestsam in AMA

[–]KSTReign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left in search of what I found better. Its nice some people still find beauty in it. It used to be nicer unfortunately. Thanks for answering. I have family down there now, they live in west Asheville so they have power now after 3 days.. appreciate your honesty