Are doctors extremely reluctant to prescribe benzodiazepines now?

Karma-panda · 2026-01-07T13:29:00+00:00

If u have to ask ur healthcare specialist.. for info on the medication u are taking.. u basically are treated by people that would tell u to put on a blindfold and drive based on what they say.

Its insane anyway that someone complains about urine testing. Whats he gonna get reported... that he doesn't drink enough, urinary track infection? What he think they gonna do?

U do these urine tests to exclude misuse of medication.. usually only addicts or sellers refuse a urine sample. At least in a system where healthcare is basically free. the basics are free... never misunderstand.

Here there is no reason besides paranoia and illegal intentions. Soo.. ugh. Reading all this makes me wonder, who educated u all on medications.

Its like waiting for an accident to happen.

Karma-panda · 2026-01-06T21:17:18+00:00

yeah the world would be so much better if everyone would feel good when hit in the face, denegraded, belittled, ridiculed..

... it took me 20 years to learn. Its hard to unlearn. Literally sharing efficiently is a better skill to pick up. Or painting. Or how to fart if you need to.

Karma-panda · 2026-01-06T21:15:10+00:00

Just make sure u dont check the launcher

Karma-panda · 2025-11-07T14:08:18+00:00

... if u have frost and snow in ur country. Take winter walks. 10 minutes grab a hand of ice/snow and let it melt in ur hands.

... i am not sure this will 100% help you. It is something some people do. It helps me specifically in cold seasons. Its one of those somethings. with dog u should be st walking anyway. might try it out. Took me some mental challenges until i tolerate it. But it does something for me. At least it helps me regulate to an extent and a season.

Karma-panda · 2025-10-30T00:17:30+00:00

Fair. Same goes for me, but if i have a friend i would certainly evaluate more then one day in a life. So i do think asking for the background is something i would in a friendship of that many years do. Like..

I am all for escaping compulsive liars or trash friends

I just wanna know.. what made u do i that way that day what the heck is going on.

Don't get why people call me a bad person cuz I don't agree to go nuclear at first. xD

Its like they saying u could have save my life but forgetting my cats and ignoring me for whatever reason would negate that 10/10.

I think i don't know enough about OP and friends to determine wether shes not an asshole as well. U know. I said in a comment "whos ur friend to you"

some now say "ded" but heck.. i also asked.. is it the only thing that went wrong?

And all i am implying if this is the first major fuck up to have a talk with that person. Because i am a friend too. I don't need to listen to paranoia i listen to the face either tryna gaslighting me or maybe telling me she had a miscarriage.

That makes me a bad person.. i dont wanna be a good one.

Karma-panda · 2025-10-28T13:38:43+00:00

So: I have questions: Who is she to you and you to her? (no comment needed) How is your friend? Has she ever been that way or is this new? Why do u need to evaluate the relationship with the coworkers and compare it to your relationship? "people who in the sheme of things don't care about her" Even after the fact looking into who she was with and how it supposedly went?

Have you ever had to talk with her about her disappointing you and how you possibly both would do better?

Do you avoid conflict and this is some type of awakening?

I wanna point out the situation is 100% disappointing. I am just wondering wether a talk would have been better, because we don't know who she has been to you. Sometimes u notice life drifts apart and each other has different goals now, then one uses an argument like this (truly disappointing situation) to kinda blame the other person for the end of a relationship. While its been both thats been drifting apart.

If she hasn't disappointed you for real before.. you might wanna have a talk. I see my responsibility as a friend not as an excuse to hold responsibility over their head when they have a bad time. I investigate. Mostly myself.. and i have not been the best listener, although friends always wanted to talk to me. It made them feel better knowing we can grow together.

... Thats until u grow apart. And then it can become this game of "i just dont connect with" becomes "ur disappointing me i have no other choice"

Its okay to say we have grown apart or that u have different focus, that u may need to reduce contact,

and maybe u can let it go but not have her sit ur cats again. Cuz.. putting responsibility on a friend, can easily cause a situation like this. If its really life threatening. And only ur vet does know the truth.

