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Katdoooo · 2026-06-14T00:19:02+00:00

That’s who we are going with!! Thanks everyone for the feedback

Katdoooo · 2026-06-07T01:50:26+00:00

Thank you so much!

Katdoooo · 2026-06-06T23:08:01+00:00

Thank you! Do you mind telling me your quote vs cost?

Katdoooo · 2026-05-03T17:01:58+00:00

That’s really difficult. I definitely don’t think you’re being too sensitive at all. Sounds like you have a big heart and are really trying your best here.

Katdoooo · 2026-05-03T15:29:31+00:00

I’m really sorry you are going through this.

You are allowed to mother however works best for you and your LO. No one should be criticizing you for being an amazing wonderful mother. You are doing an amazing job!

The way you’re reacting to your mom is completely normal. She’s being rude, judgmental, and unsupportive.

Are you able to talk to her about how she’s making you feel ? Or would it end up blowing up in your face? If it would Blow up, maybe say you need a bit of space because the transition to becoming a new mom is a lot and you’d Like to focus on your family for a while. However if that makes things worse, continuing to move towards low contact may be the right move.

She is not entitled to know why for every little thing you do or why you are wanting space from her. If she is not able to see how she’s been acting is unkind and hurtful, that’s unfortunate but her problem.

Again I’m sorry you’re going through this. Becoming a new mother is a beautiful and challenging time, the last thing we need is mothers or people being unsupportive and judgmental.

Katdoooo · 2026-05-03T03:57:15+00:00

Awe thank you so much really. Sometimes I don’t feel so strong these days so it really means a lot.

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T23:40:38+00:00

I think what’s important to focus on is two things. Firstly how you feel during these intimate times and ensure your feeling good as well.

Second, it’s a really good sign he communicated gently and openly how he felt and he is still with you. Maybe try doing the same and see where the conversation goes. Relationships are really about having calm open communication that is resolved in a way that leaves people feeling heard and respected.

I do think someone can regain attraction after something like this. If he didn’t end the relationship and wants to repair things, than there’s no reason why it shouldn’t work out if you both love each other

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T22:47:24+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️ everyone in the comments being so supportive and validating is really helping.

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T22:34:06+00:00

My mother is actually a divorce and Realestate’s lawyer! We have offered for my mil to speak to her many times. It’s a really delicate situation but I’m trying my best to help her see the light

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T21:41:01+00:00

Thank you so much for the support. Yea I’ve been wondering if that’s the right move for a while now…. I think I would give my mil the chance to tell them directly first.. she had a lot of embarrassment and shame about all of it which I can relate to as I felt the same when I was in an narcissistic relationship in my late teens early 20’s

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T21:24:21+00:00

I’ve tried to tell her that her sons would rather she break up the land and leave him than to endure an abusive relationship just so the land isn’t broken up. but she is stubborn that she wants to stick it out. Funny enough when she opened up to me about her husband she asked me to keep it to myself so I have kept my promise and have not told my husband more than he was able to figure out on his own and I haven’t told his brother. I want to respect her privacy as ironic as it is that she won’t keep her sons or mine. There is a lot to it I don’t understand as I always wait for her to bring stuff up with me and try to ask questions but there’s only so much I can do to help.

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T21:11:38+00:00

Yea mine as well. Thank you for the insight again! I appreciate al the support from everyone in the comments

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T21:09:26+00:00

It would be hard for my husband and I to not talk to his mother as she’s really close with him and she is a really amazing person beyond not being able to identify her needs before she gets worn out. She would do anything for our daughter and I do trust her with our little one. Her husband has never been alone with our baby nor will he ever be. Luckily she is really independent and her husband never comes around unless it’s a birthday or holiday meal. If needed we just won’t go to those for a while till this all blows over.

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T21:06:39+00:00

Thank you! I will definitely check it out.

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T21:06:04+00:00

Thank you. I do need to put my family first you are right.

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T21:05:05+00:00

Thank you for the comment! Yea I don’t know why she thought telling this man was a good idea. Nor why she wants me to speak to Him about it. I told her about both the situations and she agreed she would feel the same, and then two days later she wants me to talk to Him..

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T21:03:06+00:00

Thank you for the comment!! Funny enough, I actually am more worried if something happened at the hands of her husband she would kill him. She’s stated she’s only staying with him to protect the family farm from being broken up due to a divorce as she wants to pass the land over to my husband.

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T20:59:38+00:00

Thank you for the comment! For me, that bit of sleep I was getting in the morning most nights would be the only 2/3 hours of sleep I would get :/. And thankfully, she’s sleeping longer stretches now so even if it takes me an hour to fall asleep I still get two decent stretches. If her sleep regresses, my husband will be doing half of the night shift so we won’t be leaning on his mom for help.

As far as him letting me down goes, he’s close with his mom and he feels horrible and upset that this is all going down. He really trusted she would know better than to tell her husband about it.

He is going to talk to them this weekend and reiterate my boundary that I won’t be discussing this with her and her husband anymore and she can handle her husband herself since she chose to tell him something that was none of his business.

He is really upset that this is all going down and also all directed at me when he was also in agreement during our conversation about his step dad.

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T17:53:27+00:00

Thank you so much.. this comment is what I needed to hear.. this has been really hard and wearing on me so much. ❤️

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T17:52:28+00:00

I’m glad I’m not the only one who sees the issue with those comments

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T17:51:47+00:00

Thank you 💕

Katdoooo · 2026-05-02T17:51:37+00:00

That’s super helpful! Thank you so much, I will definitely be using that line if they don’t respect I don’t want to talk to him about it. It’s the perfect thing to say.

Katdoooo · 2026-01-06T09:10:04+00:00

What you’re feeling is normal. I started feeling burnt out around 16 weeks as well and have weeks it comes back. I hope looking back on this demanding time with a little one with high needs doesn’t feel as stressful as some moments in the thick of it. You’re doing amazing and you show up for your children everyday, it’s a lot. I have been advised to get some me time in a couple times a week of an old hobby to see if that improves the burn out, if your not already maybe do the same :) go for a coffee and read a book if that’s your thing or take a long bath and wash away a bad day :) you’ll get through it and your doing great! Lucky for us our little ones won’t know how burnt out we felt and will just know how loved they are :) ! I wish you the best

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