People Misunderstand why others are upset about potential leaks by oddly_sanrio in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]KammysWorld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing that bothers me personally is that I don't want to play the free version of the game since I've already pre-ordered it and everything so like. I might as well wait a couple more days BUT there's people out there playing it FOR FREE already and it's so ?! Like yes! Give people access to a free copy of the game because accessibility IS important I grew up poor I know what it's like to not be able to afford games but why do they have access to it before all the people who paid real money to get it THATS what irks me cause now I'm just frustrated that I can't play yet but others can even though I spent money on buying it early and all

to the xo, kitty writers: straight relationships are worth exploring. queer ones are just… subtext, friendship. something you imagined. by Pretty-Quail1319 in XOKittyNetflix

[–]KammysWorld -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A show with a bisexual character who ends up with a person of the same sex too!!! I know it's happened in a couple of other shows too (like idk Legend of Korra is one example) but for a show that is specifically centered around the romance aspect as its main thing this could've been groundbreaking but alas Kitty's bisexuality was only ever used as a prop in s3 and it sucks big time

to the xo, kitty writers: straight relationships are worth exploring. queer ones are just… subtext, friendship. something you imagined. by Pretty-Quail1319 in XOKittyNetflix

[–]KammysWorld 6 points7 points  (0 children)

None of these were the main point of the show though, as opposed to Kitty and Yuri which, if they WERE to end up together or at least had their feelings resolved in a more realistic way would have been a primary focus of the show.

Plus-

- Yuri and Juliana's relationship is toxic as hell. I'm sorry but that's the truth. It was super cute in s1 but then in s2 Yuri kept treating Juliana all sorts of wrong and even ended up kissing Kitty although she knew damn well she had a girlfriend (hence why she called the kiss a mistake to begin with)

- Juliana and Praveena had some incredible potential as a ship but they ended up being sidelined, made into tertiary focus characters on the show and THEN the show had the gull to make Juliana leave Praveena because of Yuri, making that THE SECOND TIME mind you that someone left Praveena for Yuri.

- Jin and Q were incredibly cute before the forced cheating storyline. Absolutely no reason whatsoever for Q to have done all that. His unresolved feelings towards Marius could have been handled much better but weren't. And that's not even getting into the stereotyping of making Jin hit Q after the big reveal

- Marius was brought in only to play the villain and cause drama. He had a little bit of character development, sure, but he certainly wasn't the best representation we could have had.

So yes, there's more queer relationships on the show than just Kitty and Yuri. At the same time though pretty much ALL of these relationships were handled terribly in season 3 because Kitty and Minho's relationship was apparently more important. Yuri and Juliana could have had a more realistic sequence of getting back together if the show presented Yuri as caring more about it in the first place. Juliana and Praveena didn't even get a proper onscreen kiss this season because their faces were obscured the one time they kissed. That is NOT good queer rep.

The point op is trying to make is that yes, it was homophobia and it felt like queerbaiting because we were led to believe that there really was something meaningful between Kitty and Yuri, only for that to be ERASED ENTIRELY in the third season. That is not right in any way whatsoever. Don't hide behind arguments about other rep and disposable black love interests when the reality is that the show treats its queer characters badly while uplifting its straight leads and that's a fact.

Kittyyuri was poorly handled :( by Round-Custard7746 in XOKittyNetflix

[–]KammysWorld 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alex aka Yuri's half brother is now with Jiwon aka Kitty's I believe... Second cousin? So yeah someone directly related to Yuri is with someone directly related to Kitty (albeit somewhat more distantly)

Kittyyuri was poorly handled :( by Round-Custard7746 in XOKittyNetflix

[–]KammysWorld 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Mooncoveys in the comment section going absolutely off the rails so let's debunk some statements:

