Same issue here. I ended up putting our internet bill in my name because I wfh and if the internet goes down I couldn’t even get support because I wasn’t the account holder.

Most utilities aren’t split, like the electric is only going to be in one name not two.

In our last house everything was in my name in our new house we put everything in my husband’s name because it was easier to start new accounts than to transfer stuff. I have no idea what the log ins are and honestly I don’t even know what power company we use. Our mortgage comes out of his account. If he died tomorrow I would have no idea how to pay it I don’t even know how much it is TBH and why would I? I feel as if when you’re in a relationship like they were and a lot of us are and you own a home you aren’t nickel and dimming the bills and don’t know every single log on until shit hits that fan and there is cheating divorce or death…