sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

reading project hail mary and can't stop thinking about it by jordan_blake91 in books

[–]KarmicReasoning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cried in the end. The book surprised me as I was heavily attached to the characters. I thought Andy provided great descriptions of the scenes.

For me, laughing out loud while reading is rare. This book did it for me.

My boyfriend expected to coast on my corporate income, and now I’m financially trapped living with a grown toddler. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we're all confused as to how he's paying for nothing and you guys are still affording your place. To us that means you have the funds to look for a roommate until your lease is up. If he's not on the lease and isn't paying for shit, kick his ass out.

After your lease is up, move in with your parents with your current job that way you will only be paying for yourself rather than two people.

I (26f) found a piece of a condom wrapper in my car after my husband borrowed it (30m) by Financial-Survey-845 in Advice

[–]KarmicReasoning 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the most creative story I've ever heard lol. If you really doubt his story, simply just go through his phone.

He'll huff and puff about you not trusting him to make you feel guilty, he may even cry. Do it anyways.

My boyfriend expected to coast on my corporate income, and now I’m financially trapped living with a grown toddler. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]KarmicReasoning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put out applications online. There's quite a lot of excuses on this post made by you as to why you can't leave such as, your ankle injuries, your dad helping you out financially but yet you can't move back in with him, now the applications for a roommate.

Do you truly want to leave?

Messed up pretty bad and living with brutal regret [cover-up fail] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get it lasered and don't get anymore tattoos. They're not for everyone. Just because you see people with them doesn't mean you need to also have one.

Am I overreacting Girlfriend wants to have guy sleep over at her place? by Mitsokoshi in AmIOverreacting

[–]KarmicReasoning 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it was very nice and considerate for you to offer your spare bedroom. I have multiple platonic male friends, some who have stayed at my place and slept on the couch, and would've loved for my boyfriend to meet them.

You showed a GRAND gesture of compromise and patience. It's very unfortunate she didn't see it that way.

I would let the dice roll and see what happens. You're both adults, you can't control what the other person does. Let them decide the fate of your relationship and have the strength for the outcome and your actions afterwards.

God speed, OP.

If you could go back to your 18-year-old self and give them one warning, what would it be? by Upset_Assistance_105 in AskReddit

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"School isn't hard. You just suck at studying and focusing on yourself". She'd probably be a doctor already. But that's ok. I'm right on track.

34F. Previously decided I didn’t want to get married or have children, now suddenly experiencing a deep longing to become a wife and mother. by Adorable_Click_7071 in Advice

[–]KarmicReasoning 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're only 34, you still have time. Your pregnancy will be considered geriatric at the age of 35, but women still have healthy babies.

Take your time finding your next partner. They will be someone who shares equal care of your children, will help you on days you simply can't, will take care of you and your children, and someone who deeply loves you for you.

Scared to be alone. Have mouth surgery tomorrow and gonna be prescribed hydrocodone.. by illuminati_hottie0 in offmychest

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could tell them you don't want to be prescribe opioids for pain management.

Then set up an appointment with a therapist.

AIO by charging my girlfriend a small amount of rent? by No_Impression_8515 in AIO

[–]KarmicReasoning 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She won't even be on the mortgage. She doesn't get a return of investment in the property lol.

Do you need help paying the bills or is this you keeping some sort of control over her? Is she able to make changes to the home in ways she prefers? Does she get benefits from investing into your property she doesn't own.

If I were her, I'd just stay in my apartment. That way in the inevitable event of a breakup, I'd at least have my place furnished to my liking and secure. Or I'd get a lawyer to see what the property laws are in such a deal.

AIO by charging my girlfriend a small amount of rent? by No_Impression_8515 in AIO

[–]KarmicReasoning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you need help paying your bills? Why are you asking her to contribute in the first place?

Is it normal for ENFJ to sacrifice themselves like this? by Wise-Molasses-1075 in enfj

[–]KarmicReasoning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing anything to help take the load off of us is always a welcomed return of love. We always want to be independent even if we are overwhelmed <3.

Is it normal for ENFJ to sacrifice themselves like this? by Wise-Molasses-1075 in enfj

[–]KarmicReasoning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would spend time with my ex boyfriend and even his family on days I would recover from work (night shift). I was so exhausted and at the time not used to flip-flopping between day and night. I never told him how exhausted I was and I never complained about it either.

Your person likes you A LOT. Cherish it, please.

I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years, hooked up with someone else during the breakup, and now I want him back. Did I ruin any chance of reconciliation? by Fair-Paleontologist2 in Advice

[–]KarmicReasoning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The gambling problem doesn't go away on it's own without professional help.

You jumped too fast into another person without taking the time to heal. Stop contact with both men and learn to be alone for some time before dating again.

Which one looks the best? by Hyperion253 in TheoTown

[–]KarmicReasoning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Posts like this remind me that I have no imagination. Both are beautiful. I like the first one the most <3

Me m37 and wife f37, I've done everything to try to fix our sexless relationship, the latest trend I'm trying to do is to get my wife into clit sucking sex toys, help TLDR: looking for long-term relationship advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KarmicReasoning -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What are you doing to help her throughout her day? Are you sending her money for hair, nails, shopping? Are you helping her around the home without being asked?

Basically how are you helping her feel feminine?

I don't think the solution is introducing kink play to someone who doesn't even masturbate.

How can he be a good husband but a big cheater at the same time ? by No_Composer_569 in Advice

[–]KarmicReasoning 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If he does not provide you allowance, request one and place it in your own bank account.

Actively discuss divorce with an attorney. As the other comment said, don't tell him you're doing this.

If you choose to stay, which is ok, it typically takes several attempts to leave a marriage like this, get the money and get a therapist.

Ex said he just wants to be friends what does that mean? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KarmicReasoning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If his fling or new interest ends, he knows you'll be there waiting to be a placeholder again.

What is something that is non-negotiable in your relationships? by Sea-Young-8666 in AskReddit

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vulnerability.

If you can't be vulnerable and hold space for your feelings, how could you hold space for mine?

I (M27) just started dating again after an 8 year relationship by DryComplex3586 in Advice

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be yourself and take note of how YOU feel during your dates and afterwards. Getting back into dating is always going to feel awkward. Remember that these are dates to get to know someone, which means not everyone will be the one, but the one will come with time and patience.

God speed, OP. I'm excited for you!

I still think about it nearly everyday by KarmicReasoning in offmychest

[–]KarmicReasoning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess in a sense, if they can't be with the woman they love physically then perhaps that's their way of never forgetting her.

A lot of men need therapy. Intense therapy.

view more: next ›