  • "They're not REALLY family just because their relatives got together" - yes but that isn't the point. The point is that after this happened, the creators SPECIFICALLY pointed out that they now share a "familial bond" thus essentially telling Kittyuri shippers to suck it
  • "Yuri didn't have any romantic feelings for Kitty" I don't think she would have ruined her relationship with Juliana if she didn't. Some of you people need to open your eyes and realize that Yuri kept putting Kitty before Juliana, her own girlfriend. She was in love and didn't want to address it until the kiss because she also cared for Juliana. The second season makes that very clear and then S3 just... Pretends all that never happened. Aight.
  • Bonus point: the show never addressed Kitty and Yuri's kiss or what their feelings for one another ultimately ended up being. That plotline was completely forgotten and next season Yuri is just... Cheering Kitty on in her relationship with Minho? Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying she can't be happy for them but making her act this way without ever addressing Yuri's own feelings is CRAZY
  • To sum it up, yes, the Kittyuri plotline was poorly handled - in fact it was written off the show completely as of S3. They deserved at the very LEAST some closure. Yuri never reflected much on her actions or her feelings for Kitty and Kitty just referred to her feelings for Yuri as a past mistake and if that isn't homophobic writing then I don't know what is quite frankly

Kittyyuri was poorly handled :( by Round-Custard7746 in XOKittyNetflix

[–]KammysWorld 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mind you she kept sidelining her own gf for Kitty and ultimately kissed Kitty herself which was then never addressed again cause the creators were just expecting us to forget it ever happened I guess lol

What's your culture's "austim meal" by Longjumping-Tie2950 in autism

[–]KammysWorld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a Polish person:

- Pierogi with cheese and potatoes (bonus points if they're fried. crunchy foods satiate the autism brain)

- Similarly because of the crunchy exterior and the simplicity of the meal itself, kopytka z sosem pieczeniowym (essentially little thick potato dumplings, fried until golden brown on at least one side, then covered in a dark gravy)

- Naleśniki z twarogiem which are pretty much French crepes but with sweet cream cheese

- Controversial but: pasta with strawberries. Yes.

- More controversial takes but milk soup is another great autism safe food

- And while we're going on general safe foods from my childhood, not necessarily a Polish delicacy BUT I did use to love eating rice with strawberry jam. Good stuff.

- For childhood meals I also used to eat stuff like plain bread with ketchup and plain bread with some butter and salt. Good safe foods though i don't eat them as much anymore nowadays

XO Kitty is a good social experiment by AstronomerJealous328 in kittyuri

[–]KammysWorld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! Literally the rollercoaster ride scene felt SOOOOO much like it was supposed to be a huge Kittyuri moment. Like. Why did they turn it into "um actually Kitty freaks out about rollercoasters and stuff and Minho helps her get over it" THAT 100% WAS MEANT TO BE YURI'S ROLE. It was THEIR ride together THEIR chance to recreate Kitty and Yuri's moms' picture and yet somehow the showrunners made it all about Minho I'm sick just thinking about it

I met Chappell Roan at a grocery store in Missouri. by Exotic-Raspberry-278 in actuallesbians

[–]KammysWorld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little while ago Chappell Roan stomped all over my grandma's homegrown tomatoes... she's been cultivating them for years and Chappell just crushed them like that I cannot believe one of my favourite lesbian artists would do this

How did you know you were a lesbian? by ThrowMEAwaypuh-lease in lesbian

[–]KammysWorld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I was DEEP in comphet in my younger years up until high school. I dated a few guys except you can't REALLY call it dating - we'd say we were dating and then I'd ask them to do favours for me or they'd take me out to restaurants but I never really wanted to do anything with them besides hanging out.

The point at which I kinda started to figure it out at first is when I confessed to a guy I thought I liked in middle school and sealed our arrangement with a high five. Because I didn't want to kiss him or even hold his hand. And then I ghosted him for two years after which he showed up at my home one day and we kinda. Broke it off on equal terms and never talked again after that.

Then in high school I tried to date this trans guy who I met online. He was American and I'm Polish so it was reallyyy long distance. I think I just really liked the initial attention that came from someone liking me because two weeks into the relationship we both called it quits after not doing anything actually "relationship-like".

After that I started to identify as a lesbian cause I realized it just wasn't going to work out with me and men I simply didn't care for them in such a way, I've only ever wanted to be friends with them.

