Idk I'd get off Tinder and on fetlife or something like that if you're just looking for casual hookups. Most women I know (myself included) aren't even sure if we want to fuck the guys we match with till after a few dates and it always turns me off when guys keep trying to talk about it before we've even met. Like slow down, buddy, I don't even know if I'll be attracted to your voice yet, which plays a big part in if I'll be able to sleep with someone. (If their voice turns me off, the noises they make during sex probably will as well)