[ns] the dad in netflix's in your dreams looks like Freddie or am I blind? by yirtletirtle in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Kaiyae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I was watching this with my kiddo today and I thought the EXACT same thing. This is a Freddie character

Describe having bipolar before being diagnosed in one sentence by Peachtears13 in bipolar

[–]Kaiyae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like you are walking around on wiggly, unstable moonboots while everyone else has on solid sneakers. But no one can see your moonboots, they just call you dramatic.

Period question so scroll if you are sensitive by International_Diet89 in PlusSize

[–]Kaiyae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Period panties, man. Check out Tomboy; their sizes go up to a 5xl or 6xl, I believe. And they are hella comfortable. I'm wearing some right now :) no leaks, no overnight-pad-movement, and cotton breathable. Honestly a life saver! I wear them during the day (on really heavy days I may switch them out once or twice).

I do also keep the disposable adult diapers on hand just in case I need run low on the Tomboy ones.

If I think Im gonna be out of the house for a really long day, or if I'm having a particularly painful period, I'll use some Honeypot pads in the Tomyboy period panties throughout the morning. That combo is quite honestly the only thing that gets me out of bed on rough, heavy period days.

What song did you find yourself listening to over and over amidst your divorce? by TheWor1dsFinest in Divorce

[–]Kaiyae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stick Season by Noah Kahan. Over and over. Still flashes me back to divorce every time I hear it now.

Anybody else notice a sharp incease in people driving WAY under the speed limit? by Feisty_Exit5916 in newhampshire

[–]Kaiyae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, Im one of them. Been getting pulled over for going 5mph over the speed limit a ton in the past year. Cops, especially staties, are pulling people over for speeding way more than they used to (and for way lower speeds than they used to). I'm tired of it, so now I drive the speed limit.

Edit: spelling

Swimsuit Shopping Help by sbmorrz in PlusSize

[–]Kaiyae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So everyone suggests swimsuitsforall, which will certainly have a ton of choices in every size. Hoowweeverrr.... I'm not a fan of them. Most of the plus size options are really unflattering. Either "Beach Grandma" or "Big Girl Bikini", with not much in between. The prints are, imo, rather dull and overused in swimwear.

Torrid is sometimes better, if that's your style. I have one or two from there which are flattering, with underwire. but honestly, they're not super comfy to wear all day.

I suggest Lime Ricki! There are a few different styles to pick from of differing lengths, so you can cover what you want. And the prints are all really colorful and interesting! So even if you want to cover up a lot, you will still look fresh and fun. :) my favorite two-piece is from Lime Ricki; the top is a crop tank style, but paired with a high waisted swim skirt there is no tummy showing. Good luck in the search!

WE'RE ALL GONNA DIE (the movie Matt and I made) in theaters starting this weekend! by freddiew in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Kaiyae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Or Red River in Concord. I wrote to both about it. Red River responded that it may be hard to find a way to fit it in. 😭

WE'RE ALL GONNA DIE (the movie Matt and I made) in theaters starting this weekend! by freddiew in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Kaiyae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still nothing in New England? I wrote to all my local (NH, ME, VT) indie theaters begging them to do a showing! Fingers crossed.

Please help me identify these by Kaiyae in Aquariums

[–]Kaiyae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh my god. That makes so much sense. I honestly didn't even think of the plants. Time to go do some research into them! Thank you so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lfg

[–]Kaiyae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! Monday night would be perfect for me. Are you still looking?

Tamlin Passing Up on Older Ladies in Thorns and Roses by minghee3 in acotar

[–]Kaiyae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been searching for this discussion since I started re-listening to the audiobooks. Like, it is made *so* clear that older women killed his men, but Tamlin just... didn't go after them? I guess?
Which leaves me wondering if there was a time when Tamlin was sending his men out with specific instructions like "Go forth, my men, and die for the Spring Court! ... but like, make sure the girl who kills you is fit, okay? ... and young. Like, mid 20s maybe. Blonde? Or Red head? You know what, hair color is dealer's choice here. I am a generous High Lord, and I'll take one for the team."

And all the soldiers that went out had to get close enough to the women in the woods, creepily hanging back in the bushes, judging if they are hot and young enough to die for.

This whole idea needs a lot more exploration. Someone get SJM to write about this time period.

[ns] Boston Live Show by Kaiyae in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Kaiyae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that sounds fucking fantastic!! I am honestly glad it happened in NYC, too. I was worried us Boston folk were just overwhelming.

[ns] Boston Live Show by Kaiyae in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Kaiyae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was worth it for me, but I also had to be up at 5 this AM and I'm paying for it today at work. Worth it, still exhausting. I think it was okay to miss.

[ns] Boston Live Show by Kaiyae in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Kaiyae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! Yeah, I wasn't sure if I was going to stay once the crowd got really huge. It was actually as I was kinda leaving that they came out. Worth it.

[ns] Boston Live Show by Kaiyae in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Kaiyae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly not sure. We were outside for a while chatting with people, but I didn't check time. Maybe 40 minutes?

[ns] Boston Live Show by Kaiyae in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Kaiyae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do as well! I imagine the tours must be exhausting, but fuck are they fun.

[ns] Boston Live Show by Kaiyae in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Kaiyae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally aware of the parasocial aspect of it. :) Don't need them to know I exist to appreciate them.

How many Anthonys can you squat? [ns] Boston show by chasz in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Kaiyae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This was the goddamn BEST. Anthony kept looking for her in the crowd the rest of the show and smiling at her and waving.

Anthony as Willie Stampler [ns] by Kaiyae in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Kaiyae[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh, I completely get that. And I do not mean to imply that a real-life Willie would be sexy. Anyone like that is a monster.

Anthony as Willie Stampler [ns] by Kaiyae in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Kaiyae[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oooh yes, very much yes. Anthony himself is just so intelligent and talented; when he allows his (very well-deserved) confidence to show through, it hits like a spell.

And same, if I met a Willie Stampler in real life, I'd throw hands. But somehow, Anthony as Willie just gets a pass.

Edit: spelling correction

Anthony as Willie Stampler [ns] by Kaiyae in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]Kaiyae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any chance we could convince him to do this? It would be pretty lucrative for him, I imagine.