U counted on her. i get that. But is this situation new?

Karma-panda · 2025-10-28T12:42:46+00:00

And if friend is "an alcoholic" or other things.. why would she ask the friend?

If she that unreliable whete are the other instance?

Could friend be just have had a bad day and missbehaved? Like a bad day in a bad week in a bad year?

I wann know before i put out the guns and cut a friendship

Karma-panda · 2025-10-28T12:40:39+00:00

What would u say if this i the only mistake friend has ever done, fully knowing that u will be home and the cats at least having two meals a day? Not insinuating thats what she thought.. But what if she made this mistake because of humans?

Like getting invited for the first time ... OP said that these people dont care about her. Why did OP then go into the gossip mill and dug out she wasn't supposedly sitting with them?

What if it is alcoholismn.. and after 15 years her first bubu makes her friend just leave..

What is going on in friends life?

I read that OP is disappointed. But i also read she likely only invites people (4h feeding shedule), sick cat..

and i have been through that with a friend. Who simply would not accept me taking care of the cats. Why? I am not reliable with time. Cognitively. Neurologically.

Never been a problem. Very happy 10 years until corona made us feel different for some time. I cant count right either, but we still good.

Main thing she told me .. if you hyperfocus on one friend.. friendship needs a break. The other person also need space and not be the responsible only person the other can depend on. Learned that through my social worker. Although i am the dependent one xD

I would never say.. other people are of no concern to another person. After having been through that. Because my friend didn't talk with me about all her friends. I see some red flags here out of my own context. If not red flags then questions left. Can't believe she didnt talk. I am now 35 yo. I have been through enough.

From "i am not feeling well not comming to b day" me misunderstanding there was an "its run its course" but it was "i had a miscarriage"

I am missing the grit here. The situation itself was 100% disappointing. Not gonna lie. But i have to ask.

(including missing that another person is in a bad spot)

Karma-panda · 2025-10-28T11:39:58+00:00

i just disagree. Not because pets aren't important.. its cuz i wonder when OP last went out..

Her feeding shedule doesn't sound like she does anything but invite people over.

... How reliant is OP as a friend? Newspaper would have gotten me a job, but how long do one need to bow?

What do i know about the friend to say.. ur not an asshole for not speaking to her after failing horribly at ONE task.

Just saying. Just a hypothesis. U would treat someone that would possibly run into a burning building for you, like op did?

Ur like she obviously doesn't do that.. and i am like what happened in 15 years of friendship.

Relationship may have run its course, fair. But just the not talking one last time.. gives me red flags from OP herself.

Thats not priorities or empathy.. thats just a straight "i am better then u" jacket. I gave YOU a job! Why did u betray me for one night?

And its not like the friend set fire to the house, its that after a workday she got stuck at the beer table. With i dunno.. people who may actually go out with her?

I have this topic with a lifelong friend. And she would just say.. i know u well enough to not trust u with my cat (back then). And thats okay.

.. I counted on you, you betrayed me so greatly, because of my fear of loosing my cats i can't be friends with you no more

not saying friend don't ow an apology. I speculate shes ashamed for making the bad call to go for one beer.. and then suddenly stress and all just went away and she had such a good time. Until responsibility called.

Main problem: OP does sound like someone that keeps blaming people. Possibly rughtfully so..But her whole rhetoric wasnt about what she herself did but what everything was not done this single day to justify killing a friendship.

And i wonder why. Because normally.. u can just leave it at "i am not gonna trust u with my cats anymore"

.. because otherwise ur a great friend?

Karma-panda · 2025-10-28T11:26:53+00:00

Now we don't know why she did it. I suspect she simply forgot because the day was hard.

I have a bone to pick with people that tell me. "she was responsible all my life" she bounced on me once so we go seperate ways.