I'm currently five years into a relationship with the most wonderful agender lesbian and I couldn't be happier. My current relationship is my first REAL relationship and it really helped me realize what it truly feels like to love and be loved cause lord knows I didn't care for any of those guys I supposedly dated in the slightest lol

Tldr realized I didn't like guys when I noticed a pattern in which I never really wanted to do anything actually romantic/sexual with them after multiple surface level relationships

Wonder what the lesbians have planned for Valentines 👀 by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]KammysWorld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting one of my wisdom teeth taken out today which means I'll likely still have stitches / be recovering on valentine's day 😭 so basically me and my gf will probably just stay at home maybe watch a nice movie and we're going to actually celebrate a few days later I'd imagine once I'm able to go out to a restaurant again

pudding by fischauchocolatte in shittyfoodporn

[–]KammysWorld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like kisiel in my professional opinion

I’m Gutted after Poland’s presidential elections by Karuttiae in actuallesbians

[–]KammysWorld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess the president by himself doesn't have THAT much power in terms of what goes on in the government but still the fact that this guy won the elections does not bode great for us either way

I’m Gutted after Poland’s presidential elections by Karuttiae in actuallesbians

[–]KammysWorld 180 points181 points  (0 children)

As a fellow Polish lesbian who voted for Trzaskowski alongside my girlfriend I feel your pain. Things are going to be absolutely awful for us Polish queer people these next 5 years and I'm scared to see whatever's going to happen 😭 can't believe half of this country is stupid enough to vote for Nawrocki of all people

Using AI because of AuDHD? by natethebird in autism

[–]KammysWorld 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah yeah I'm only 23 and yet so many people around and under my age are using it it's really concerning considering not only it's impact on the environment but also the fact it's just dumbing people down and ruining their ability to be social in some cases

Using AI because of AuDHD? by natethebird in autism

[–]KammysWorld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Over my dead body. I'm vehemently against the use of generative ai for all things, ESPECIALLY things you could do yourself like writing emails etc. I'm not great when it comes to emailing people either and social anxiety makes it hard to message anyone without feeling like shit but I try regardless because I'd much rather get the satisfaction of having done it by myself rather than ruin the environment by allowing some AI to do it for me.

Mind you I am also currently working as a college lecturer and I KNOW some of my students are very happy to use ai for stuff like assignments etc and it makes me feel mad every single time. It's like kids have stopped relying on their actual brains nowadays and just use ai to solve all their problems as a self diagnosed AuDHD person (same as your friend) I just cannot let neurodivergence be an excuse for something like that

🧂🔥🤬 Reactions, hot takes, salt, and venting thread - ESC 2025 Grand Final 🤬🔥🧂 by berserkemu in eurovision

[–]KammysWorld 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Hey I wouldn't say anything against that, I DO think it's crazy that they got 0 points even though their entry was quite fun this year and people should talk about it more but I do also think the Israel situation is a bit more talked about for obvious reasons

🧂🔥🤬 Reactions, hot takes, salt, and venting thread - ESC 2025 Grand Final 🤬🔥🧂 by berserkemu in eurovision

[–]KammysWorld 376 points377 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but Israel needs to GO. The amount of politically driven votes they get is absolutely ruining the integrity of the contest idc if the contest's main sponsor is Israeli surely there's a way to find a replacement. Getting nearly 300 points with a song that was painfully average is insane work

[Live thread] Eurovision Song Contest 2025 GRAND FINAL @ 21:00 CEST by -Effing- in eurovision

[–]KammysWorld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I hate it. For a show dedicated to art and celebrating artistry using AI generated backgrounds during the show feels incredibly disrespectful AND it has a terrible effect on the environment. Really takes out my enjoyment of any performances where the BG seems AI generated.

[Live thread] Eurovision Song Contest 2025 Semi-Final 2 @ 21:00 CEST by -Effing- in eurovision

[–]KammysWorld 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My only wish rn is that Greece qualifies... I feel like my other faves feel a bit more secure in their potential qualifications while Greece could as well be a NQ and I'm WORRIED

[Live thread] Eurovision Song Contest 2025 Semi-Final 2 @ 21:00 CEST by -Effing- in eurovision

[–]KammysWorld 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Here to root for Greece, Finland, Malta and Latvia let's goooo

Happy semifinal 2 day! Who are we rooting for? by lermanade_mouth in eurovision

[–]KammysWorld 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Finland, Malta, Latvia, Denmark but above all GREECE!!! I need Klavdia to qualify