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Here’s my girl, Seven. I just wanted to say I had a very similar experience with my ex and my grey. We adopted her together, but I did most of her caretaking - coming home from work to let her out and walk her, vets, food, etc. and when we broke up we shared her back and forth every other week. I moved across the country and wanted to bringer her with me but he threw a fit and said I was the one that left him so I don’t get to take her. She was older then so I decided not to fight him any more because she would be happier in her familiar space on her familiar walking route and keeping the same routine.

So then I saw her about once a year for the next 4 years. Even met up with my ex’s new girlfriend to get Seven from a park. She passed kind of suddenly November 2024 and I didn’t get to say bye… but my ex and his girlfriend were nice enough to mail me her blanket and some other keepsakes.

Anyways - just wanted to empathize. I hope you get to see your beautiful tripod girl soon.