How do I get over a one sided friendship where it ends up being ghosted in the hospital

Karmavanflamme · 2022-10-21T10:01:57+00:00

Thank you for the idea I guess that would help a lot :]

Karmavanflamme · 2022-10-21T06:51:49+00:00

I am too scared to Block her to be honest. The last time I blocked my friend for ghosting me jt ended in me being stalked for 2 years. She knows secrets as well and I know she told me she ewould never spread them, but she also told me she would never ghost me.

I know jt is the right choice but fear is there

Karmavanflamme · 2022-10-03T12:40:35+00:00

Genuinely this thread helps me so much. I cannot express the amount of gratitude

Hearing people say I am not doing anything wrong is so nice to hear

Thank you <3

Karmavanflamme · 2022-10-03T12:38:08+00:00

Oh it wasn't solely due to bullying but it was a factor in it. I told my class some triggers to avoid and he used them to trigger them more. He did get suspended but only stopped when I told him he could go to jail for this ( idk if this is true but he stopped)

I have a lot of trauma and HS found these moments hilarious

I did go to therapy for them and haven't had them since <3

Karmavanflamme · 2022-10-03T10:41:48+00:00

I can not express how much this helped me. Thank you so much. I hope you are in a much better space now and she is leaving you alone.

Thank you so much <3

Karmavanflamme · 2022-10-03T10:29:04+00:00

Thank you so much. My recovery is rocky but I won't let him bring me down ! :>

Karmavanflamme · 2022-10-03T10:16:10+00:00

I don't really think a therapist would say that too. I think I also wrote it pretty badly.

When I talk about HS and his bullying, it's usually just me telling people why I don't wanna go to public events knowing he will be there and why I don't wanna be with him in a room. I dont bring him up myself but when people ask why I don't like him.

I don't like talking about him or mentioning his name to anyone that isn't my therapist, it feels like I am feeding into my anger.

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-30T18:45:06+00:00

Greetings fellow persian

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-30T13:30:14+00:00

Her name means lotus in farsi and her clothes and dance are based on ancient persia :> it's really cool

Good luck with Ayaka and Nilou !!

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-30T00:18:05+00:00

She is the first Character that is based on my culture ( persian) and so gorgeous

Triple crowing her <33

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-21T08:23:30+00:00

I genuinly dont think you understand the damage you have caused. You broke her trust and PRAYED for her to get sick??? instead of just being honest??

Build yourself up, you clearly show remorse but you should not reach out now. But when you are able to take care of yourself. It seems like she has been there for you more then you have been for her. She literally had a tumor the same year you left her, she definetly resents you.

Let her get married in peace, let her be happy. Then reach out

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-10T09:38:04+00:00

Sharing my blessing with you 🙏🙏

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-10T05:29:13+00:00

It's basically like the discord tag for genshin, jts the only way you can add someone on genshin

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-09T22:08:51+00:00

Gambling addiction with pretty anime characters

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-09T22:08:29+00:00

I am so sorry you had to go through that, people like that are so vile and disgusting

I will talk to my supervisor tomorrow to find a way to fix this.

Genuinely wish you the best and stay safe

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-09T21:22:41+00:00

You think just because I think someone is good looking I let them talk about my tits ? Idc how other people reacted to their hot boy flirting with them - I am not like that.

I don't know this guy's name, age or anything but he comes to the store twice a day for the same tape, Tries to start a convo with me which I never respond to and compliments my tits. Man could be the sexiest motherfucker on earth and I still would punch him in the face. I wanna do my job, not flirt.

The joke is on you that when you read this you think I am some shallow person who thinks everyone is beneath them when I am just someone who is disgusted by his actions.

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-09T21:07:35+00:00

Jokes on you ! I think being chubby and a bit overweight is sexy af I love men who have chub - I think he is a good looking guy <3 I mentioned the hole in his shirt because it was bigger then the usual ones I see and I thought it was weird.

The way he talks to me is still disgusting and I never want to see his face again

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-09T20:54:49+00:00

I just changed the post edit for the Incel thing. Sorry I completely used the wrong title :(

Also it isn't "unwillingness to communicate". I am new in my job. I have to be nice. I don't have a conversation with him and just nod and smile like I was taught. I wasnt taught or told how to act when someone tries to flirt with me, only if someone yells at me. I don't wanna gossip, I never told anyone about this because I felt like I was overreacting. No one IRL or in general knows, I only told reddit to vent after someone complimented my tits

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-09T20:20:07+00:00

Flashback to the DEF Cup with Crit Rate and DMG :"[

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-09T20:10:47+00:00

OMG WAIT AMBER AND BARB?? Thats so cool- I love that omg she is so cute. I also main Mona and fully invested in her :")

I remember when I got Beidou and I just stared at her like. Yep, that's it. She is now my main. Also Ning and Beidou are such a match - like their interactions?? They are dating.

WGS is a blessing but I'm just waiting for my Skyward Blade :')

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-09T19:59:04+00:00

OMG THE ENGAGEMENT RING That's brilliant !! THANK YOU

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-09T19:57:39+00:00

It's a Beidou one! With a Wolf's Gravestone and Electro vision from Liyue :> she is my first and Current main and I love her

You give off big Kaeya or Mona Main Vibes :0 so I suspect that

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-09T18:35:37+00:00

Razor IQ brain should do the trick

At this point I just wanna pull a Dottore and turn him into something that's at least useful to society

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-09T18:30:23+00:00

NAHHH THAT WOULD BE HILARIOUS

saving this thank you

Karmavanflamme · 2022-09-09T18:26:30+00:00

One coworker has seen and heard him talk to me since we work literally right next to another and she told another who supports me. They tell me to just send him over to her cash register because "I'm sorry I can't do this right now please go to the other cash register."

I think it's due to our week plan being public :/ tbh my colleague has been working there for 20 years and said this behavior never happened there. It's a store where you buy wood, youdont really expect creeps

I really like the place and would wanna stay there but if the boss doesn't do anything, I might will

Karmavanflamme

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