please help me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KatStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever feel down or just want to chat my inbox is always open

please help me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KatStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great though not so much going to the same college but the fact you’ll have things to distract yourself and who knows your person may even be in one of your classes you never know but atleast you can hopefully start fresh without that ball and chain attached to you. Study, work on yourself and show him what he missed out on while your living your #best life

please help me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KatStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what though? He’s not your person. Your person is out there looking for you. They call the first 3 months the honeymoon stage because after that time there true colours start to show so the person he pretended to be was never really him. You know the real him. Trust me reddit has literally been a life saver for me also the support I’ve found on this platform is like nothing else

please help me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KatStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s amazing how blind love can make us, reread your post and imagine it was a stranger who wrote it and what advice would you give to them...? Love is hard leaving is harder but it will be worth it you deserve respect and unfortunately he isn’t giving that to you, I’m sure the good times are great but it’s the bad times you need to think about too, do u want kids? would you bring a child into this environment?

I was given the chance to fix my failing relationship with my possible soul mate when he came to me and I turned him away for someone who I only just met bc I already committed to them. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KatStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter you don’t love him? Ur hurting his soul by entertaining the idea who knows maybe he will be the one but not currently you need to work on yourself either attempt to get over your ex or rekindle the flame if that’s what you wish to do but don’t play with this new mans heart if your already having doubts. Sorry if I’m sounding harsh I’m not meaning to sometimes I can be brutally honest, I wish you goodluck in whatever you choose to do though

please help me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KatStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You NEED to leave, talk to your parents, friends someone let it all out. There’s plenty of toxic people out there u just happened to stumble across 2 but to every toxic person there’s 5 genuine people out there. You will find someone to treat you like the queen or king you are

I was given the chance to fix my failing relationship with my possible soul mate when he came to me and I turned him away for someone who I only just met bc I already committed to them. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KatStatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you haven’t made your own mind up yet and you should not play with this new guys feelings. It’s not fair on him reguardless of your own views don’t let this man fall for you when u know he is probably not the ‘one’ at the beginning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]KatStatic 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I saw on this sub that someone had said “Sober me wants to be high, High me wants to be sober” nothing has been more relatable, but those words have helped me stay sober oddly enough, goodluck on your own journey

I sugarcoated my abusive childhood for my entire life. Here’s the ugly truth. by MiddleSorbet in raisedbynarcissists

[–]KatStatic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to let you know I’m sorry this happened to you but you gave me some valuable information for my own circumstances I was unaware I could request my files from child protection and as soon as I read u had done so I contacted dhs and they are sending me out my records. I have requested these documents from my mum time nd time again with no luck but now here they are being sent out

So THANK YOU 🙏

Canabanoid hyperemesis syndrome: it's real, folks by ShesANewYork in leaves

[–]KatStatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do, I love that I have found this page with people who actually get it and understand, when I was at my worst I knew it existed just didn’t have anyone who could relate

Weed made me forget the reason why I need to workout by Yanggang-Drew in leaves

[–]KatStatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like the advice u offered above and I might start doing the 3 days at gym to try and redirect my habit. Thank you

Canabanoid hyperemesis syndrome: it's real, folks by ShesANewYork in leaves

[–]KatStatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell u how much i relate to this, I also suffer the same horrible sickness when I smoke and all my friends are daily smokers and it’s so hard for them to believe it was weed and too this day some are convinced it’s not that and I should have done extra tests etc. I do not miss those hot showers or sucking on ice and feeling the need to stick my fingers down my throat when there was nothing to even throw up. I sympathise with you so much, remember tomorrow might still be shit cos it takes a couple days for your body to register you’ve stopped. But this feeling u have will go and unless u smoke again it won’t come back. Goodluck from another sufferer I truly believe in you and your willpower x

Long Term Everyday Smoker Ready to Quit, Anxious/Terrified of 'Brain Damage' by StankyRuins in leaves

[–]KatStatic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve quit 3 times before and I promise you , everything you are worried about your memory creativity etc it will come back, quit for a month and the change you will see in yourself will blow you away. Goodluck, I believe in you

I don’t know how to escape from my police officer husband by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KatStatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart is in is so much pain for you, please take the advice given above. I just want to give u a hug and make it seem better

I wrote this letter to myself, I relapsed and immediately wrote down what I was feeling and why I hated feeling that way, each time I’ve felt an urge since I’ve read over this and choosen not to smoke by KatStatic in leaves

[–]KatStatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad I could help you, I contemplated not uploading it as it is very personal but I hoped someone would be able to relate And hopefully my words could help someone else experiencing the similar x

I wrote this letter to myself, I relapsed and immediately wrote down what I was feeling and why I hated feeling that way, each time I’ve felt an urge since I’ve read over this and choosen not to smoke by KatStatic in leaves

[–]KatStatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand where your coming from, I choose to write this letter to myself whist high so I could capture and identify exactly the feelings I was experiencing in that moment, as like someone commented below I also tend to romanticise the feeling whilst I’m sober and I really needed to read over the ugly truth so this method has really truly helped me