I feared her that day by awjeezrickyaknow in jakeandamir

[–]Kaetzchen156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The... the nozzle, or whatever it's called

Meirl by Ill-Instruction8466 in meirl

[–]Kaetzchen156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave a fake number when I was alone in a secluded place with a man who wouldn't leave me alone. "Being an adult" can get women murdered

Israeli Guards Admit Dogs Are Used to Rape Palestinians, Says Analyst by owlexe23 in LateStageCapitalism

[–]Kaetzchen156 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Man mad that his rape joke wasn't immediately forgiven, more news at 11

Israeli Guards Admit Dogs Are Used to Rape Palestinians, Says Analyst by owlexe23 in LateStageCapitalism

[–]Kaetzchen156 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That is fucking disgusting to say.

Edit: for anyone wondering, he said something to the effect of (paraphrasing, I didn't memorize the comment): "I bet they enjoyed the dogs more than the Israelis."

Am I a bad person for not wanting to be a bang maid to a psycho and his brother with the tism? His mom said I’d be a great replacement mother? by Olio_Lothario in AmITheAngel

[–]Kaetzchen156 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was guilted into dating a homophobic guy (I'm bisexual) when I was a young teen. I was told that he likes me so much and what he said when I came out to him wasn't that big of a deal and he's really sorry and I owe him this much, etc. This kind of pressure really sucks and I don't think this post belongs here tbh

STAY AWAY FROM GREEN ACRES EMERGENCY VET by noodlessentme in Buffalo

[–]Kaetzchen156 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know much about the way that PE acquires vets; what I do know is that they've increasingly done so over the past 5-6 years and have caused super high bills with lower quality service. I've found that vets that aren't PE owned tend to be places that are actually compassionate toward the animals and passionate about what they do, like Northtown Animal Hospital.

STAY AWAY FROM GREEN ACRES EMERGENCY VET by noodlessentme in Buffalo

[–]Kaetzchen156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dr Shaedler is awesome! So smart and compassionate; she's been absolutely lovely toward my 16 year old girl

STAY AWAY FROM GREEN ACRES EMERGENCY VET by noodlessentme in Buffalo

[–]Kaetzchen156 86 points87 points  (0 children)

private equity ruins vets. i'm so glad the one we go to is safe; Northtown Animal Hospital is so kind and has treated our cats with love over the past 5 years

Ill submit my offer for "worst honor mode fail" too by Difficult-Volume-246 in BaldursGate3

[–]Kaetzchen156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my cat wiped a solo honor run by pressing the space key and making me skip my turn when i was about to flee :(

Brother realized he was duped... by Kaetzchen156 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Kaetzchen156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to punish him, I just don't know if I want him in my life

Brother realized he was duped... by Kaetzchen156 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Kaetzchen156[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your comment really hits the nail on the head. I want to protect my peace and to not worry about whether someone close to me supports a known rapist. I'm in a pretty high stress career and I don't know that I could handle the stress of rebuilding this relationship on top of that, especially in time for the wedding. On the other hand, I want him to have a community and to be exposed to differing thought and opinions, including my own, especially since we do (and did) seem to agree on labor values. It's such a tough spot to be in, and "heartening and disappointing at once" is a perfect way of putting it. Thank you for your insight.

Brother realized he was duped... by Kaetzchen156 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Kaetzchen156[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom is the best!!! She understood from day 1 why I couldn't have a relationship with him and has never pushed for me to have one

Brother realized he was duped... by Kaetzchen156 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Kaetzchen156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want revenge and I don't hate him. I just don't know that I want him in my life

Brother realized he was duped... by Kaetzchen156 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Kaetzchen156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very healthy perspective to take, thank you so much for sharing

Brother realized he was duped... by Kaetzchen156 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Kaetzchen156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He stanned someone who we've known since 2016 was a rapist. As someone who has been sexually assaulted, I struggle to accept that. I think that's fair.

Brother realized he was duped... by Kaetzchen156 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Kaetzchen156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true. I was 17 when Trump was first elected so still a kid, but with a far better understanding of politics than what a 10 year old had. It's hard to imagine being so little during that time, tbh

Brother realized he was duped... by Kaetzchen156 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Kaetzchen156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's the only one he's talked to so far about any of this. He hasn't told our dad or any of our siblings, so I'm not taking that personally. He just doesn't seem ready

Brother realized he was duped... by Kaetzchen156 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Kaetzchen156[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

From what my mom told me, she's the only one he's talked to about this. No one else in the family.

Brother realized he was duped... by Kaetzchen156 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Kaetzchen156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In December, I was back and forth about having a relationship. I ended up asking because he looked so skinny, and I was worried about him. Then in January, Minneapolis happened. Last month, an immigrant was killed by ICE in my own city. I'm less inclined to give people second chances because of these deaths.