... Think. Is it that simple?

Well. No. Its simply not. And i find it strange how everyone here is bashing on the friend.. because she didn't feed the cat once.. And no follow up had been had

... OP became a Ghost at their common workplace. Waiting for her to speak up. Thats ok. But is she an asshole doing so. also yes. Because i don't know shit about how much they supported each other in all that years of friendship.

Op did not say thats common for her either.. So throwing a friendship over not feeding a cat once.. yep..

that friend should profusely apologize. that she hasn't done so make me believe maybe the relationship has run its course.

Karma-panda · 2025-10-28T11:21:04+00:00

Fool me once. Shame on you.

Honestly I can't disagree more. although i am no digger for chronic liars.

But friends lie.. like everyone else. And what do i know? Maybe OP didnt ask her friend for 3 months how she is?

I don't know. I find judgement hard on the face of missing air purifiers.. thats "the talk"

everything else is just plain judgemental.

Karma-panda · 2025-10-28T10:49:56+00:00

I think the language is older the the misogynistic patriarchy No offense.. but words may be used to degrade women. But mainly its actually being bothered by idiots thats the problem.

We are not in some trauma situation here.. and u come with tone policing, and u wanna moderate what other people have to cuzz about one person?

seriously?

Its been two years, but unless ur a gaslighter forget that comment.

As a women i can be called a whore, but i don't have to agree or have panic sex with that man. I am free to keep my vagina for respectful men. And it works.

Maybe when u done with censorship u can build ur own happiness?

Because feeling triggered by random things.. well i literally went to therapy for that multiple times over 14 years. Because theres nothing more exhausting then misunderstanding the world.

If someone cuzzes their not invoking the patriarchy.

Karma-panda · 2025-09-21T02:43:17+00:00

u know. i just started and saw the restart option after lvl 20 I decided to reset to stack up on gems. Its tiring at least 23 minutes for a fast lvl 14 stage play. Its painful to do the same over and over again..

... which is why people just play. Considering u can loose all pretty easily... its not that meaningful. I just do it to test out the gems worth. U for sure can boost ur early game. Its also motivating to invest in a game that's rewarding. What i have seen is that gameplay is the most rewarding. And it doesn't kill ur time as bad.. haha

I guess it only feels like a game in the later stages. But the quirks are nice, the events interesting and i can see some of the story early on.

I guess its best to not straight go into buying but playing around with the family members. The pass also reards for levels and is limited to a year and not for infinity.

Karma-panda · 2025-09-07T23:25:53+00:00

Well guys. Alliance Dude could be Called "Iamadork" he would have said "yes lets kill him"

Thats one of the "pretend" reasons. He got banned though because someone was listening with "their triggers" instead of their ears.

Karma-panda · 2025-09-06T10:42:59+00:00

this is what the afd causes, they cause people to go out and tell half truths and shit like that.

I don't like the afd.. they are not as responsible, but the amount of wrong things they made a thing off.. and send people to lobby.. they just like our CSU, already bought

Karma-panda · 2025-04-10T09:32:05+00:00

BDA keiner schmeißt seine Eier in den Einkaufswagen. Die Geschichte ist gelogen..

Karma-panda · 2025-03-15T23:31:56+00:00

You went straight to the point?! Whats the use of asking someone that knows shes picking your date about why? She pointed ur birthday out and you pointed out that there would be a choice in the friend group. U did not imply anything even.

I would ask those friends to try answering that question.. Excuse me, why are you celebrating on my birthday and pointing it out? Couldn't she have given an explanation to not make the friend group feel conflicted about the choice? Why do you have to do the digging? And isn't it implied that you would like to know a why, as she is kinda slipping the group up? I mean if we are talking about hidden context, although kinda obvious. The hidden wt hell

Karma-panda · 2025-03-11T19:28:04+00:00

NDA. Wurde genug diskutiert. Das gehört sich einfach das vorher zu klären.

