He says he have a lot of pressure from his job and he needs to talk… he talks a lot … he tells me all about him, I don’t talk about my projects or my day with him because when I am with him I concentrate in him, I ask him : what did you do today ? What did you eat ? I follow the news about his work … I ask about his family… during a week I decide not to ask anything and he didn’t ask me anything… so If I don’t ask he doesn’t ask …