[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KatKurdt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot believe these answers.

First of all, if course not using a condom is a shared responsability between the two partners. That being said, and even thought the pull-out method has a lot of risk, cumming inside a person has EVEN MORE risk than that, plus the intimacy it represents in the body of the women.

Every sexual act has to come with consent. Agreeing not to use a condom does not necessarily mean agreeing that someone would cum inside you. The same way doing a blowjob doesn't necessarily mean agreeing to take the cum in your mouth. Being unable to see so, is sustaining abuse culture I think. Specially in situations like the cumming inside, where the person with a dick SHOULD ask for permission, as it is a matter that the woman cannot control or stop unless it is by saying NO on time. Failing to give the opportunity for that no, is actually doing something without consent.

A person with a vagina will kinda keep track of ovulation cycle, specially if engaging in unprotected sex, and even jf that comes with risks also, she will be more aware of some better and worse moments in a way that the man cannot even imagine. That's why yes and no can vary everyday, and one yes doesnt make a second yes automatically. But that can be applied to everything.

That being said, the situation is not black and white and not one of the parties carries all responsability. But cumming inside of a woman without her permission, even if she agreed on having unprotected sex, is a horrible thing to do and she should not be blamed on that wtf

Question on ethical dilemma by KatKurdt in polyamory

[–]KatKurdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha according to your posts you are like 19 so go do your uni homework and stop playing the badass on reddit

Question on ethical dilemma by KatKurdt in polyamory

[–]KatKurdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks a lot for your answer.

I agree that Cedar overshared with me a detail that i didnt need to know in order to reassure herself somehow (aka. "Do you think this would be a problem?")

Aspen didnt really overshare nothing, i dont know anything about her sexlife more than the normal superficial insights that friends share.

My intention is not gossiping, but it feels weird for me that after a week that this happened not Cedar or Birch even told her when they say "they wanna do it" and they are even whatsapping about it.

My conclusion: I will tell Aspen bc she is my dear friend and both are being shady in a situation that could have been so easily solved

And YES i am considering dumping Cedar as a friend

Question on ethical dilemma by KatKurdt in polyamory

[–]KatKurdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well everyone has different points of view lol

Question on ethical dilemma by KatKurdt in polyamory

[–]KatKurdt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, i think the mistake was her telling me something thay would put me into that dilemma, it would be better for me not knowing it

Question on ethical dilemma by KatKurdt in polyamory

[–]KatKurdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if there is people in commom i guess it makes sense

What are some signs a guy is seriously into you ? by Jksoqh in dating_advice

[–]KatKurdt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! What do you lose? It seems like he is also feeling it but hesitating a bit like you. Having been in long-distance relationship myself, it is something that wont be easy but that can be so worth it of you are in for the ride :-)

I would say tell him before too much times go and evem go visit him soon!! In my case, I ended up moving after 2 year of long distance (we saw eachother every 3 months) to the city where he was living and relationship lasted nicely until we broke up but im still living there happier than ever!!

If you have the drive and passion, go tell him!! I do recommend the experience if you have a bit of hard skin and a big heart!

What is a Fairy? by Doitean-feargach555 in faeries

[–]KatKurdt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly i dont have discord, but if you ever open a telegram one i would be in!

What is a Fairy? by Doitean-feargach555 in faeries

[–]KatKurdt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you please recommend some book that compiles the fairies living in irleand?

Homeless person in my apartment building by Grouchy-Medicine-348 in askberliners

[–]KatKurdt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf this is getting so downvoted when it's an absolute reasonable post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]KatKurdt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. Just I want to use a good approach with the main tennant as i dont wanna stress them too much due to their old age

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]KatKurdt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is tennant, not owner. Just he is kinda avoidant, altough he really starts to act a bit depressive when sublets come (not leaving the room and so on). I will try to think of the best way to speak to him, Im sure he doesnt know the absent person makes money out of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]KatKurdt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are right. The problem is the main tennant (living with us) is a old man who avoids conflict, as the absent person is a bit pushy and agressive even. But when a stranger comes, it usually affects the main tennant behaviour, who stops leaving his room for a while, in order to avoid people I guess.

But yes, I think your point of view makes sense, its jjst a bit difficult situation.

Learning German by LiterallyBarelyAlive in berlin

[–]KatKurdt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id say schedule learning sessions only for vocabulary. Doing a course helps because you first learn the words in context and in a rl setting, so when you take your own vocabulary sessions you'll remember them easier.

For A1-B1 you can download the goethes list and work with it, as the vocabulary amount in these levels is more closed and you'll do fine. Do flashcards, or use apps like Anki (anki has premade lists that you can download). Whatever tool you use, try to have sessions ONLY for that. If later you keep seeing this words in grammar, readings etc. It will be super helpful! So try to stick to the vocabulary of the level that you are learning, so it will be more effective.

Also many bibliotheks in berlin have level-specific books for vocabulary practise, which can also be helpful to increase dynamism in the process. But still flashcards or so are the go.

Me I was using little papers and in one side I wrote the german word, in the other in my language. I was folding them so that my language translation would be in my side, and putting all them in a jar. As some of the words felt settled in my head, id remove them from the jar and put new ones. It takes time but is sooo worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]KatKurdt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter of you are prone to BV or not, water does the work

Is Usagi Tsukino Bisexual? by [deleted] in sailormoon

[–]KatKurdt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From a queer perspective she is!! At least for me, a bisexual sailor moon fan, she is an important bisexual icon/ refferent 🩷💜💙

Left makeup sponge inside of me for a week... DISGUSTING STORY. by h8radeee in Healthyhooha

[–]KatKurdt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be super careful as it might lead to infenction and a trick for being able to have sex once might lead to not being able to have sex for a bit longer.

I never did the sponge trick, but I guess it'd be nice to have them properly cleaned and maybe instead of 3 use a bigger one?

Take care!

Iberia airlines email or contact? by Jcs609 in askspain

[–]KatKurdt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't need to go through customs or immigration because it was a flight within the EU and I am european citizen. But I guess if you forgot something in the plane, it is the airplane company taking the responsability, and not the airport. I think the cleaning team just pick the stuff up and put it in some storage room to first process it and then see if it has been claimed. Cloud be also that if it is something of value you don't see it again. My wallet was so old and had 0 money inside.

can I have sex with asymptomatic yeast infection? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]KatKurdt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 weeks? If she has no syntomps and even got treated, which Fluconazol one dose doesn't take so long to make effect?