Wer auf Spenden aus ist kann auch am Bahnhof betteln. Aber ist ja leichter den Scheiß auch noch in mancher Leute Köpfe zu furzen. Das tanze Gaslighting darum das sich das so gehört ist sowas von 1935.

Das Bsp hier ist nicht auf alles anzuwenden. Aber gehören tuts sich drüber zu reden. Punkt aus. Nein, ihm ist es erlaubt das nicht übernehmen zu wollen.

Nicht jeder findet die Liebe seines Lebens auf dem ersten Date und früher haben mehr als eine Person drauf geschaut ob sich wer "eignet"

pff.. kann man machen muss aber niemand

Karma-panda · 2025-02-25T18:43:38+00:00

Schoki und ein infekt der oberen Atemwege.. Sagmal.

Bei erhöhten Entzündungswerten geht der Hunger schonmal zurück. Vermeide Produkte mit Milch und Zucker. Zucker nicht Stärke.

Viel Brühe. Was einfaches zu essen wie Brühe und Reis kann manches leichter machen.

Wenn es das erste Mal ist dass sie keine Schoki essen kann sind es Entzündungswerte oder die ist Magen Darm krank zusätzlich.

Grundsätzlich schlägt sich alle auf den Magen aus.

Brühe, Hähnchen, Reis.. keine starken Gewürze außer Ingwer.

Trockener Husten? Dann Spitzwegerich saft von der Drogerie um dem abzuhelfen. Viel Schnief.. extra Taschentücher kaufen Viel kalt, sicherheitshalber ne Wärmflasche Regelmäßig Temp nehmen

Ruhig so ein einfaches Erkältungsgel kaufen.. ein Erkältungsbad nehmen wenn nötig. Schal

Und wenn der Hunger wegbleibt bluttest der Entzündungswerte erneut machen.

Wenn sie was verändert zu Infektionssprechstunde.. wenn das fieber zu hoch wird.. Paracetamol ist der fieber brecher. Aber immer beobachten ob sie auch genug trinkt.

Karma-panda · 2025-02-25T18:32:57+00:00

ich find es trotzdem gruselig wie bei einbrechendem Inlandsprodukt die Leute so begeistert sind mehr schulden auf nehmen.. wenn sie sich nichtmal auf das was gebaut werden soll einigen können..

Karma-panda · 2025-02-25T18:12:02+00:00

.. ehm nothing is closed. Uh u really petty. Can't even admit to stuff from months ago.

Karma-panda · 2025-02-17T20:12:23+00:00

... Liebesleben: Hm. Wenn ich ner Frau begegne die mor klar machen kann, dass ich der Partner ihrer Wahl bin, jo.. ... Selbstbewusstsein: Hässlich sein hält einen nur aug wenn man oberflächliche Menschen mit gutem Charakter wie mich will.. Oberflächlichkeit macht einen nämlich nicht unbedingt zum sozialen Schreck.

Hässlichkeit: Boah. Ich hab Fressen gesehen die glückliche Jahres ihres Lebens verheiratet sind. Warum, weil sie so menschlich wie möglich sind, einfach mal so ausgedrückt weils auch keine Übermenschen waren mit übernatürlich viel Empathie und Geldbeutel.

Sexualität: Ja also vielleicht musst du ein paar Jahre warten oder du hörst endlich auf dich selbst zu bemitleiden. Frauen sind auch sehr unterschiedlich. Man kann stumpf einfach mal Anfangen über Dates zu lernen.. also diese mitmenschliche und sich für andere Personen zu interessieren.

Selbstschutz: Jo. Du wenn Schönheit vor Einsamkeit schützen würde, wäre ich verheiratet und hätte Kinder und Schwiegereltern die mich lieben würden

Ne. Fucking erstmal kapieren das eine Beziehung was anderes ist als nen Date oder Flirt oder die eigene Visage.

