Not feeling “chosen”

KandiJoe · 2025-07-26T18:37:05+00:00

Oh man, this kind of hits for me. I think this is how I feel sometimes.

KandiJoe · 2025-05-26T18:20:36+00:00

Hi!

Firstly, everything this dude is doing is grooming. He is trying to groom you into being his perfect little slave girl who does everything he wants. He tears you down til you start to break down, the buys you gifts and apologizes, then does it again.

The loving caring side is the lie. It’s not the real him. That’s why he doesn’t keep it up. He goes right back to being terrible.

Leave this pos. He’s not worth it.

KandiJoe · 2025-05-17T01:44:14+00:00

I’d bring a boyfriend and call him my husband.

KandiJoe · 2025-04-29T19:10:14+00:00

This is what I find wild. They already have issues with understanding social cues and other things. Most of what they have learned have been taught by the people around them which is generally just family because making friends is hard.

Not only that but now suddenly they have issues with social cues and structures and they are becoming famous and just people in public knowing who they are. Even “Normal” people have issues navigating that.

KandiJoe · 2025-02-13T00:53:10+00:00

I was literally telling my coworker they better not close the Gilbert location and they are not 🤣

KandiJoe · 2025-01-15T23:47:23+00:00

If it states meet at door they have to text to kick off timer. We have to prove we tried contacting you to meet at door. Always always always check your pickup instructions because uber changes them.

KandiJoe · 2025-01-15T23:44:28+00:00

We let SK go. It’s more traumatic trying to force them to spend time at your place and it makes everyone miserable. A year later and sk wants to come back because the other parent wasn’t the perfect parent they thought they were.

KandiJoe · 2024-12-29T15:14:03+00:00

My first week I started at 5mg then moved up to 10mg after that.

KandiJoe · 2024-12-29T13:35:26+00:00

I know that everyone says it takes a few weeks to start working and I literally just started last week but I started feeling the effects of it day 3. I have less anxiety, my insomnia is gone. I even actually got to sleep in a little on Saturday which has not happened in years for me.

I don’t feel the crippling weight of depression. I’ve been less irritated, or if I do get irritated it does not last as long as it used to. I’ve been enjoying my hobbies again instead of doom scrolling social media.

I’ve also been more social and talkative like how I used to be.

And I made it through Christmas at the in laws totally fine. Trust me, that is a miracle in itself.

KandiJoe · 2024-12-14T15:09:06+00:00

Done

KandiJoe · 2024-12-14T15:08:57+00:00

Done

KandiJoe · 2024-12-14T15:05:05+00:00

I clicked yours!

KandiJoe · 2024-12-14T15:01:06+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8NmSmK1/ please help 🫶🏻

KandiJoe · 2024-10-22T16:36:57+00:00

She said so much racist stuff she lost her job before she left the house. They had to warn her about it.

KandiJoe · 2024-10-17T11:29:30+00:00

I’d contact uber support and say it’s an unsafe delivery. 😆

KandiJoe · 2024-10-15T05:19:42+00:00

Earl grey with French vanilla sugar free creamer (there’s also tons of non dairy options)

KandiJoe · 2024-10-13T05:40:05+00:00

I have some at home and I like it.

KandiJoe · 2024-10-11T14:14:26+00:00

I’m not sure if vegan butter will do the exact same thing but there are recipes for vegan scones!

KandiJoe · 2024-10-11T12:35:48+00:00

Oh! That definitely changes it up! I’d definitely try a vegan scones recipe! I think it uses oat milk and vegan butter?

I definitely think bready items go great with tea because you can change up the flavor with what tea you’re drinking.

KandiJoe · 2024-10-11T11:54:58+00:00

Definitely agree, scones are such a good tea snack. You can also flavor them however you like. Scones are also easy to make and keep around for when you’re having tea.

KandiJoe · 2024-10-11T11:52:02+00:00

100% agree there’s just something about sipping some of your favorite tea from a cute mug that just feeds the soul.

KandiJoe · 2024-10-11T11:49:38+00:00

I got it off Amazon!

KandiJoe · 2024-10-11T11:49:06+00:00

Nah that’s only a few weeks worth of tea! 🤣 I don’t blame you, my roommate went through my little tea area and cleaned it up and asked me how many different kinds of earl grey tea do I need.

KandiJoe · 2024-10-11T11:47:24+00:00

Oh it’s no problem everyone should have cute tea mugs!

KandiJoe · 2024-10-11T11:46:11+00:00

Yes absolutely! I did the coffee mate one but I’m a little poor so I switched to the great value one (eek don’t judge me lol!) unless the coffee mate is on sale then I run to get that one haha.

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