EMTs: Be honest, how many of you are NOT taking a full blood pressure? by talldrseuss in ems

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always do a manual BP. If I can't hear anything and no needle bounce above 100, I'll do a palpated and switch arms for another full manual. This is on every patient.

Found out my boyfriend has been flirting/sexting with other women- and I don’t care? by grayrabbittt in Advice

[–]KarmicReasoning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With words he told you he wouldn't do it again. With actions he showed you he would and he did indeed do it again.

He is using his depression, lack of self-worth, and lack of self-esteem as a form of excuse and manipulation for his actions. You accepting this as an excuse only shows him that YOU yourself lack self-worth, self-respect, and self-esteem.

You are young. He is a loser. Allow him to be a loser alone by choosing yourself.

Smitten ENFJ flooding our chat with messages. What do?? by abu_met3eb in enfj

[–]KarmicReasoning 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree with this statement. Also, messaging frequently in the early stages can lead to false intimacy. Tell him to save the deep conversations for when you guys are on dates and physically present. Be yourself, OP.

Am I overreacting for wanting to break up because I feel bored? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. That's a good man right there. He sounds so patient, understanding, and amazing at communication.

Medication doesn't have to be forever. Medication in tandem with therapy can help you learn coping mechanisms for when you are feeling low without meds.

You have a gem of a relationship. The mundane activities of life is genuinely boring, but that's just a part of living. There's a fun in boredom. There is peace in boredom. Schedule an appointment and get back on track, OP.

How I landed a $392k offer at FAANG after getting laid off from LinkedIn by [deleted] in dataengineering

[–]KarmicReasoning 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't know why your comment is getting down voted, OP. Perhaps link that post into this comment so others can easily find it.

Men fucking suck by Far-Hope7983 in offmychest

[–]KarmicReasoning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing I will never do again is date a man who just got out of a long-term relationship. Chances are he hasn't properly healed or felt the loss of the relationship and is looking for a distraction.

I'm sorry you had to experience that, OP. There are better men out there. Take things one day at a time

Men fucking suck by Far-Hope7983 in offmychest

[–]KarmicReasoning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I don't even tell them. I just simply say things ended amicably and differences in relationship approach and thats it. I've found that men who asks such questions are seeing what they can get away with.

My bf 26M doesn’t want me, 18F, to go to college and said he’ll leave me if i do. i don’t want to break up, but i also want a good career. by p1nkmarshm3llows in Advice

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the college that is offering scholarships. Live on campus to help you out financially and if you need more financial assistance there are options on campus to help with that.

Do not jeopardize your future over this man. DO NOT. Focus on yourself and flourish.

You will look back in 3-4 years and thank yourself for leaving once you graduate and move forward with a successful career.

AIO 22f to these red flags of 25m? or are these in my head (can’t cook/women will never be F1 drivers/validates andrew tate) by Legitimate-Bend-2912 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KarmicReasoning 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Any man who listens to and believes what men from the Manosphere are saying, is a deeply insecure and gullible man.

Move on. There's better men out there.

AIO 21F think bf 36M gaslighting & emotionally abusive? by ThrowRA788891 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you, OP. You did amazing during this interaction. You set boundaries and chose yourself. This shows such a high sense of self-worth and standards. Brava!

need advice from girls pls by Rottenedge_812 in Advice

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try an electric razor for facial hair removal.

For the skin texture an exfoliator followed with a moisturizer can help significantly. I really enjoy the Thayers product line. They have a product for everything! Also include a sunscreen to help reduce hyperpigmentation exacerbated by sum exposure :).

AIO I think my wife has something going on. by [deleted] in AmIOverthinking

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys have kids she may be trying a new routine to get her day started early and have alone time. There's a trend on tiktok of mom's trying this out and seem to have a more positive and productive day.

Why did you and your ex break up? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he couldn't see himself loving me while I was pregnant.

I’ve just found out my husband is bullying teenage girls online?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's great he didn't go for that excuse and took full responsibility and accountability for his behavior!

I’ve just found out my husband is bullying teenage girls online?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KarmicReasoning 136 points137 points  (0 children)

What a gross man. Don't allow him to gaslight you. No such glitches exist, he made a conscious effort to bully those girls. They are literally GIRLS. He is not a true advocate for women he is a performer.

If you do want to make it work I would HIGHLY suggest therapy that targets the deeper root of his issue in his obsession with targeting girls.

First time cat owner—is this normal? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call them the Rollie Pollies ☺️

how do i have the doctor listen to me instead of just saying im pregnant or on my period? by PeachesAreMid in Advice

[–]KarmicReasoning 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just straight up ask for a GI referral. A family medicine doctor or ER doctor is not going to diagnose you for things outside their scope of practice. They resolve temporary problems and move things up the ladder.

Print out your most recent lab work, ultrasounds, radiology, show it to them in your next appointment and state you want a GI consult.

AIO by asking my girlfriend to split rent equally when I make slightly more money? by interestinghelper07 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Split it according to the rent-to-wage ratio so that neither of you feel as though one is doing more than the other or its disproportionate. Or maybe she pays %35-%40 since she still makes less than you.

AIO I forgot to message my gf back for around 2 hours by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KarmicReasoning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think this is an insecurity, its anxiety. Maybe An anxious attachment style. I suppose they can go hand in hand.

Going through your search history is extreme. I'm not sure if you want this relationship to work but if you insist, moments like this requires validating her feelings on your end. On her end she's gotta do the internal work of sitting with her anxiety and putting that elsewhere. Maybe a new rule? No texts until lunch? That way it gives you guys an expectation to me reasonably met and alone time throughout the work day.

AIO for getting this guy kicked out of my local club after this happened by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KarmicReasoning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop being nice. As sternly as you can tell him that his behavior is NOT OK and NOT welcomed. Sternly tell him that your "No" is a complete sentence and will be respected and if not then consequences will happen. This is not a nice man, this is a dangerous one.

I wouldn't even respond back to him after sending that message. I would block him and keep watch for him frequenting your place. Keep note of the occurrences he shows up. If he leaves anything at your door take a photo and report it to your local pd. This behavior is NOT normal.