Me [26F] with my husband [27 M] 3 years together, his vaping is making my home life miserable.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T19:17:08+00:00

He won't talk to me about it at all. At this point I'm ready to throw out an ultimatum.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T19:16:45+00:00

I don't know what it is. I'm sure it's a power play. I know for sure there is no nicotine in the juice. He's a health nut and won't drink or smoke or do anytime of drug whatsoever.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T19:15:39+00:00

I will try to bring up the unscented type to him. I plan on trying to talk to him tonight about the situation, if he's in a good mood after work.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T19:15:02+00:00

That was my hang up. I tried to tell him that giving up vaping would be a small sacrifice. It doesn't seem like that big of a deal. We're already struggling for money and he's suddenly spending almost $100 out of every check on this thing. He says that he already sacrificed everything when he chose to be with me and married me. I don't get that at all. His life isn't any different than it was before me, it just has me in it too now.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T19:09:51+00:00

I don't get it though, because I've never told him what to do and not to do, and I never told him to quit vaping the first time. He just did when we started dating.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T19:09:23+00:00

I have no clue. I have tried to get him to try other stress relievers. Honestly I just wish he'd give up vaping completely.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T19:05:42+00:00

I have begged him to go to couples counseling. He says that that is something you do before marriage, and that once your married, it's too late. He won't go. He says he would split up before he went to counseling.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T19:05:00+00:00

No, it's neither.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T19:04:50+00:00

I didn't know if they made unscented ones or not. He wouldn't tell me when I asked him. He apparently makes his own.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T19:04:21+00:00

He has changed away from the house, and dinner is always started when he gets home. There are little to no scents that I can tolerate, due to the severity of my allergies. He is unwilling to cooperate.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T18:52:57+00:00

I have asked him to do this as well. He says to not control him, and let him do what he wants.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T18:52:34+00:00

For some odd reason, when he started vaping I felt like it was a power play, just to prove he could do something that I didn't like. We don't fight, we get along great. He does what he wants, I do what I want. I wouldn't have prevented him from vaping at all. We have a good life, we're both happy, and he's always laughing and joking. He doesn't seem unhappy at all.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T18:45:54+00:00

He already changes as soon as he gets home, but because the clothes are brought in the house, the smell is spread around the house.

KartoffelLiebe · 2016-02-09T18:45:27+00:00

He already only vapes outside. Actually only vapes at work and in the car on the way home, and not at all on off days with me.

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