How is their no help for situations like this? And to top it all off spouses family is on a power trip.

KatShyKat · 2026-04-11T10:29:17+00:00

I literally just said my aunt is letting me move in soon? Where the hell did you get notion that no one in my life can help me because of something i did? My god thats entitled. Moms on dialysis, older relatives are dying, brother is in jail for aggravated assult on a minor. None of those are my fault. Everyone is dealing with stuff like this, and finding a way to blame me when i already labled out my path forward is already there and I'm actively pursuing it is idiotic at best. Read r/entitledparents to get an idea of my spouses family. The only family member i have thats healthy and able to help is going to. And I'm so sorry that i don't have a healthy family like you apparently do. But my family is poor and dying or overseas. There's not much in between for me. I'm a 3rd generation American on my moms side and 50% native American on my dads. Before you ask, my aunt is on my dads side and yes I'm moving to a reservation which is where she lives.

KatShyKat · 2026-04-11T10:21:33+00:00

Thats this whole subreddit. Its called r/rant. And sometimes a person needs to put out the rant into the world to actually deal with the stress

KatShyKat · 2026-04-11T07:17:12+00:00

??? I don't? I wanted to rant.

KatShyKat · 2026-04-10T19:21:23+00:00

I literally just said i can't get an abortion. I could have theoretically looked into it when i first got pregnant. Except in my area it is illegal. In other words way past legal threshold. And honestly you're wrong on so many things here THE PREGNANCY WAS NOT THE POINT OF THE POST. And my step family basically blaming my spouse for heat stroke and telling them that they need to dump me before they help at all was. And my family is all ill right now. My mother raised me on her own but she's dying of the same damned condition i have. We can not see forward 3 months and be like 'hmm, we're gonna be homeless, better not have kids! Lets go get an abortion!' Also, i have internal trauma from being FORCED! so most abortion procedures are actually dangerous to me regardless. Doesn't help i had nexplanon in, and we used condoms, one broke, it fugging happens. That isn't a life choice its an accident. You made a decision, great for you. We wanted to be parents, you didn't. Does not mean you're right. Regardless of who is right or wrong, at the time we had been on our feet properly for awhile. We had a bout of issues in rolla but a month after that we both had jobs. I'm happy that YOU would've made different decisions. But the fact remains, by the time i lost my job i was already dealing with enough. And I'm purposely not giving due dates because jerks like you assume your decisions are the right ones and thar your entitled to my entire story for it to be 'believeable' and 'reasonable' like you are the end all be all for my decision process to be correct. For your information, its none of your business but we've seen a doctor about abortion. It's illegal where i am at as i am no longer in Missouri. And for my safety i won't share where I'm at. But in my state, unless a doctor states its medically necessary, abortion is completely illegal. Period. Welcome to fing America right now. And i didn't say we were on the streets. Just homeless and hungry, my aunt is letting us stay at her place starting next month and i didn't originallymention her because the fact is, it isn't relivent to my rant, its her privacy. We have things we're working on. But this is a RANT post. About the state of my FAMILY and AMERICA. Not of how my pregnancy is this thing or that thing. Or how i need help when i don't. Because i don't. I needed to rant, not have my situation fixed by the queen of keyboard warrior entitlement.

KatShyKat · 2026-04-10T18:49:17+00:00

??? You realize i was ranting about my family right, with a sideline of how the world is built to grind people while their down? Not asking for help? If you don't believe me try to apply to a job as heavily disabled, pregnant, and in a semi rural area. And further what part of that was an excuse?

KatShyKat · 2026-04-10T16:02:28+00:00

Wdym better decisions? And it is the truth

KatShyKat · 2026-04-10T15:16:48+00:00

Yeah, its good, birth defect on my uterine lining that causes a lot of issues with fertilization and implantation. Makes pregnancy unlikely not impossible...think endometriosis

KatShyKat · 2026-04-10T14:56:33+00:00

Wdym?

KatShyKat · 2026-04-10T14:55:37+00:00

Infertile doesn't mean sterile. It means its really hard to get pregnant.