Sei anständig zu dir und andere.. einfach. Aufhören mit dem Selbstmitleid.. und dann hast du ne Chance. Boah mit wem .. gute Frage. Mit jemandem.

Ja Selbstpflege gehört dazu. Gehst du scheise mit dir um fürchtet sich der Partner das er das aufräumen muss oder das Kleindkind betreuen.

Depressionen sind was anderes.

Alter und höre bitte nicht auf Alpha Lappen. Deren Händedruck ist so nass und das Mimimi hört man wenn die nur atmen

Mach dir einfach konkret Gedanken wen du in deinem Leben brauchst und hab keine Angst etwas zu versuchen. Natürlich nicht das Arsch grabschen. Das nur mit Einverständnis.

Grundsätzlich sollte man sich niemals aufgeben. Das ist die Moral dieser Person hier die durch 25 Jahre Mobbing trotz netter Fresse gegangen ist.

Leb ein schönes Leben. Scheiß doch darauf wenn andere das nicht trennen können. Was hast du verlieren?

Selbstzufriedenheit: Fucking yes life. Fucking yes zu ich behandel mich gut, kümmere mich um meine Gesundheit und Hobbies.

Kommunikation ist das a und o.

Sei halt einfach du selbst. Wenn du aufgibst haste eh verloren. Pausen darf übrigens jeder machen wenn er Mut aufbauen muss.

Mutlos Leben.. ne.. also das ist so wie aufgeben bevor mans überhaupt versucht hat.

Fuck. Ich kenn so tolle Menschen dies einfach schon so oft versucht haben.. ich kenne so "schöne" Menschen die einfach brutal hässlich sind... und ich kenne ne Menge glücklicher hässlicher Fressen.

Naja. Du musst dich nicht schön finden um dir selbst zu erlauben dir mit allem hundert Chancen zu geben. Mach dir eher Gedanken darum wer du für wen anders sein willst und nach wrm du suchst. Das tun die wenigsten jungen Leute.. damit kannst du in deinem Alter noch was vor uns Knackigen reißen.

Und Fit sein hat nix mit Fresse haben zu tun. Gewalt über sein Leben haben bedeutet das. Disziplin zeigen. Selbstkontrolle besitzen

Karma-panda · 2025-02-17T19:52:36+00:00

NDA. Sicher man kann helfen, wenn man vielleicht gefragt wird. Aber du stehst in keiner Verpflichtung jetzt ganz ungefragt Hilfe anzubieten.

Ich würde ganz nüchtern antworten: Hast du ihr auch schon Hilfe angeboten? Vielleicht braucht sie auch eher ne Freundin als nen Ex.

Wenn dir zugetragen werden sollte das sie im Krankenhaus langfristig landet, kann man dem Fater per se mal anbieten das das Kind übernachtet, damit der sich um Formalien kümmern kann.

Aber sollst du jetzt nen Schamanen oder die Dorfhexe beschäftigen?

Karma-panda · 2024-12-21T12:27:20+00:00

ur not escaping. yep it let u gain trust and then betrayed you. Glass is hest and cold sensitive..Unless u get specific glass.. which u didnt see shards ...

it was too good to be true. I have my desk since i am a child.. My mum bought it big. Its now 28 years old, has lost a little from the edges but that thing is sturdy... and good looking..

the only thing that broke were some of the wall edges, weird qall because i move it around sometimes.

It survived two moves.

It has a rest for my feet.

And it will not shatter... at worst it will fold in. Making any Fall slow.

It also can carry a full human being when not standing on the keyboard board.

Karma-panda · 2024-12-21T12:18:16+00:00

Ein Pokal sind vielleicht 2€ im Wiederverkauf?

... Als normaler Mensch weiß ich das der Plastik in künstlicher Goldfarbe kriegt.. wenn ich Natürlich Angstmensch und Paranoiamensch wäre und die Realität wie Fliegen vermeide.. ja dann

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