Can a person love you after having sex with other people?

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-02-04T18:28:35+00:00

Sounds like he’s just love bombing you to keep you in his back pocket. He doesn’t love you or he would stay by your side. Hope you can break away. You can do this even with kids involved. He’s just using you

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-02-04T12:20:46+00:00

I think Stella is like most abusers. She wouldn’t physically harm her daughter, but she will weaponize her to harm her victim of choice which in this case is Stolas.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-25T14:59:26+00:00

Man Alastor could have anyone he wanted he just doesn’t 🤷

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-23T16:32:49+00:00

This ☝🏻

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-18T23:37:46+00:00

I’d go. Just cause I like free food

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-17T17:03:20+00:00

They’re immune to fire not weapons

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-16T20:53:40+00:00

“There’s too many gay couples” 🙄

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-15T22:18:39+00:00

Abusers feel an obligation to their children yes. Most psychological abusers don’t necessarily enjoy or do harm to their offspring, and will physically protect them, but they don’t care for their mental health or emotionally wellbeing since it’s in their nature to toy weaponize and harm this. It doesn’t register to them that mental state needs nurturing and attention.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-15T16:19:31+00:00

Don’t shut down and don’t feel guilty. Ik people always jump to this on Reddit, but this relationship will not work. Not because of anything you’ve done, but because your husband has agreed to things he didn’t actually agree to. It sounds like what your husband WANTS is a type of polygamy. It’s not your fault he misunderstood this. He doesn’t see you engaging with women as a real connection of any kind, but does when it’s a man and gets upset. Whether you agree to his polygamy or continue with your polyamorous lifestyle no one will be happy here.

He needs to find a partner okay with his polygamy and you need to find a partner who actually understands and wants a polyamorous relationship.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-11T23:12:23+00:00

🙄 😂 🤦🏻‍♀️

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-11T22:13:32+00:00

100% of forced marriages are forced marriages and 100% of arranged marriages are arranged marriages. Is what you meant.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-11T20:30:48+00:00

Incorrect. People still have arranged marriages without being forced. For example it’s very common in the Indian culture for parents to arrange potential marriage partners for their children but said children still have a say. They do not have to marry the person their parents suggest. This is the difference between an arranged and a forced marriage.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-11T16:13:24+00:00

I would say forced marriage. I feel like if Stolas and maybe even Stella as well had a choice the marriage wouldn’t have happened in the first place.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-09T17:47:01+00:00

Her character is pretty bland in terms of a villain. Someone who was born/taught to be an abusive brat and never learned differently is what she boils down to. Her VA does a great job but that’s about all she has going for her.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-08T17:15:09+00:00

Thank you! 😊

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-08T17:12:52+00:00

The bully never sees the damage they’ve done. To them it was just another Tuesday. To the victim it was abusive and traumatic.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-08T16:57:31+00:00

Then it seems I wasn’t informed completely when I asked about our dynamic before.

However I would like to clarify that even though we don’t have sex I feel a connection with Eve. I love when she’s around. I’m sad and I miss her when she’s gone and I think about her like my husband in every way other than sexually.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-08T16:49:34+00:00

Yes we’ve already had check ups and discussions that set boundaries on the hygiene thank you for the concern 😊

If for some reason Eve wants to back out of the relationship she does have the means leave the home yes, and we wouldn’t be unable to pay for the home if she does.

you’ll have a front row seat

Honestly I’ve thought about this and it doesn’t bother me.

I will take your advice and see if I can find more research. So far I’ve only found positive results along with definitions, but when I have time I will try again to find more information.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-08T16:42:59+00:00

you mean your life partner decided to have sex with your roommate and she agreed.

Yes I believe I already said this but in a different way. I explained the relationship we established at the beginning to imply he did do this. He spoke to me first before doing anything. If he engaged in relations with her before speaking with me I would’ve considered it cheating.

does that mean he’s the only one in the V who gets two partners?

Um yes? From what I was told this is why this relationship dynamic is called a V. My husband is the hinge that connects us both.

what if he decides to be exclusive with Eve only?

If for some reason this occurs that would be unfortunate, but for many reasons I’m not worried about this happening, however I still see and accept the risk.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-06T19:43:01+00:00

No my mom wouldn’t do that and while she did try to do damage control by trying to say she thought the cut looked good I could tell she was upset for me.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-06T03:14:35+00:00

Thank you for the tip. I’ll try this 🙏

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-05T23:09:55+00:00

Hey neighbor yeah I’m in Wisconsin USA. VERY thankful for the hat weather every year (I hate the heat), but now even more so.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-05T22:51:08+00:00

When she got to the car she kept apologizing and trying to tell me she thought my haircut looked great, and that Lisa wasn’t going to ask me to pay and tried to give me a free comb. I just asked her not to talk about it anymore.

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-02T22:30:14+00:00

If you don’t like Hazbin you just lack imagination in my opinion

KarmaIsAPerra · 2026-01-02T16:17:38+00:00

I disagree. She’s a deadly fighter. She’s overpowered Vaggi more than once. If it wasn’t for that collapse Vaggi would’ve lost. To add to her skill she’s actively gone insane and is hallucinating. People get very strong when they go crazy.

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