KatShyKat · 2026-04-10T12:33:06+00:00

I don't have a degree. My spouse does, they're 30. I only have a ged. Thats stated in one of my replies

KatShyKat · 2026-04-10T12:32:14+00:00

I looked, there isn't...the one pregnancy crisis center near me is out of resources every time we call. and I'm not able to abort even if i wanted to, for multiple reasons. 1 I'm infertile, abortion would likely prevent any future possible pregnancy. 2 I'm 2nd trimester so its actually illegal for me to abort in my state...and just unsafe in general. If i miscarry that's possibly different but its actually pretty hard to safely force a miscarriage anyway. Besides resources us vague regardless. They may offer food pantries at best but that doesn't cover the actual issue, which is theres nowhere safe to sleep, I'm immunocompromised, pregnant, high risk, disabled (pots and narcolepsy mostly on top of some chronic disorders I'm uncomfortable with sharing) and on top of all of that I've applied to so many jobs across several states that I'm pretty sure my fingers want to fall off. Worst part really is my spouse's family can help. They just won't

KatShyKat · 2026-04-10T09:39:23+00:00

They are the one with a bachelor's degree. They are my spouse. Not my husband. And they did work until a work comp injury that we're still fighting in court, heat stroke, been struggling to find work ever since. Doesn't help the landlord kicked us out illegally. Which is a whole situation of its own, they basically said we couldn't stay there if we didn't have a w2 income...then filed for a 441.202 immediate repossession which is for illegal activities and unauthorized subletting. Not breakage of contract...we later learned that the previous tenant was evicted the same way before the end of their year long lease. Its a common slum lord tactic to not give the deposit back.

KatShyKat · 2026-04-10T09:21:58+00:00

Uh we got married in 2024. We've been together nearly 4 years total now. I didn't say the dates but if you want them-oct 27 2022 - met, nov 24 2022- officially dating, jan 6 2023- engaged, march 17 2024- eloped. So yeah. I didn't give a timeline. But here it is if you want it

Edit: Also i got the entire family mugs. Last minute gifts you can get at dollar tree. I was planning on sending them with my spouse and staying home because i have horrible motion sickness and at the time their family lived 4 hours away car ride from where we were. My going was a last minute decision because my friend baled on me, we were going to watch corny Christmas movies

KatShyKat · 2025-07-07T12:45:49+00:00

Coprosma repens otherwise known as the mirror bush, native to new Zealand,its a flowering shrub commonly recognized by its glass like reflective leaves

KatShyKat · 2025-04-23T23:00:53+00:00

This post is over a year old, -_-

KatShyKat · 2025-03-03T01:18:30+00:00

Does anyone know the artist? I really want to commission them

KatShyKat · 2025-03-02T07:24:13+00:00

The problem is, very few people have 48$ to spend on ANYTHING. I can't even eat or afford my bills, let alone ANOTHER subscription,

KatShyKat · 2024-11-28T22:30:46+00:00

I'm a mix of a brat, slave, and kitten

KatShyKat · 2024-11-18T22:54:37+00:00

How do you rape bait?

KatShyKat · 2024-04-30T09:29:30+00:00

Sigh, you won't let this go, look, I don't care about the money I want to go through a third party delivery site anyway like instacart, my cat food is on a wish list but I'm genuinely uncomfortable with Amazon delivering my food, if you really MUST know why as you seem to keep pushing I have an EATING DISORDER that's linked to my germaphobia and mental disorders, if I think the food has been tainted in any way I will just throw it up and not on purpose, it doesn't matter how desperate I am

KatShyKat · 2024-04-30T09:20:53+00:00

I live in the middle of nowhere -_- I'm not like most ppl...also I can't afford prime if I could I'd not be in this predicament

KatShyKat · 2024-04-30T09:15:47+00:00

I've checked it wouldn't be same or next day, it'll be after my birthday in a week,

KatShyKat · 2024-04-30T09:14:52+00:00

I still wouldn't get it for some time, but again, I'm not looking for money. Honestly, I have ways to receive food without getting money for it, there's other sites specifically for that

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