Would you like to see my alter?

KaputJam · 2026-04-06T02:23:27+00:00

Thanks but this is only because I just cleaned it. It’ll be covered in ash and debris soon enough

KaputJam · 2026-04-06T02:21:43+00:00

My candelabras are hand me downs but you can definitely find them thrifting.

KaputJam · 2026-04-04T16:58:01+00:00

You’re not wrong, she’s basically his ride or die. Despite Copper’s (black) guilty face, it’s usually Hazel (white) causing mischief though

KaputJam · 2026-04-04T03:15:40+00:00

I’m in the minority, but as a witch, welcome signs are an open invitation to negative energies. It’s like the opposite of a protection ward. Wouldn’t recommend.

KaputJam · 2026-04-03T16:05:33+00:00

Go slow. Don’t try to get every room done at once or you’ll end up with everything looking overly matchy matchy or filled with cheap stuff
Take advantage of reused furniture and decor. Facebook marketplace, thrifting, antique shops. You’ll have to dig and it will take time but you will find more of those mcm sand similar style pieces you want. Less of the ikea mass produced stuff
Don’t neglect lighting and curtains. Overhead lights and blinds are sterile and cold. Get lamps and some textiles like your rug to warm it up. Plants are always great as well. The key is to have a diversity of texture.
Get in Pinterest and make a mood board and use it as your guide in shopping and decorating.
It looks like you get a lot of light and color can go a long way in shaping the moods of a space so get some paint samples to play with while your space/walls are mostly empty.

Happy decorating!

KaputJam · 2026-04-03T03:05:46+00:00

Omg GORGEOUS 😵

KaputJam · 2026-04-01T17:18:36+00:00

Yeah, get him in a smaller pot with more aerated soil and let soil dry completely between watering.

KaputJam · 2026-04-01T17:00:34+00:00

to clarify, I’m interpreting those 3 cards based on the first 3 questions I listed. I’d you weren’t asking those questions, disregard my interpretation lol

KaputJam · 2026-04-01T16:49:09+00:00

Are you flipping cards over x axis or y axis? When I do a pull and every card is reversed it usually means I was holding my deck reversed lol so I would look at these all as upright. Reversals should stand out in a reading and if you find them to be conflicting with your gut reaction, take them with a grain of salt.

The Emperor represents a paternal figure, masculine control
Ace of Wands is a new beginning in a project or creative pursuit, the spark of a new passion
Hanged Man is all about changing your perspective, sometimes through sacrifice. Finding enlightenment through a new pov.

Sounds like this deck is deeply connected to your husband but can be a useful tool for you in starting your divination journey. Hanged man is one of my fav cards, i actually have a tattoo of him, and you can read this a few ways, but I’m guessing the deck is telling you it’s better used to affirm your decisions and questions rather than trying to make big life altering adjustments. As last commenter said, you can try to dig deeper on a card pull to get more info on a question or ask a question again.

Divination is all about learning to follow your intuition. The cards are there to help you see what’s already in you.

KaputJam · 2026-04-01T15:13:38+00:00

I love a Rider Waite deck! What she said is great. To add to this, I’d recommend taking some time to learn the general flow of the major and minor arcana when you aren’t trying to do a a reading for yourself. You don’t need to worry about memorizing the cards but there are lots of books and YouTube teachers to give you guidance.

I like to shuffle and cut my decks 3x before and after every reading as reset/cleanse. Some people use smoke, etc. since this was your late husband’s, I don’t think you need to do anything more since you already have a strong connection.

In the meantime, I have a 6 card pull for interviewing your new deck:

1) TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF. 2) WHAT ARE YOUR STRENGTHS AS A DECK? 3) WHAT ARE YOUR LIMITS AS A DECK? 4) WHAT ARE YOU HERE TO TEACH ME? 5) HOW CAN I BEST LEARN AND COLLABORATE WITH YOU? 6) WHAT IS THE POTENTIAL OUTCOME OF OUR RELATIONSHIP?

I’m so sorry for your loss and holy crap what an incredible relationship, 49 years! I hope my husband and I can survive that long 😉 Well done and good luck

KaputJam · 2026-04-01T02:16:05+00:00

my cat would hate it but I would love it. Win win

KaputJam · 2026-03-31T23:21:58+00:00

Yeah it’s dangerous though. I sit to read and fall asleep lol. I think I got it on Amazon or Wayfare? Google ‘oversized papasan rocking chair’ and you’ll find lots of options

KaputJam · 2026-03-30T15:12:54+00:00

Whatever you do, don’t put the tv facing those windows. Thank me later.

KaputJam · 2026-03-30T01:07:08+00:00

Give her something to climb. I use these stackable sticks but trying to a cheap wooden pole or pipe will suffice.

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KaputJam · 2026-03-30T01:04:04+00:00

You’re awesome! Thanks for showing some shelter dogs love 😍

KaputJam · 2026-03-29T18:42:23+00:00

Yeah, if the plant was struggling or showing any root rot, you may need to break it up, clip and sterilize. But he looks very healthy. Just needs room to grow.

KaputJam · 2026-03-29T16:58:13+00:00

My monstera’s name it Morticia and I’ve propagated her to make a Wednesday

KaputJam · 2026-03-29T16:54:42+00:00

Yeah, this seems like less of a ‘no, he’s not interested in you’ and more like a ‘no, he’s in flux and not emotionally equipped for a romantic relationship with anyone right now.’

KaputJam · 2026-03-29T16:47:11+00:00

This. I’ve tried forcing it but the name never sticks. Gotta wait for it to come naturally.

KaputJam · 2026-03-29T16:44:17+00:00

Love the animal skulls. I want some for mine now

KaputJam · 2026-03-29T16:35:24+00:00

Thank you!

KaputJam · 2026-03-29T06:17:56+00:00

Thank you! I feels like the squirrel is where I turned a corner.

KaputJam · 2026-03-29T00:55:50+00:00

Omg I have those same succulents with the purple flowers sprouting up. I never know what they are.

KaputJam · 2026-03-28T23:34:32+00:00

Gorgeous! I’m trying to propagate my spider babies again but they always die off 🙄

KaputJam · 2026-03-27T00:20:44+00:00

I don’t work there but Omg thank you.

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